And how do I check a large amount of  cash  for fakes? god i  dont have this problem  with  subs, they   are to scared to get it  wrong lol

over night   for  roughly 14 hours to Dom me

Make sure you know exactly what you are getting into in terms of what he is expecting. Have you seen him before? If not, why you?

You won't be able to work the next day, so take that into account when thinking of a figure. Presumably you also charge more for subbing than domming...

Ok  soooo I have this American gent  who wants me over night   for  roughly 14 hours to Dom me, including the  rest
hes asked me to tell him how much and I truely dont know, I  dont  want to under cut myself or over price and him look elsewere so  what do you  guys recon?

Overnight with a new punter can be quite difficult , I would charge at least a thousand.

If the OP does want the booking then I think she would be out pricing herself quoting this price. 

Hi,

D/s overnights can be fine and not much more demanding than a GFE overnight if you are used to them and they float your boat on a personal level. Though you will NOT want to work the next day (possibly 8pm?).

However, I had one that was horrific. It was so demanding on a mental level. I can not stress enough how much you need to discuss beforehand so that you are damn clear on what will be expected.

With D/s stuff I only do an overnight with someone I have previously seen. The 'horrific' overnight was a new client and that was a big mistake of mine. nice guy, but expected more mentally than I could have gauged from our conversations, it was by no means the clients fault, but mine. Rookie mistake that I learned the hard way from. 

It is hard to say what your fee should be, due to area etc and what your normal rates are. But you are looking at 'premium' rates for this kind of thing as it is specialist when doing it properly and will affect your ability to work for a day or even two depending on the clients needs. That is not due to a lack of sleep that you get with the GFE overnights, but due to the mental aspect.

With D/s overnights I check in with a buddy (a real friend who is an insomniac) several times.

If this is a new client and not a regular, I would suggest on insisting on a minimum booking of an hour previously as the last thing you want to do is end up with a sadistic freak who refuses to acknowledge safe words. Forget physical, but the mental damage the wrong person could do to you in 14 hours is scary.

H x

Quote from: Rubenesque on 25 June 2013, 11:16:16 pm

Ok  soooo I have this American gent  who wants me over night   for  roughly 14 hours to Dom me, including the  rest
hes asked me to tell him how much and I truely dont know, I  dont  want to under cut myself or over price and him look elsewere so  what do you  guys recon?

Quote from: erotica on 26 June 2013, 10:44:50 am

Overnight with a new punter can be quite difficult , I would charge at least a thousand.

Depends. Pro-subs can charge that as an overnight that involves 'extreme' things can mean not working afterwards due to marks. I think for instance, Charlotte Sub on here charges ?20 per cane stroke etc.

When I do a dungeon booking with a regular of mine, I can not work for two days afterwards (generally) as a lot of clients who are new to D/s in particular expect unmarked skin.

I charge ?820 for a basic overnight, but anything more than bondage and paddles will end up being 1k.


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Ill have to bow to your experience in this one as there is no way a guy is ever going to mark me.

Seems like im learning after all these years.  Is 14 hours not kinda long for this kind of booking then? 

Im shuddering here just thinking about it. 

Theres no way I'd do even a GFE overnight with a client I hadn't seen before, let alone any booking with a sub/dom dynamic (and I only ever do a sensual Sub/Dom which doesn't involve BDSM).

You need to at the very least have a phone conversation with him regarding limits; if not as someone else has said meet in person so that you can then make an informed choice about whether to go ahead with the booking - how much you charge is secondary IMO to ensuring your safety.


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