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ElleUK

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Parties & Gangbangs - info and advice needed please
« on: 08 March 2024, 06:03:02 am »
I have been approached to work at a gangbang and it is not my usual type of thing so I'm looking for some help from anyone with experience working at one, please. 

This one is held regularly with 12-15 guys at various [serviced apartments] in London.  Can be all with one girl or all with 2-3 girls which seems pretty standard.  The guy seems legit but it is hard to check given what it is.

I'm wondering if anyone has come across him or has also been approached recently.  I can provide more details via PM. Any info or advice in general including the usual rate to charge would be a huge help.

Happy to chat via PM.

Thanks  :)
« Last Edit: 08 March 2024, 09:28:02 am by SAAFE »

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Re: Parties & Gangbangs - info and advice needed please
« Reply #1 on: 08 March 2024, 09:36:00 am »
If you are new this is likely to be a fantasist/timewaster. If he was legit why would he be contacting escorts he doesn't know and with no experience to work at these events?

There are gangbang threads on the forum if you do a search :)

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Re: Parties & Gangbangs - info and advice needed please
« Reply #2 on: 08 March 2024, 02:49:09 pm »
The other thought is to see if you can find any advertising for this. If not, then either a fantasy or it is unlikely to have the clients.

For some reason - the larger sums they could plausibly promise? - inviting escorts to 'parties' was popular with predators when I used to see crime reports.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Parties & Gangbangs - info and advice needed please
« Reply #3 on: 09 March 2024, 05:25:52 am »
The other thought is to see if you can find any advertising for this. If not, then either a fantasy or it is unlikely to have the clients.

This is the answer. He will either have a website or will be active on Twitter. Adultwork used to allow parties to be advertised under the escort section but they don't anymore so nearly all the party organisers are now on Twitter. Some supplement this with a presence on Fabswingers or Fetlife. if they don't have a website and aren't on Twitter that would be a very big red flag to me.

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« Reply #4 on: 15 March 2024, 05:35:06 am »
After 12 years I dont think I have had a serious GB offer

Only a reg / my husband in a work/personal encounter

I'm not sure if I would want to do it anyway unless anybody has a very safe situation  and maybe 200 grand  ;D ;D ;D
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« Reply #5 on: 16 March 2024, 06:38:11 am »
I wouldn't waste my time on this.
It is a fantasy.

There aren't enough men out there who want to pay big money to be among 15 men and only one woman - I promise you, I know something about parties & they don't bring women big money.

You will get a crowd of men to turn up if they believe there will be a crowd of women. After the cut for the house, you won't make big money from that sort of party, but it can be fun if you are into that/ go with a friend/ and be happy to walk away with a token amount of money that might pay your transport.

Otherwise, there are small parties, perhaps you'll get 3 guys. Again they expect to pay less than if they were doing a 1 to 1 with a woman. And the organiser/ house needs paying, so it's not a huge money-maker for the woman.

Note - there's nothing wrong with parties just don't have unrealistic expectations about money. You will likely earn less than doing 1 to 1 escort work.
And finally, of course, if you are turning up alone to do a session with a group of men, how will you keep yourself & your possessions safe? You can't trust an unknown organiser.

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Re: Parties & Gangbangs - info and advice needed please
« Reply #6 on: 23 March 2024, 09:47:58 am »
I wouldn't waste my time on this.
It is a fantasy.

There aren't enough men out there who want to pay big money to be among 15 men and only one woman - I promise you, I know something about parties & they don't bring women big money.

You will get a crowd of men to turn up if they believe there will be a crowd of women. After the cut for the house, you won't make big money from that sort of party, but it can be fun if you are into that/ go with a friend/ and be happy to walk away with a token amount of money that might pay your transport.

Otherwise, there are small parties, perhaps you'll get 3 guys. Again they expect to pay less than if they were doing a 1 to 1 with a woman. And the organiser/ house needs paying, so it's not a huge money-maker for the woman.

Note - there's nothing wrong with parties just don't have unrealistic expectations about money. You will likely earn less than doing 1 to 1 escort work.
And finally, of course, if you are turning up alone to do a session with a group of men, how will you keep yourself & your possessions safe? You can't trust an unknown organiser.

The above is quite a biased opinion. There are some parties where you can make good money but I do agree there are many where the money is low. As a rule of thumb I'd say if you have an incall option then you are better off to stick with that but you rely on outcalls then they can be worthwhile. Parties in London will pay anywhere between £150 and £600 depending on duration and how many are done during the day. The big advantage is that the money is guaranteed and there are no overheads to clear other than your travel to the location and you can plan your diary around the party date. As I said in my earlier post, do your research. anyone promoting parties will have a website and will probably be on Twitter. If they aren't then you have to ask the question, how are they attracting punters.

Parties can be tough on the body and require a certain personality so consider all these facts before doing anything