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tasha92

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Overweight Clients
« on: 13 April 2014, 04:54:56 pm »
Hi  just coming on here for a little advice regarding something. Had a client yesterday must have been 24 stone and had a small penis.

The problem I had was when it came to sex I'm only size 8 and struggled to get my legs around him which was quite awkward and things from behind weren't much better either what do you girls do in these situations??  ???

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Re: Overweight Clients
« Reply #1 on: 13 April 2014, 05:13:12 pm »
Erghhhh. I dread this type. Overweight with small penis. I'm similarly built and I find it awkward when they want penetration. In missionary or doggy, it might still be possible but they might have to lift up their guts.  With me going on top, it's near impossible and I find that I have to squat and position myself very carefully. Not exactly a sexy feeling. Kinda feels like when I use those squatting Asian toilets. It's a precarious position with the penis slipping out easily.

If I cant get him inside me successfully, I'll sweetly smile at him and try to finish him with a HJ or BJ.   

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« Reply #2 on: 13 April 2014, 05:21:27 pm »
I don't mind him he was lovely enough, very clean so I felt obliged to try and give him what he wants

Belle De Jour says you should "give the client what they want as fast as they can"  ;D

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« Reply #3 on: 13 April 2014, 05:25:19 pm »
If they are really heavy and my legs don't touch the bed when on top then I squat over them and that usually works even if they have a small penis. If they have a really, really small penis that you can't get anywhere near then suggest they move you into a position that usually works for them such as doggy.......failing that, your not a miracle worker so I have found that sometimes they just like you to give them oral or to play with yourself in front of them while they toss themselves off x

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Re: Overweight Clients
« Reply #4 on: 13 April 2014, 05:49:32 pm »
This is what I was talking about yesterday in response to a post about an overweight client. The mechanics are really difficult when the client is overweight, especially when they're small. I try to, ahem, put my hand down there and kinda hold it in- put you fingers round the base and sorta Wank it whilst going up and down in the cowgirl position, so if it slips out it stil feels good and you don't have to start over etc. Does that make sense?


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Re: Overweight Clients
« Reply #5 on: 13 April 2014, 10:08:26 pm »
The butterfly. You lay on your back with your legs off the bed, he stands at the edge of the bed at 90 degree angle to you and penetrates like that. He gets in without belly getting in the way or squishing you, and has free hands to play with your body. You can put your legs up on his shoulders or open wide or let them hang down.

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Re: Overweight Clients
« Reply #6 on: 13 April 2014, 10:56:27 pm »
Yup, I agree with Cat, I'm a butterfly girl in situations like this,  or if he insisted on laying on his back,  reverse cowgirl.  It can be difficult and a bit uncomfortable,  but if you hold his ankles there's sometimes enough wiggle space to get everything where it needs to be.  And rather than ride him,  just grind.  Lol

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Re: Overweight Clients
« Reply #7 on: 14 April 2014, 12:32:50 am »
I know the feeling I once had a client that was very big, he wanted me to ride him which was impossible as he was that wide. Ended up with him on top and my poor thighs killing me by the end as he wouldn't try any other positions, as well as me hoping he wasn't one of those types that blackout when they come.

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« Reply #8 on: 14 April 2014, 12:48:31 am »
I think I've been lucky when it comes to overweight clients. They all generally know what positions work for their body type and feel good so I've never really had a problem. Sometimes it's hard to get a small one in and stay in but yes, the squatting on top works well, as they're larger it's not so much effort to stay in that position as it's more like sitting than actual squatting.


tasha92

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« Reply #9 on: 14 April 2014, 11:36:07 am »
The butterfly sounds perfect thanks ladies  ;D


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Re: Overweight Clients
« Reply #10 on: 15 April 2014, 10:04:59 pm »

I had an issue with an overweight client with a small penis the other week, he was an absolutely lovely guy though and has re-booked for this week

The problem was he wanted to 69, and when i got into position on top to give him oral, his belly had lifted me into the air and i couldn't reach him properly, having a small winky certainly didn't make things any easier, bless him.

I didn't want to upset him by bringing it to his attention so me being the nice girl i am, told him i was close to cumming and didn't want to cum yet, therefore he should be the beneficiary of the oral first and do me afterwards.. he seemed more than happy with that suggestion and i'm %90 sure he didn't clock that i was having trouble with his size

The butterfly does sound like a good idea Cat, i've made a note of that one  :)

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Re: Overweight Clients
« Reply #11 on: 15 April 2014, 11:24:13 pm »
Riding the wave huh?  ;D I have really long legs but even I ache with the width of some. I do get off on the rolling motion though...I'm perverse. Some good advice already been said.  Also, they can lie with legs apart and you literally just sit on, reverse, keeping your legs almost together. With lube, they probably won't even notice if it's thigh or pussy, if they're small.
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Re: Overweight Clients
« Reply #12 on: 16 April 2014, 12:10:27 am »
i once had a client who was so big he took up the whole bed! no so much the issue but his attitude stunk

he booked for 3 hours and was so cold towards me , demanded i sat in a certain chair and demanded what i did when i came to sex there was no way on earth we could do it this guy must have been around 28stone

i asked him in convo wen he last had sex he said he hasnt in 10 years i told him politly i couldnt fit over him and he went mad at me , demanded a bj anf by lord it stank i doubt he had showered in days, 

when the awful 3 hours was up he tried to pay for 1 hour as we didnt ave sex!

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Re: Overweight Clients
« Reply #13 on: 16 April 2014, 01:12:38 am »
Next time englishrebecca121...try the butterfly...this guy has booked in with me again so must have been ok  ;D