Author Topic: Party Girl (Read 3045 times)

Sophine88 · « **Reply #15 on:** 31 July 2021, 01:42:44 am »

I agree Amy. I’ve had men like this try to tell me what I should and shouldn’t do as a sex worker under the disguise of apparent good advice. Truth is some men are obsessed with the fact that women can sell their body for profit and think we all disregard our safety and are just looking to make as much as we can.

I’ve had men in my personal life suggest “oh do this, do that” or “it’ll get you more customers” while this isn’t directly coercion. It’s disgusting and any man who ever make suggestions on what I should and shouldn’t be doing with my body is dropped very quickly from my life.

My rule is never discuss or involve any man in your business as a sex worker. Not even a trusted boyfriend. No man has any right to even make suggestions on what is right and wrong to do with your body. It’s yours. Not theirs.

I despise these wannabe pimps. I’ve met many guys who sound like your boss.

amy · « **Reply #16 on:** 31 July 2021, 01:47:46 am »

That's as maybe, but my post would be no different had the person concerned been female. Generalised misandry and baseless negativity about men is not what we do here, and regardless of your view - which you're making clear in a good number of your posts - it's irrelevent to the circumstances here.

Ellie B · « **Reply #17 on:** 31 July 2021, 06:03:14 am »

Katrina.
After reading your posts I feel that you should think long and hard as to whether this line of work is really for you?

Mixing with Coke heads and drunks will end in trouble, believe me.
If you do persist, you really need to set boundaries and never advertise yourself as a newbie.

Mirror · « **Reply #18 on:** 31 July 2021, 08:02:32 am »

Plenty of pimps, organisers, agency owners are female.

lillybliss · « **Reply #19 on:** 31 July 2021, 08:41:20 am »

Exactly what Amy just said. I am not going to say anything else except, if you ask for advice (help) on this forum you probably shouldn't be rude and defensive to the people that give it to you especially as you are new here.

Katrina · « **Reply #20 on:** 31 July 2021, 11:27:47 am »

Quote from: lillybliss on 31 July 2021, 08:41:20 am

Exactly what Amy just said. I am not going to say anything else except, if you ask for advice (help) on this forum you probably shouldn't be rude and defensive to the people that give it to you especially as you are new here.

How was I rude!!!

Am I not allowed to have an opinion or view because I am new?

I am about to be rude and defensive again...

So it's illegal to be a pimp, so what?

Personally I don't see a difference between working as a prostitute and any other job. I still work as a waitress, I get paid my boss makes a profit, I wear a short skirt and heels as it generates more tips especially when people get a little tippsy. It is no different to my sister who has just been reemplyed as a trolly dolly, or my father who is an engineer, they go out do a job, get paid and someone makes a profit, they both have pimps, just legal ones.

I am going get told off now; aren't I?

barbiegirl · « **Reply #21 on:** 31 July 2021, 02:05:22 pm »

Please don’t see party clients...they are so unpredictable! As someone else has said, plenty of clients will see you sober and prefer seeing someone who doesn’t take drugs! Please please don’t get involved, you seem new to this and I used to see so many new girls at an agency I used to work at get involved in drugs as they thought it made the client spend more money. 6 months later they were not the same girl

As an indie you can choose who you see and if you put on your ads that you do not party then you won’t really come across party clients, but when you have a ‘boss’ or agent above you, then drugs are everywhere. I was very young and naive when working at an agency and drugs were involved in almost every job I was sent to, the pressure to take them was insane but I never ever backed down.

I think you should try and buddy up with another escort to learn the ropes and go indie. Work on your ad a bit more as you mentioned you had 100 enquiries but only 2 bookings. It’s much safer and you’re in control

thickthighs · « **Reply #22 on:** 31 July 2021, 02:35:07 pm »

Quote from: amy on 31 July 2021, 01:32:10 am

Inciting someone to become a prostitute is an offence as is controlling prostitution for gain - commonly known as pimping - and also managing/running a brothel. When the person concerned is already in a position of power (as an employer) and responsibility (for their employees' well being, amongst other things) it's not just repulsive, it's unlikely to be viewed kindly by anybody including the police and certainly the licensing authority.

Deciding of your own volition to enter sex work is one thing; it being suggested to you by somebody with a vested interest in you agreeing to it because they will profit from your prostitution without doing any of the work themselves is gross - the only person who should be making money out of your hard work (and shagging multiple pissed/coked up punters with an audience for what I'd suspect is not much cash sounds like bloody hard work to me) is you.

The people posting on this thread alone have well over fifty years combined sex work experience and are here giving their time and advice for free to help other sex workers make their experience of sex work as positive, productive and profitable as possible. And we think your boss is a cunt

well said Amy

Lady Frog · « **Reply #23 on:** 31 July 2021, 03:14:20 pm »

Quote from: Katrina on 31 July 2021, 12:39:16 am

I am not sure why you guys have a problem with my boss, he did not push or threaten me to doing the parties, he just introduced me into a different line of work.

I don't mean to jump on you but I don't think you understand why this is so concerning.

If he wanted to throw a sex party he could have booked any one of 100s of escorts that are probably available in your local area. Instead he asked you, a non sex-worker who already worked for him, and therefore he could tell you what to do a lot more. You already have the mindset that you are his employee and should do as he says within reason, whereas if he booked Crystal from the local agency she would tell him to Fuck Off if he bossed her around or tried to haggle her rates for example. Subconsciously you will fear losing your existing job if you argue with him and he knows that.

For someone new to all this, it sounds like a great way to make some extra cash, that he's helped you with. For someone experienced in this world, it sounds like he is manipulating you like fuck.

From experience, I was in a similar situation once (I actually had recently started doing sex work indie, but my civvy boss definitely had no idea of that). I did not go along with his plans, I could see he wanted to use me, so I didn't say no but made myself 'busy' all the time and soon left the job. He aggressively threatened to out me, make people hate me and tell everybody I was a bitch and a whore. To be fair, I already was a whore but he had no idea of that, which makes me laugh a bit! The only person who has ever made those threats to me. What he said about me (if anything) I've no idea, but it just makes me double glad I didn't go along with his plans or then he really would have had some shit to say. Just because someone doesn't appear to be pushing or threatening you doesn't mean they have your interests at heart.

Miffy · « **Reply #24 on:** 31 July 2021, 03:31:48 pm »

Quote from: Katrina on 31 July 2021, 11:27:47 am

How was I rude!!!

Am I not allowed to have an opinion or view because I am new?

I am about to be rude and defensive again...

So it's illegal to be a pimp, so what?

Personally I don't see a difference between working as a prostitute and any other job. I still work as a waitress, I get paid my boss makes a profit, I wear a short skirt and heels as it generates more tips especially when people get a little tippsy. It is no different to my sister who has just been reemplyed as a trolly dolly, or my father who is an engineer, they go out do a job, get paid and someone makes a profit, they both have pimps, just legal ones.

I am going get told off now; aren't I?

Of course it is different to an air hostess and an engineer, neither are having sex for money at the behest of someone looking to make money off them.

A decent person does not prostitute his employees. Profiteering off someone else having sex for money is amoral. If you can't understand this, then it is incredibly worrying. Your boss is scum, and you are horribly naive if you cannot grasp this.

English Green · « **Reply #25 on:** 31 July 2021, 03:34:27 pm »

I think Katrina is possibly looking at the sex work not just as paid work but more thrills for her too according to her posts of Party girl, car meets and Restraints.

I think it's been made obvious to her about the danger sides and she is aware so i am sure she will find out how this industry is after her being in it a while.

Goodluck Katrina hope it goes ok and you have no dangerous clients.

amy · « **Reply #26 on:** 31 July 2021, 03:51:45 pm »

Quote from: English Green on 31 July 2021, 03:34:27 pm

I think it's been made obvious to her about the danger sides and she is aware so i am sure she will find out how this industry is after her being in it a while.

Goodluck Katrina hope it goes ok and you have no dangerous clients.

Exactly. It's very easy to assume everything happening is fine when you don't have anything to compare it to (and comparing employed positions with self employed prostitution doesn't work). I'd assume the previous posts are probably a result of the enquiries she got when trying to put up an ad - going on the posts here it must have been a newbie hunter's dream come true.

Meanwhile, since I'm very old and boring I'll stick with nice boring office hours incalls in the privacy of my nice clean flat with my nice clean sober clients. Maybe I'll have a cup of tea and a doughnut after

Ellie B · « **Reply #27 on:** 31 July 2021, 08:29:33 pm »

Katrina,

You have come on here to get advice and we have given it. Not much more to say!

Harriet_Lille · « **Reply #28 on:** 31 August 2021, 10:17:21 am »

Quote from: Katrina on 29 July 2021, 04:02:18 pm

Thanks!

I am asking about things that I have enquiries about most, but let me explain...

I work as a waitress in a bar so used to drunk people. I got involved in prostitution when my boss asked me to attend a sex party he was holding I got paid. I have done 5 of them now and most of the enquires I have got is through them and getting high seems to be a popular request.

I did have 'new' in my AW description, but after six days and about 100 enquiries I got two clients, I cancelled that ad but still use AW as a reference. I advertise in a couple of fairly local publications which have brought on a few clients, not enouth.

Thanks for your answers so far, good to hear them

Kat

Your boss sounds creepy and exploitative. I'd distance myself from him if I were you.
Do things your own way however you feel comfortable. Don't let others dictate or persuade you otherwise.

Kescort · « **Reply #29 on:** 01 September 2021, 01:53:11 pm »

I like to party...but not with clients, with My friends and guys am seeing IRL. I have had a line with a client before, however I do not like working whilst under the influence of anything except weed. It can be a slippery slope to descend down I think. plus as was said clients that are high are annoying, take ages to cum a lot of the time aswell

See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

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