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AmelieC

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Overnight
« on: 14 July 2023, 09:54:52 pm »
Hi everyone! I never do it overnight bookings,because I work only on the daytime, till later 9pm.But lots of clients ask for overnight ,so i need some advice, ladies. How many hours it a overnight, how much it must charge ( my hour rate it s 200 )/and what they do it so much hours( for play time I don't accept more then 3times in a couple of hours) Can let me know about what kind of experience, what everyone usual do in overnight bookings? Thanks!
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FayeInLondon

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Re: Overnight
« Reply #1 on: 14 July 2023, 11:58:15 pm »
Personally I only do overnight with people who have feedback on adult work or someone I’ve seen before for at least an hour or who is regular. An overnight for me is 12 hours @ £1500. If I’m desperate I would do it from someone completely new that I haven’t seen, but I just feel it doesn’t work out as well and can be really awkward if you don’t really click or get on somehow. It’s a long time to be with someone if you don’t know what they’re like. I say I have to have 6 hours sleep minimum, breaks between rounds  and if possible we can go for drinks/food as part of the booking. It’s what I expect from an overnight but you never know what someone is like - maybe they want to ‘party’, maybe they want to stay in the room with you for 12 hours straight and only have sex and hardly sleep! … I’ve had bookings like that and it’s a painful experience… so best to clear it up beforehand. Always take a deposit as well.
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Mirror

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Re: Overnight
« Reply #2 on: 15 July 2023, 06:36:52 am »
I make it clear I need 6 hours uninterrupted sleep, I set a rate for 12-14 hours any more or any less I adjust for plus any significant travel. Someone was 'confused' about the travel, but this can turn an overnight into best part of two days which is why I still add it on. I also cover things like drug & alcohol use (I do not use either and will not be a good fit for anyone who wishes to indule in the former, or get drunk). I want a rough itinerary upfront. I have had good and bad overnights with new clients, and clients I already know. I have also had good overnights just 12-14 hours in the room, it was not constant sex but I make it clear in my adverts and when I speak to the person I am not offering this.
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Re: Overnight
« Reply #3 on: 15 July 2023, 09:09:18 am »
I had to stop offering overnights because I noticed most overnight clients seemed to really want their moneys worth and expect me to preform for 10 hours straight, i found it very mentally and physically draining. There is not enough money in the world for me to start offering them again. The maximum I offer to anyone now is 3 hours. But obviously everyone is different and it’s possible you can have a great time and make loads of £. Good luck X
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Re: Overnight
« Reply #4 on: 15 July 2023, 11:13:29 am »
Quote from: oleyoleyWG on 15 July 2023, 09:09:18 am
I had to stop offering overnights because I noticed most overnight clients seemed to really want their moneys worth and expect me to preform for 10 hours straight, i found it very mentally and physically draining. There is not enough money in the world for me to start offering them again. The maximum I offer to anyone now is 3 hours. But obviously everyone is different and it’s possible you can have a great time and make loads of £. Good luck X

Thankfully not had this but quite early on a then regular booked an overnight, spent the time I was trying to sleep staring at my back touching me - not necessarily for sex but you know just touching my arm, waist, hip, and I could just feel him awake looking at me. From then on I stipulated 'uninterupted' sleep. I have had someone get up repeatedly to go outside to smoke, another was experiencing extreme guilt and anxiety regards his wife and lying about his whereabouts. He was up and down continuously. We had had plenty of other long bookings, and a great overnight previously but this was the first time he'd had to lie because it was at my property not a hotel. Learned a lot from these!
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One More Rodeo

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Re: Overnight
« Reply #5 on: 15 July 2023, 07:11:13 pm »
What do you do when you can't fall asleep?
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Re: Overnight
« Reply #6 on: 15 July 2023, 07:30:55 pm »
Quote from: One More Rodeo on 15 July 2023, 07:11:13 pm
What do you do when you can't fall asleep?

I never slept on overnights, or not more than a light doze. Even if I could let my guard down enough to sleep in a bed with a stranger, I know two people who woke up to find their money gone (and in one case her purse with her cards in too).

I haven't offered them in many years but not so much because of the above - more because the amount of money I'd miss out on from other bookings coupled with the stress of having to be 'on' for hours at a time wasn't worth it for me. Even a relatively easy one left me unable to work for a couple days afterwards (and like Mirror I had one who constantly got up to go outside and smoke throughout the night 🤮), and I hate missing my usual routines enough that I'm not prepared to do it.
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Mirror

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Re: Overnight
« Reply #7 on: 15 July 2023, 07:32:06 pm »
Quote from: One More Rodeo on 15 July 2023, 07:11:13 pm
What do you do when you can't fall asleep?

Luckily I can sleep very easily as long as the other person isn't restless, sometimes I sleep better because at home I get up early and get on with various things, even if just getting to the gym. I do find the staying up late the difficult part, because I will often have been awake since 5am. I wake refreshed in the morning.  Half-past six is a lie in for me!
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AmelieC

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Re: Overnight
« Reply #8 on: 16 July 2023, 06:31:49 am »
Thanks for all advices, are really helpful. Also, I have my routine life doing on your, so I can't easily accommodate someone stranger. I will do this only if really worth it. 
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Re: Overnight
« Reply #9 on: 16 July 2023, 09:54:07 am »
My overnight bookings stopped several years ago as I didn't enjoy a single one. Being shattered all the next day due to very little sleep the night before was counter productive and even seeing the pile of cash gave me no thrill. Sleeping or trying to!  next to someone's sweaty hairy body was far from pleasant as I felt zero affection for them.

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