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« Reply #390 on: 09 October 2018, 05:13:26 pm »
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Re: OWO or OW
« Reply #391 on: 14 October 2018, 12:04:22 pm »
I never offered owo. I admit I would be much busier if I did as many clients ask for it when calling and therefore don’t book. But that’s ok i still do well
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Does anyone have any advice about switching from OWO to OW?
« Reply #392 on: 01 November 2018, 06:03:39 pm »
Hi everyone,

So I think I'm going to take the plunge and switch from OWO to OW as after receiving a severe warning from the sexual health nurse at my last STI check (about the risk and the risk of a client coming for me claiming I gave him something) I just don't think it's worth the risk. Plus, I'm now dating someone who knows what I do and think I love him and the thought of passing anything on to him makes me feel physically sick. Plus, I think I will feel better and a lot happier just doing OW as there's always that worry in the back of my mind that I could catch something

I'm just really worried about a drop in business from doing this as I offer a GFE and no anal or anal play so it's quite  vanilla really. I will still offer reverse oral and offer just oral.

I am thinking of writing a blog post where I explain why I am no longer offering this service (as a lot of my clients have wives and imagine if I passed something onto them and they passed it onto their wife)?

Just not sure how to go about marketing this and whether anyone has had an experience of switching from OWO to OW and whether they noticed a drop in business?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated

Thanks

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Re: Does anyone have any advice about switching from OWO to OW?
« Reply #393 on: 01 November 2018, 06:29:17 pm »
I personally do OWO, but I understand that customers who seek exclusively OWO, they will be replaced by customers seeking OW.

I do not know if this makes you have fewer reservations, but you will probably have a change of clientele.
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Re: Does anyone have any advice about switching from OWO to OW?
« Reply #394 on: 01 November 2018, 06:36:56 pm »
It's so long since I stopped doing OWO I can't find the thread I posted at the time but it's here somewhere (and there are others) :).

Basically it's exactly what Mirian said; punters for whom OWO is a deal breaker obviously won't book but then punters who want OW (and not just that but don't want to see somebody who does OWO at all) will replace them. I don't do reverse oral either.

I did write a blog post but not in an explanatory way, just to state that I was no longer offering the service - I did honour the handful of advance bookings I had and I also made sure that I told regulars when they booked since they often won't look at your ads that much. You don't need to explain your reasons for doing anything :).

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Re: Does anyone have any advice about switching from OWO to OW?
« Reply #395 on: 01 November 2018, 06:54:14 pm »
I don't see a problem for new clients so long as your advertising is clear, but you will have to tell all your regulars, and you may lose a few.
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Re: Does anyone have any advice about switching from OWO to OW?
« Reply #396 on: 01 November 2018, 06:57:34 pm »
I don't see a problem for new clients so long as your advertising is clear, but you will have to tell all your regulars, and you may lose a few.

You'll lose a few, but I found at least half of those few eventually came back. I didn't miss a single one of those who didn't.

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Re: Does anyone have any advice about switching from OWO to OW?
« Reply #397 on: 01 November 2018, 10:21:00 pm »
Hi Amy,

Thanks for the advice.
I am now a touring escort and would like to see three clients a day. Do you find that you get this? And did you find that your business dropped temporarily when you initially started offering just OW? Changed it today from OWO at discretion to OW (in a location I've been in for a couple of days) and business has literally been dead, I've not had one serious booking so I am genuinely worried. Going to stick it out for a few days though. Not sure how many guys care, whether they would still choose to see you for you, as you are still offering a GFE despite a lack of OWO? Emailed an advance booking for this month to ask him if he is OK with OW and he sent me a very arsey and nasty email saying I am far more at risk etc etc. And he likes OWO blah blah blah. 

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Re: Does anyone have any advice about switching from OWO to OW?
« Reply #398 on: 01 November 2018, 10:30:25 pm »
Hi Amy,

Thanks for the advice.
I am now a touring escort and would like to see three clients a day. Do you find that you get this? And did you find that your business dropped temporarily when you initially started offering just OW? Changed it today from OWO at discretion to OW (in a location I've been in for a couple of days) and business has literally been dead, I've not had one serious booking so I am genuinely worried. Going to stick it out for a few days though. Not sure how many guys care, whether they would still choose to see you for you, as you are still offering a GFE despite a lack of OWO? Emailed an advance booking for this month to ask him if he is OK with OW and he sent me a very arsey and nasty email saying I am far more at risk etc etc. And he likes OWO blah blah blah.

If you not sure whether the OW is the reason it is quieter test it out by changing it back to OWO at discretion and just do not do any without you do not have to if it says discretion. It is not ideal long term to do that but maybe you are worrying over nothing and it is just quieter?


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Re: Does anyone have any advice about switching from OWO to OW?
« Reply #399 on: 01 November 2018, 10:34:48 pm »
If you not sure whether the OW is the reason it is quieter test it out by changing it back to OWO at discretion and just do not do any without you do not have to if it says discretion. It is not ideal long term to do that but maybe you are worrying over nothing and it is just quieter?

A lot of men do not care about the risks from OWO and mostly the married ones they still want it without so no thought for there wife but if they did catch something they soon be angry blaming us when it is there fault for risking it in relationship where there wife has no choice and is put under risk without her consent.

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Re: Does anyone have any advice about switching from OWO to OW?
« Reply #401 on: 02 November 2018, 12:14:56 am »
Hi OP, as an indie I never did OWO and did fine. You will find that guys want to see you for you, and as other people have said, there are plenty of clients who actively want OW and will choose you for that reason. I currently work in a parlour set up where OWO is meant to be standard but I've been popping a condom on before going down and nobody has complained so far. If you want to keep OWO at discretion on your likes list without actually doing OWO, my advice is give loads of eye contact as you're unwrapping the condom and keep them focussed on you. 9 times out of 10 they won't notice or complain.
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Re: Does anyone have any advice about switching from OWO to OW?
« Reply #402 on: 02 November 2018, 12:39:10 am »
Hiya

I have offered OW from the start and it’s hasn’t been an issue in the slightest.
Some clients state they’ve specified OW in their AW searches.

I don’t tend to perform much oral as it goes.  Idk if that is because it’s OW so they’re not arsed about it getting a blowy with a rain hat on.  But clients with whom I’ve discussed this with have stated they feel safer with an OW provider.   





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Re: Does anyone have any advice about switching from OWO to OW?
« Reply #403 on: 02 November 2018, 12:21:36 pm »
after receiving a severe warning from the sexual health nurse at my last STI check (about the risk and the risk of a client coming for me claiming I gave him something)

Presumably she was able to tell you of her personal experience of passing on an STI to a client orally and he then "came after her"? Yeah thought not. She'd have got a right cat's bum face from me, if she is this judgmental she shouldn't be working in a GUM clinic.

That aside it's your choice so if it's what you want then great. I'd go with a PP's suggestion of putting it "at discretion" for now. If you want an excuse once they're in the room you could say you'd just burned the roof of your mouth badly on a scalding hot drink and therefore it's not safe to do OWO. That would let you assess whether it's OWO not being available which has caused a downturn in business.
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Re: Does anyone have any advice about switching from OWO to OW?
« Reply #404 on: 02 November 2018, 12:44:17 pm »
Personally, I don't offer OWO... it's never been an issue for me.

In future, you could put the condom on with your mouth and make it part of the routine. Hold it in your mouth with the teat facing inwards, then roll it down his shaft with your hands. You could use your lips but that's not easy without making contact. I usually use both... swallowing the shaft as I roll down with my hand. They seem to like that.
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