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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Lorelei on 08 March 2011, 08:06:46 am
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I would like to know how about an overnight usually goes. Do your and the client ever get to sleep, or is it continuous "activity"for the whole night - the latter I would find really draining if it lasted so many hours. And if you do get to sleep, where do you keep the money? I wouldn't want to wake up and the money to have disappeared.
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Overnights can go either way; they can be all dinner, drinks, conversation and sleep interspersed with reasonable amounts of sex (anything between 1-5+ sessions, depending how 'quick' he is), or they can be all sex (possibly Viagra-stimulated, which is the worst) and you wake up at 1am (and 2am, and 3am...) with him trying to finger you. I think it's quite rare that a guy will see an overnight as a cheap way of getting literally 16 hours of non-stop sex - but it can happen. And similarly, it's quite rare that a guy will want to pay you around a grand just so that you can snuggle together all night, but that can happen, too.
The best thing to do is ascertain a particular client's expectations at the time of booking. You don't have to be like, "I can do up to 37.4 minutes of sexual activity up to 5.9 times per overnight booking, sir!" but you should find out if dinner will be involved and ideally, you should meet the client for a normal shorter booking initially so that you can find out what he's like in bed. Then you dramatically reduce the risk of spending more than an hour with a "moneysworth" (the kind of guy who gets upset if his penis isn't in an orifice for every second that he's paid for, and sees conversation/showering/etc as silly wastes of time - fortunately rare, and probably manageable for an hour, but you definitely want to avoid this - or even worse, in the case of guys with seriously bad attitudes - on an overnight).
I don't even really offer overnights anymore; they're only available to regulars, with me. But I know others here do them regularly with great success so they will probably be along shortly to tell you more about how to deal with the cash.
You're definitely right to be cautious, though - I don't know if it's just how it seems to me or whether there's a real correlation between overnight bookings (and holidays) and posts in the Warnings/Timewasters sections of the forum, but I would imagine that it could easily be a popular timewaster (or worse) tactic: Use the promise of a really highly-paid booking to make an escort more likely to fall for a scam, or to ignore her own misgivings and act with less caution, etc. I don't miss doing overnights - even a client who's great during an hour can be really difficult to constantly please during such a long time - although I'm sure I miss a few nice ones by not accepting them from new clients. Still, most of the emails that come from guys waxing lyrical about overnights, multi-day bookings, holidays and thousands and thousands of pounds seem equally nonsensical. At least it's quite easy to judge their likelihood of being a serious potential customer by their tone. :)
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Luckily I have never had an overnight that has been a complete bang-sesh. In fact, I find the clients that book for 1 - 3 hours are more likely to get as much for their money as it were, than the longer bookings. As Emily has already said a large proportion of applications for longer bookings tend to be big-shot wannabes or total time-wasters but like with all guys you develop a pretty shrewd nose for their tactics. I guess the overnight clients I have had tend to have a reasonable amount of expendable income and are less inclined to lick around bowl, and are more likely (well in sleepy Devon anyway) to just want some female company for an evening - some cuddles and snuggles and such.
I haven't developed a great method for hiding cash but I usually excuse myself with my large bag to the bathroom and slide it into the pages of a book at the bottom. Before we bed down I find some discreet reason to bring my bag to the bedside (to extract lotions and potions). I don't sleep very much on overnights and I am a light sleeper so if he went rummaging... (I've been running on hope here so if anyone has a more sophisticated scenario I would also be much obliged!)
I also make sure I fall asleep after him and I wake up early to shower, do my hair/ makeup and climb back in to bed. The clients must know I do this (unless they are completely clueless) but I like to keep up the performance. Even though I think it is unreasonable for a client to expect you to be 'active' all night - even though you can get good money for overnights your not a machine - I do think its helpful to develop a cat-like wakefulness so you stay one step ahead of the client. It also stands to reason then to not drink too much, I stick to 2/ 3 glasses if the client is offering wine or champers, which he probably is. For this reason however, I have needed after a overnight to rest for 2/ 3 days so doing them isn't always more economical then over those days seeing several shorter bookings, however getting one during the course of the week means I've satisfied my target and I can let the rest of the week come and go as it pleases.
Other than that, overnight clients I have seen have always offered eating; either dinner out or in the hotel or room service and have thickened out the evening with a bath/ hot tub/ watched a movie/ mutual massages and so on.
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Searching for 'overnight' on this board will also find plenty of other good advice.
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I am a night owl and normaly work till 2/3am looking at nearer 4 by the time im in bed/sleeping. I remember my first overnight when the gentlemen I was with announced at 12:30pm he needs his sleep now. I lay awake for hours lol
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My overnights always go differently, one was 12 hours of straight sex literally just stopping for a minute and off again another I arrived at 8pm and he was an older man who wanted to go to bed so was asleep by 12 and very happy, another one was sporadic we watched tv, had sex a few times from 10pm til 3am when it was time to sleep! I have never slept on an overnight unless its been a longer booking (weekends etc) as I always need to keep one eye on the client!
Cant really pin point how overnights go as they are so different depending on what they want but a set routine doesnt work you will usually get the how many times can I cum question...to which I normally reply I dont know how many times can you cum? ;D I tend to do maybe one a month or so but as said before they arent always as economical as short bookings as you may need 1-2 days to recover in which time if you include the booking you may have earned more with short bookings.
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I tend to try and get a feel for how they want the evening to go. If they want sex all night I ain't the girl for them!
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My overnights always go differently, one was 12 hours of straight sex literally just stopping for a minute and off again another I arrived at 8pm and he was an older man who wanted to go to bed so was asleep by 12 and very happy, another one was sporadic we watched tv, had sex a few times from 10pm til 3am when it was time to sleep! I have never slept on an overnight unless its been a longer booking (weekends etc) as I always need to keep one eye on the client!
Cant really pin point how overnights go as they are so different depending on what they want but a set routine doesnt work you will usually get the how many times can I cum question...to which I normally reply I dont know how many times can you cum? ;D I tend to do maybe one a month or so but as said before they arent always as economical as short bookings as you may need 1-2 days to recover in which time if you include the booking you may have earned more with short bookings.
I never sleep properly on an overnighter, like Rose I like to keep one eye on the money!! ;D Don't like shagathons!!!
xx
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i rarely do overnights but i have done a few in the past
for the money side of it i have a little plastic wallet that i put the money in then when he not looking i put it actually inside the pillow case :o
that way im sleeping with my money and no one is gettng there hand on it
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Overnights for me have typically been a couple of sessions
then the client cuddling up and falling asleep, usually till morning, where a further session happens.
I like to rest my head on the clients chest and wrap an arm around them
They usually like that as do I
but the main reason is that I'm awake if they move / get up.
I had an overnight a few Mondays back.
Guy in mid 40's
Non stop sex
Not on Viagra as he went limp immediately after each orgasm
But he was up for more action within 20 minutes.
Around 01:30 he suggested we move from his lounge to his bedroom
{This is after four orgasms from him}
I sigh in relief inwardly but it was very short lived.
non stop sex till about 4am.
Then he drops off.
Fifteen minutes later I start to drop off, relax and stretch.
His leg brushes me then his hand
and five minutes later we are back in full action.
This carried on till about 8 am, when I gave him a lift to work as it was on my way home.
I know I'm an escort, and as such do sex stuff. I am hired for my time with a client and within that time a client is welcome to do sex stuff But ten hours almost non stop sex! gulp!
Fortunately, most overnights are more like my first description. :)
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I know I'm an escort, and as such do sex stuff. I am hired for my time with a client and within that time a client is welcome to do sex stuff But ten hours almost non stop sex! gulp!
You're entitled to say what you will and won't do though, and that includes staying up all night. My rule is that the overnight fee covers at least six hours awake, which means if I arrive at 10pm and it's constant shagging until 4am, I'm entitled to go home and sleep in my own bed. (I've never actually done that. My first overnight was like that, which is why I have that policy, but no-one else has tried it.)