I can't help because I don't offer them - in my experience punters who are high or drunk are rough, clumsy and annoying plus as boring as fuck to spend time with, and I don't want them in my flat.

If you've decided you want to join in then that's your call, but I'd advise at least trying to exercise some common sense and staying straight enough to be able to act quickly if anything goes wrong. Others with more experience will be able to add, I'm sure .

Kartrina,

Having read your three posts, I would suggest that you think about what services you want to provide and set your boundaries accordingly. At the very least, remove any reference to being new to escorting from your profile. Some men prey on new escorts looking to attract a clientele, and many are just time wasters. Remember, only provide what you want to do and do not allow yourself to be swayed by someone you do not know.

Partying means many things to different people, but for the most part, it involves drinking and taking drugs with your clients. Some clients will expect you to provide the drugs (for an extra fee).

While I am happy to share a glass of something alcoholic with a client, I never exceed more than a glass, and nor will I spend time with anyone intoxicated either from alcohol, drugs or both. I would rather have my wits about me and deal with a sober client. Both substances can make people belligerent and unpredictably. It can also cause impotence or make it difficult for a man to climax, coke is particularly bad for the latter. What I will suggest is that if you do opt to share alcohol with a client, insist on sealed bottles only, or provide your own. Keep an eye on your glass at all times and for every glass you drink, drink a glass of water too.

In London anyway many of the trans escorts getting heavily involved with partying and drug use because a lot of the clients who visit trans escorts seem to be into the drugs scene too.

The reason I believe a lot of them start doing it is both that it will get them more clients and more generous clients too. I have occasionally did the party thing nothing to hard but some men are more generous when they’re under the influence let’s say. I nipped that in the bud quickly as it’s not my thing and drugs are never my thing. So I have a strict no drug policy and take sober clients only. That’s why some escorts are “party girls.” Because they can simply earn more. And yes I do earn less now but I’m mentally more happy which is most important.

This could make you a lot more money in the short term. But long term this is a disastrous path to take and I’ve seen other girls ruined over that kind of lifestyle. A girl I know who started off high end is now a Crystal meth addict and does quickies for nothing a decade after starting her career. She’s an addict now and all she cares about is getting her fix.

The glamour faded away and the high paying clients did when it all started to go tits up as is inevitable.

I would urge anyone in this industry to stay away from drugs. Escorting and drug use are not a good mix at all. There is a high probability that if you go down this route you’ll end up addicted to drugs and live each day out to pay for your fix rather than doing escorting as something that affords you a comfortable life. Stay away from it. It’s no good.

Thanks!

I am asking about things that I have enquiries about most, but let me explain...

I work as a waitress in a bar so used to drunk people. I got involved in prostitution when my boss asked me to attend a sex party he was holding I got paid. I have done 5 of them now and most of the enquires I have got is through them and getting high seems to be a popular request.

I did have 'new' in my AW description, but after six days and about 100 enquiries I got two clients, I cancelled that ad but still use AW as a reference. I advertise in a couple of fairly local publications which have brought on a few clients, not enouth.

Thanks for your answers so far, good to hear them

Kat

I work as a waitress in a bar so used to drunk people. I got involved in prostitution when my boss asked me to attend a sex party he was holding I got paid.

I was a barmaid for nine years and a bar manager in a nightclub for a couple of them, so I'm very used to drunk and high people too. That's how I know they're largely boring, obnoxious cunts that I don't want to have terrible sex with .

I can't help with the pimp boss though. Sounds grim.

Just be careful seriously  what the fuck kind of boss was he?. 

After regestering here, I wrote down the password and proptly lost it, spent hours this afternoon looking for the piece of paper I wrote it on, it disapeared. Got home about an hour ago, and it was just there sat on my desk.

I need to tidy up tomorrow.

Do you mean you getting high too?

Or just the clients?

I'd be wary of the implications there's a pimp, and I'm guessing other sex workers = legality issues plus drugs.

Chances of being caught up in a raid, or being unable to report attacks/problems/violations?

Who's supplying?

If your income starts to reply on this, your client base what happens if you want or need to stop drug use?

There are plenty of punters who'll see you sober.

I am thinking I will have to rethink this one.

Thanks everyone for the feedback youu given me, makes you think, well makes me think.

Although

I can't help with the pimp boss though. Sounds grim.

what the fuck kind of boss was he?. 

I am not sure why you guys have a problem with my boss, he did not push or threaten me to doing the parties, he just introduced me into a different line of work.