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Asked to provide a monthly fee
« on: 19 March 2014, 07:57:39 am »
Hi. I've been asked to give a price for an arrangement between myself and a gent who wants to see me once a week and the occasional overnight. I have no idea of amount to suggest!
He's 70 and requires oral and straight sex. It's been a long time since I've for this and I had no idea of an amount to suggest! Can anyone give me an idea! Thanks.

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Re: Asked to provide a monthly fee
« Reply #1 on: 19 March 2014, 09:44:30 am »
What would you normally charge for these services?  I would add up what he would normally pay me, take that as a starting figure then think about what level of "discount" I might be prepared to offer.  After all, it's a fair bit of money which should come in regularly each month but it also depends how much you like/dislike having sex with him.  He seems to have been clear on how often he'd like to see you except for the "occasional" overnights.  I'd just want to be a bit clearer on how many of these he's expecting.

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Re: Asked to provide a monthly fee
« Reply #2 on: 19 March 2014, 10:16:23 am »
Hi. I've been asked to give a price for an arrangement between myself and a gent who wants to see me once a week and the occasional overnight. I have no idea of amount to suggest!

Have you been seeing him already or is this a new enquiry?

I would suggest that you make sure that you have seen him at least 5/6 times on a weekly basis before giving him a discount.

The discount is down to you and what you would be happy with, the main things to take into account are how long the weekly booking is for and do you have to travel.

It is probably better to try and give him a longer booking for his money rather than a discount.

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Re: Asked to provide a monthly fee
« Reply #3 on: 19 March 2014, 11:02:33 am »
If it's from someone you've never seen, it's highly likely to be TW.

If you have seen him, and are happy to do this, then consider getting the money upfront (say every month) before there are any discounts.
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« Reply #4 on: 19 March 2014, 02:41:17 pm »
I would personally not do any discounts for the first 3 meetings and then start offering after that. I know in my head what the least amount I would like to earn from an overnight and so on but will only work to that if it was a trusted regular or I was doing some form of special offer.

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Re: Asked to provide a monthly fee
« Reply #5 on: 19 March 2014, 07:09:33 pm »
The best thing to do is set up an amount of time each week he will be visiting plus how many overnights a month he wants and work out how much you would normally charge and give him that price but if you want to give a discount state to get that discount he needs to pay for the whole month up front.
don't let him try the old well I will pay some now and some at the end of the month or I will pay it all at the end of the month.  treat it like every booking, Pay before Play.  That way you wont be giving out cheap bookings to someone who suddenly decides he doesn't want to pay the rest of the months money
also get the agreement in writing just so you both have proof of what is being offered for the amount of time.  Also write it in a diary when he arrives and leaves in front of him so that he cannot suddenly demand extra time saying he is owed it. If you know him well enough get him to sign it
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Re: Asked to provide a monthly fee
« Reply #6 on: 19 March 2014, 08:04:34 pm »
Or after X amount of normal bookings he gets one free... Although psychologically, this can be a put off when it comes to doing the free session.

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Re: Asked to provide a monthly fee
« Reply #7 on: 19 March 2014, 08:47:00 pm »
Thank you all! What's happened is he advertised for this. A girl to see him once a week and receive a monthly allowance. We meet for first time tomorrow. I've suggested a basic monthly figure and one off overnight charges which he has agreed sound close to his idea.  We'll have to see how it goes!
By the way, what does TW mean?! Thanks

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Re: Asked to provide a monthly fee
« Reply #8 on: 20 March 2014, 01:34:33 am »
TW = timewaster

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Re: Asked to provide a monthly fee
« Reply #9 on: 20 March 2014, 06:52:09 am »
TW = timewaster
ih of course, thanks! :D

No I think he is very genuine.

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Re: Asked to provide a monthly fee
« Reply #10 on: 20 March 2014, 08:30:01 am »
Thank you all! What's happened is he advertised for this. A girl to see him once a week and receive a monthly allowance. We meet for first time tomorrow. I've suggested a basic monthly figure and one off overnight charges which he has agreed sound close to his idea.  We'll have to see how it goes!
By the way, what does TW mean?! Thanks

Make sure he pays full price for the first meeting. Classic chancer, even if he is 70.

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Re: Asked to provide a monthly fee
« Reply #11 on: 20 March 2014, 08:52:41 am »
Why do you think that he is genuine?

The simple test is that if he has not paid you for the first meeting within the first ten minutes (in cash, and certainly before he sees you in your underwear or any sexual stuff) then he's after free sex.
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Re: Asked to provide a monthly fee
« Reply #12 on: 20 March 2014, 11:55:41 am »
What's happened is he advertised for this. A girl to see him once a week and receive a monthly allowance.

In case it's not already very clear, if you are going to do this, that 'monthly allowance' HAS to be in advance.

Otherwise you will shag him for three weeks, then he will go 'I've decided that you aren't worthy, I am not paying', and you will never see the money. And the more he says he'd never do something like that, or gives any other excuse for not doing it cash upfront, the more certain it is that is exactly what would happen.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Asked to provide a monthly fee
« Reply #13 on: 21 March 2014, 06:22:20 am »
Thank you! We have agreed a pay by visit deal now - much simpler and I think it will all add up nicely!
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