Firstly I would like to start off by saying that ive seen many, many women on AW offering dom services, and as I am quite a submissive person in the bedroom,
Is this a service that gets lots of bookings, or is it even safe?
I had a moment where I saw a link between a woman being sibmissive, and a man who pays for sex so he can be in control.

But is it really safe?....ive just gathered something that makes WGs safe is that they always hqve a certain levek of control over the situation when they see a client.

Just something ive thought about and am unsure of. So thought I wo I ld ask :-)
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Yes, there are people working as pro-subs, including here.

There are issues you need to think about, but most of them are the same as vanilla escorting: establishing limits, screening, security etc.

Just because you allow someone to order you around for a time doesn't mean you're not in charge But if you disappear into sub space and don't care what happens to you, you may need to be careful.

Hi,

I'm a new pro-sub and it's been a steep learning curve. As the others have already said the first step is to be very clear about what it is you are offering. Have you any experience of BDSM or kink? Safe words, limits?

The sub is in charge, however, when the client gets going he can go into dom space. I have learned to have a discussion before sessions about the possibility that I will have to point something out to them during the session and that I am not 'taking control' but I expect them to come out of dom space to deal with the situation.

There are many safety precautions you can take to make being a pro-sub a little safer. For example, I don't have sessions without someone being within hearing distance of me shouting certain safe words (so gags aren't allowed). Nor are blind folds as I need to see what they are planning on doing in case they try to do something that hasn't been agreed to.

Danny