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xSweetCheeksx

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Panicking about my weight...
« on: 13 February 2013, 09:53:56 pm »
So i'm starting out next week and i just can't get my diet on track  :-[ Time of the month this week and today and yesterday i've pigged out like nobody's business. I plan on getting back on track tomorrow and starting running but i doubt that's going to make much difference by Tuesday. I'm currently a size 10-12 (UK size) and 36E bra so consider myself slim with curves in the right places BUT that's with clothes on and i'm not perfectly toned and know i'll have gained a couple of pounds this week from the pigging out  :( The woman who owns the agency told me before that i've not to worry and that the girls on the site are airbrushed in their pics. I told her my stomach isn't perfect when i'm sat and she also said neither are most of the girls on the site. Am i panicking for nothing or should i be panicking that my body isn't exactly perfect and is pretty bloated at the moment? Sorry if this sounds stupid.
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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #1 on: 14 February 2013, 12:01:28 am »
Hi there,

I feel your pain but I do think you're panicking a bit. I'm also starting out soon and I understand the lack of confidence in looks/weight but, as i'm sure many others will shortly tell you, different men like different things and are nowhere near as picky as us women! This is what I keep telling myself as I look down at my massive thighs or sigh over my terrible photos. If it makes you feel better by all means diet and exercise - but do it to make you feel better and healthier not to try and fit into some preconceived idea of what men want. If you advertise they will come!
I would highly recommend looking around at photos of escorts on Adult Work - you will see a massive variety of looks and sizes and you may be surprised to find that some with the highest ratings, best feedback and long careers look nothing like the model image you have in your head. I hope you have a wonderful time escorting and I believe that the more you can relax and not worry about your looks the more enjoyable you will find it.
OTOH - I haven't actually started yet so I could be talking out of my arse! Good luck anyway. 
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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #2 on: 14 February 2013, 02:08:57 am »
Hey

sorry to tell you this but there's no such thing as a 'perfect' woman. The ones in magazines are all airbrushed - the rest of us just have to do the best we can with what we've got.

I promise that if you're looking pleased to see him and give him a warm welcome, he wont care that you've been obsessing about your tummy. He'll be so grateful that you have a pulse and look vaguely like your pictures and that (Wow!) he actually gets to do it with you he really wont mind. I'm NOT an advocate of bait and switch, just want to point out that men get so entranced by the boobies and the soft skin and the lipstick they dont notice (or care) about cellulite or a bad wax job or pretty much anything else either.

Take a deep breath, make yourself look the best that you can and then relax - and smile - and it'll all be fine :)

R xx

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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #3 on: 14 February 2013, 09:21:07 am »
If you are unhappy about your weight then change it, if not don't worry about it.

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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #4 on: 14 February 2013, 09:58:34 am »
Hey Sweetcheeks!!  Have a read of Coconut Health ( just google it)  this really is the miracle stuff. Changed my life !! have a read and see what you think xxx
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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #5 on: 14 February 2013, 01:27:42 pm »
Once you take your bra off men don't notice anything else!

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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #6 on: 14 February 2013, 02:28:57 pm »
Once you take your bra off men don't notice anything else!

Or flash a bit of leg.....or start snogging them.......lot of guys are so overcome that they are gonna see a ..NAKED WOMAN!.....they really don't notice any tiny imperfections like we do.

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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #7 on: 14 February 2013, 03:07:11 pm »
Be confident, they're paying to see you... And confidence is sexy! X

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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #8 on: 14 February 2013, 03:30:36 pm »
Men like all sorts of shapes and sizes. I'm 53, 5' 2" and a size 22 with some serious flab around my waist and I still get bookings and men coming back time and time again.  Stop worrying!
I was talking to one of my regs the other night about being shocked why men book me when there are such younger, thinner, sexier models out there for the same price...some even cheaper and he said...."Well to me it doesn't really matter who sucks my dick, or who I fuck as I get the same feeling whoever it is....what I prefer is an intelligent woman who can hold a conversation and be herself, and enjoy my company."

Now I know not all men think that way, but I'm just trying to point out it really does not matter that your not toned.
I'd die to be your size with your chest....you'll be a hit!!!   
Good luck! XXX

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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #9 on: 14 February 2013, 06:48:52 pm »
I feel self concious alot of the time am size 14  now and quite plump and it always amazes me when clients say positive comments about my shape. I wear my hair down so it covers my fat face and wear certain clothes to look a better shape.
If i have no bookings i get self concious , silly really isnt it.
should just focus on whats working for me, thanks for youre  important positive feedback on this topic.  :)

xSweetCheeksx

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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #10 on: 14 February 2013, 11:16:24 pm »
Thanks so much for the replies everyone, I'm actually feeling tons better about it all now with what you've all said. I think I knew it deep down but kind of just needed the reasurance. Im not un happy with my weight, I'm just gunna seriously work on some toning.

Foxydelight, had a brief look. I love coconut so that sounds amazing, definitely going to proper look into it tomorrow :)

Sorry i haven't replied to everyone individualy, I'm currently using my phone which is a pain in the butt lol xx
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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #11 on: 15 February 2013, 05:37:17 am »
Aaahhh so glad you are feeling much better in yourself,  not many of us can say we are truly happy with  our bodies as the girls say,  confidence is the key... Walk in the room as if you own it .. i got a shock today... Went for a check up yesterday at the docs.. i dont cook in veg oil etc i use lard proper butter duck and goose fat , a ton of coconut and palm oil.. my bp and cholestrol levels fine.. ive lost 7lb since August without trying.. was proper chuffed xxx
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xSweetCheeksx

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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #12 on: 15 February 2013, 09:14:19 am »
Yup exactly and wow, well done :) wish I could lose weight that easily. I only have to sniff food and I gain :( lol xx
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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #13 on: 15 February 2013, 12:12:56 pm »
Same problem here, I'm sat on my ass all day and I have noticed some flab growing on my otherwise flat tummy. :( I also look a whole lot bloated, hopefully it's just water.

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Re: Panicking about my weight...
« Reply #14 on: 15 February 2013, 07:22:01 pm »
Im super bloated today, god knows why cause I've hardly eaten anything. Really fancy a take away though :( lol x
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