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TrueVoice

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OWO at Discretion
« on: 13 February 2020, 08:23:02 pm »

I am looking for advice. I advertise owo and owo at discretion. When customers call, I tell them what I don't do, and I add that I don t do owo if they have too much precum. I don ' t like precum in my mouth as I am worried to catch something from that. I don t mind OWO  otherwise. When they know that, 2 of 3 calls declined to come and I am thinking I lost a lot of customers saying that. How do you talk to customers about these things that you do at discretion on the phone? Could I have any suggestion to handle my phone calls in a better way for these services.

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Re: OWO at Discretion
« Reply #1 on: 13 February 2020, 10:10:50 pm »
Gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes, oral & genital warts (Human papillomavirus HPV) are some of the STDs that can be transfered via skin2skin without precum present.
What diseases do you think you're avoiding?

If you dislike it I wouldn't offer it at all.

I think you have a pretty good rate of conversion 1 out of 3 not bad really.
« Last Edit: 14 February 2020, 12:06:05 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: OWO at Discretion
« Reply #2 on: 13 February 2020, 10:40:00 pm »
Also just as an aside, I always feel it's better not to start out saying, "I don't do X Y & Z." I see ads like that & I think it's terribly off putting.

It definitely seems like you'd be better off not doing the OWO. I fear that will also cost you clients ~ I dunno tho, does it? It certainly would stateside. Sometimes it's difficult enough for them to get the frigging thing up as is, let alone trying to stuff it in a condom while soft.
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Re: OWO at Discretion
« Reply #3 on: 13 February 2020, 11:38:17 pm »
dont offer owo, no point bc precum will be there most of the time. thats precisely why i dont offer it.
why have cotton when you can have silk???

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Re: OWO at Discretion
« Reply #4 on: 14 February 2020, 09:38:53 am »
I don’t offer owo. When clients call I say “and you’re happy with all of my services being protected?”, rather than “I don’t do this and this or this..”

I’m busy enough with clients who don’t have any issue with me not providing owo, a few say they book me because of that reason and that they feel safer (std wise)  that way too

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« Reply #5 on: 16 February 2020, 12:52:56 pm »
Owo is such a difficult topic. It's like brexit, arguments on both sides.
I do provide owo with conditions to minimise risk.
Firstly, every client that walks through my door HAS to have a shower. No ifs, no buts. I dont start the clock during that time so my clients know the time starts when in the bedroom.

Obviously any lumps or bad smell would prompt me to say condom only but honestly that's rare to see because if any has a smelly dick which looks unhealthy they are not likely to go and see someone.

In my honest opinion, I do think if i stopped doing owo it would massively effect my work load. In over 2 years, I've rarely had someone specifically ask for oral with a condom.

On a side  note with health, minimising risks etc. I've not had any infections in my 2 yeara of working giving owo. So whilst it's possible, taking risk reduction etc does keep chances low.

Just my opinion.

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« Reply #6 on: 16 February 2020, 02:02:16 pm »
I would just say that you do OWO at discretion and when they turn up explain to them about the discretion bit and that at means discretion can and is anything at your say so.

It’s your mouth and it’s entirely your choice what you decide to put in it, covered or not. Some of these men would do well for each of us to hand them an STD pamphlet on the way out the door for those of us who do OWO (me included) to show them just how fucking risky OWO actually is, if I thought I could make money offering OW then I would do it but most of my punters are oral only so I’d be fucked!

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« Reply #7 on: 16 February 2020, 03:37:55 pm »
I would just say that you do OWO at discretion and when they turn up explain to them about the discretion bit and that at means discretion can and is anything at your say so.

It’s your mouth and it’s entirely your choice what you decide to put in it, covered or not. Some of these men would do well for each of us to hand them an STD pamphlet on the way out the door for those of us who do OWO (me included) to show them just how fucking risky OWO actually is, if I thought I could make money offering OW then I would do it but most of my punters are oral only so I’d be fucked!

I agree that business would really dry up  if stopped offering owo.

There is risks doing owo. But let's be honest, statistically, there are more chances of the being robbed at knife point on average then getting some serious condition for giving owo.

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« Reply #8 on: 16 February 2020, 04:06:58 pm »
At discretion doesn't mean much anymore.

saltysweet

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« Reply #9 on: 16 February 2020, 04:15:16 pm »
I don't bother to put at discretion on my profile.

I enjoy owo, cim, swallow, all that spunky shit it's my perve!... especially with cute clients, but I don't automatically offer it.
They have to pay a premium of £xx more.
A few of my escort clients insist on covered. My massage clients aren't interested in oral or sex at all.

I spent forever not doing owo as an escort, as clients didn't expect it.
Then at some point in history they presumed it was thrown in free.
To stop this I made an owo fee.

If I don't like his manner or hygiene I wrap it without discussion or apology. They co-operate. I ban those unloved ones so I don't care if they're miffed. I refund the 'owo' fee.


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Re: OWO at Discretion
« Reply #10 on: 16 February 2020, 05:57:26 pm »
I agree that business would really dry up  if stopped offering owo.

Mine didn't and I haven't done it OWO in ten years, or RO for maybe six? The reason people who offer OWO think all punters want OWO is because they offer it so they're getting the ones who do - if you didn't you would get the ones who don't want it (or to kiss anybody who does it, for example); ditto outcalls/incalls, and so on.

I don't think all punters like gobby Northern redheads with big tits just because the ones who book me do, I just know that the ones who want willowy blondes or athletic teenagers go elsewhere so I don't get to see them :).

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« Reply #11 on: 16 February 2020, 06:26:48 pm »
I hate OWO and hate pre cum. If you have it at discretion keep it at that and take off the one just saying OWO. You do not need to explain all that on the phone you already have it at discretion which means no guarantee of it. The ones that bring up how badly they need OWO just do not book those ones in. Majority of clients that call me do not even ask what services are happening or not happening.

I do think if you advertise as the queen bee of Oral without and deepthroat and keep writing how fantastic you are at it and it is your speciality then if you decide to go vanilla and cut that out you will probably lose a lot of clients that way as a lot might have booked you on only your hype of that service but apart from that you should be ok.

I never advertise myself in that way on pacific services as i do not want to be relied on for clients only visiting for that marketing purpose because if i stopped it could be a big impact.

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« Reply #12 on: 16 February 2020, 10:48:35 pm »
If you don't like pre-cum then I would offer OW.

Most clients won't know whether they have pre-cum or not and when you've started it's too late.

If there's one thing I've learned in this job, it's to do what you enjoy otherwise what's the point? It's like forcing down a cup of coffee if you only like tea. It leaves a bad taste, literally.

Advertise what you want to offer and it will attract the clients you want to see.