Hello,

I was wondering, seems lately I have a pattern of guys not being able to cum. This is "usually" not a problem, minus a few times which I'm guessing that's probably normal. This sounds bad which is why I need to say that you do not need to be "good looking" to be an escort but I'm not ugly or nothing drastic has changed in my appearance and the pictures I use to advertise. I've been taking a small dose of antidepressant now that was never a problem, in fact, the kind I'm taking made my sex encounters longer.

I started taking some medication for my ADHD and I must have made the mistake taking my second-afternoon dose before my client came. Again it's normally never a problem but I think with this client he kind of killed the mood since he wanted to come early for his appointment today and he also didn't show up once although this particularly ended up being fine because repaid me for that. It just seems I need to have all my "ducks in a row" in order for everything to go smoothly.

It seems to be a pattern as of lately. I'm not sure if my medication doesn't help but I can't go off of it and I prefer being able to get things done and not have 20 naps a day lol. It seems to happen more often now than ever and I know it sounds so bad LOL. A lot of clients tell me that they're "nervous" but I just think that's a lie lol I know that sometimes they say things just to be nice! I wish I could get some honest feedback :| Am I too mechanical? Maybe I come on too strong? Do I freak them out? Has this ever happened to you? How do you try to break free of the "escorting" routine?

Male sexuality is more complicated than is it sometimes portrayed.

They will know what the cause is - age, medicine, inexperience, other stuff on their minds* - or just that it happens with them at least some of the time.

Some of these tips may help: https://saafe.info/main/questions-and-answers/techniqueshow-to-get-the-clients-cum-quickly/

* It's not going to be you - don't listen to anyone who's had an erection or has seen you before saying otherwise. Even if they don't get an erection, it's not you.

Erectile dysfunction , libido, stress are all complicated reasons why men sometimes don't cum. Nothing much you can do about it and it's not your fault.