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Pink~Princess

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Outcalls to private addresses!
« on: 26 October 2013, 12:03:17 pm »
Ladies I have just been having a look at some of the warnings on here, I have been escorting best part of 3 years now, first few months I did outcalls to private addresses but quickly realised it wasn't for me, even with checks I found myself in horrible, intimidating situations. Last one I walked into was supposed to be 1 guy, when I arrived and the door was locked behind me there was 6 of them all trying to have a free pop at me.

Anyway I see lots of warnings on here about Black men or Asian men or whatever but really I don't think its anything to do with race, I have some really lovely Asian clients. Don't get me wrong I have had problems with some Asian clients but I've had far more problems with White clients so if I was to cut out all the races of the clients that have gave me problems, there would be nobody left to see.

Having a look at some of the warnings from robberys, knifes being pulled out, being filmed, bareback pushers, clients locking you in the house, clients seriously into young children etc etc etc, it really turns my stomach and confirms once again that I feel I made the right decision NOT to offer outcalls as a service.

Us ladies are suppose to be the ones in control but I feel that as soon as you walk into they're house, you loose all control. Anything can happen.

Be interested to hear feedback on this from both ladies like me who don't offer outcalls to private homes and they're reasons why and also ladies who DO offer outcalls to private homes.

xx

Pink~Princess

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Re: Outcalls to private addresses!
« Reply #1 on: 26 October 2013, 12:05:43 pm »
Actually mods I think this maybe should be in the blather and babble section, apologies x

strawberry

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Re: Outcalls to private addresses!
« Reply #2 on: 26 October 2013, 12:52:57 pm »
PP

I am meticulous with outcall checks and as such I've not had a problem yet. I have however had an armed robbery carried out at my incall place by a client, although he did every thing to disguise who he was, and it was the result of an actual pre-booked incall appointment.

For this reason I actually feel as safe, if not safer with outcall bookings because I require a certain amount of detail, a bit more than just a first name and PAYG mobile number.

Do not become complacent about incalls, also do not think being fairly out and confident, or on your own turf will protect you. I did and the result was that I opened the door to an ordinary incall booking, and was subsequently held at knife point in my own property.
« Last Edit: 26 October 2013, 12:55:17 pm by Strawberry »

happyhappyjoyjoy

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Re: Outcalls to private addresses!
« Reply #3 on: 26 October 2013, 01:41:15 pm »
I only offer outcall bookings but not had a problem yet. I have strict guidelines i have to follow.

Pink~Princess

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Re: Outcalls to private addresses!
« Reply #4 on: 26 October 2013, 01:53:22 pm »
PP

I am meticulous with outcall checks and as such I've not had a problem yet. I have however had an armed robbery carried out at my incall place by a client, although he did every thing to disguise who he was, and it was the result of an actual pre-booked incall appointment.

For this reason I actually feel as safe, if not safer with outcall bookings because I require a certain amount of detail, a bit more than just a first name and PAYG mobile number.

Do not become complacent about incalls, also do not think being fairly out and confident, or on your own turf will protect you. I did and the result was that I opened the door to an ordinary incall booking, and was subsequently held at knife point in my own property.

You've made a really good point there, hmmmmm its one for me to think about. Thank you x

Nameless

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Re: Outcalls to private addresses!
« Reply #5 on: 26 October 2013, 02:07:18 pm »
I very rarely do outcalls these days, just doesn't seem much demand for it where I am. However when I started thats all I did, probably 50% were to private addresses.  I never had any problems, even tho back then I was clueless regarding security checks.  Now however I ask for full name, address and landline number, if they refuse to do this, then they don't get to see me.

For me the worst horror stories regarding visiting private homes are ones I've heard from agency girls.  This must be largely down to the fact that agencies just view such things as security as unimportant and girls don't get to vet their clients.  However as Indies the power is with us, as long as we do meticulous checks, and go on our gut instinct, thats all we can do really.