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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: melissa on 30 May 2017, 06:33:12 pm
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What do you think about parties? Those where there are say 8-10 men and with 4-5 ladies. Ratio 2:1 To me it looks like swinging...!
I started thinking to participate in these if any.
Any ideas? Advice? What to be careful of
Many thanks
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I have been asked to participate in a couple of parties but unless I knew the organiser quite well and knew there would be security I would not feel safe attending. I feel any situation where the men outnumber the women could be risky and I would personally feel anxious and not be my best self. (For the same reason I don't accept MMF bookings.)
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I would imagine lots of parties would involve drinking/drugs.
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I attended a party before but made it clear my do and donts. It was a charged party it was swinging before i started excorting. My boundaries were accepted. However if i was being paid it may have been different as i wld have walked if i wasnt treated correctly xx
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Unless I knew some of the men, I would avoid. Like VC I also don't accept MMF bookings unless I have security.
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My boyfriend went to a well-known porn-star/cammer /escorts bukkake gangbang party before he had met me a year or two ago. It was hosted by her and another escort. They charged men ?40 each and had to agree to be filmed (from the neck down, no faces shown) It was her and another escort. It started off with them giving blow-jobs and most of the men had already cum at this point so by the time it got "down to it" only a few then actually had sex with them. Not for me but quite a money maker if you think about it...
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I've never liked the idea of parties but then I don't accept MFF or MFF bookings either.
I think it's the security aspect that would bother me the most.
My bf organises gang bangs in the swinging scene and the thought of it makes me go all queasy. He told me they don't shower when they arrive. I would be really concerned about hygiene and having to suck smelly cocks.
It's easy enough to get one client to wash but I don't fancy asking 8 men or more ::)
Maybe if I was a well known porn star or something I would feel differently. There's no harm in trying it though if you fancy it. With the correct security in place it might be something you'd enjoy and could be quite lucrative.
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Wow! thank you very much for the replies. OK, I'll think about it carefully
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About 10 years ago, when I was transitioning from stripper to working girl and had no idea about being an independent, I found an advert for Sacred Rose parties in Earls Court, went for an interview and started work on the same day.
It was a very busy establishment and they held 2 parties a day (3 hours each or 2 hours maybe, I can't quite remember).
There was a lovely lady who was looking after girls and looking after clients, she made sure the guys went to shower as soon as they arrived and provided snacks and refreshments.
Most guys there were regulars and atmosphere was almost family-like (if this makes sense). The guys were mainly middle-aged middle-class nondescript punters, they treated the girls with respect and generally weren't demanding.
I can't remember exact ratio, but I think it varied for guys, but there was 3 girls on day shift and 4 girls on evening shift.
All girls were lovely and were helping each other out.
There was no alcohol or drugs involved, soft drinks and snacks only.
Oh and the girls were paid 150 per shift which was 2 or 3 hours long.
I know the money was little, but the 'work' itself was easy and it gave me confidence to go out there and fly solo, also, it was a comfort working with other girls.
I think this place had been shut down a while back though.8
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Thanks for this as well. What I have been described is similar scenario to yours.
I'm tempted!
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From a safety point of view I would have thought having several men there is better then one or two?
There again I have twisted logic lol!
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Girls, thanks a lot! I'll contact the organiser and take it from there. Should I attend, I may ask somebody as a buddy(!) and then report back to you with recommendations. ;D