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billieq

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Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« on: 21 July 2020, 07:25:22 pm »
Hi everyone,
when reading about peoples screening for outcalls it seems to be common to ask for a pic of a bill to prove address, and that clients are usually happy to do this.
The clients I've asked so far to do so (about 3) have all said all their bills are online and they dont have one they can show me, which does seem plausible.
Or is this BS? Is there another way to ask for proof of address?
If they have good feedback on AW is it smart to go ahead just based on this?
Thank you xxx :) :)

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #1 on: 22 July 2020, 01:42:36 pm »
I haven't been doing this to long but I purely went on AW feedback, and so far only 1 has been wrong but that was to a hotel (just yesterday!) Thankfully he was meant to meet me downstairs so it's not like I went knocking on the wrong door.
I am going to start requesting something from now on, whether its calling the hotel and being put through to his room or bill statement. I would have thought if bills are online they would still show up the address the bill is for so I don't believe that would be a valid excuse!
Sorry this probably isn't helpful at all but thought I'd share my experience. Bottom line: majority of going on AW feedback has worked for me :)

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #2 on: 22 July 2020, 01:58:05 pm »
Prior to taking deposits which I do every time with a new client or anyone I have not seen for quite a while, I needed either a landline in the directory on which I would speak to them on, or a utility bill showing the address. A few tried to use circulars, which I declined.

I wouldn't rely on AW but that is only my experience over many years showing that feedback is only as good as the person willing to leave positive feedback, it doesn't cover let downs, no shows in which a form wasn't used or for which the other member isn't willing to leave negative if they were not comfortable.

Most of my bookings occur without even seeing AW feedback, also at the moment as far as I am aware the Escort service booking system is still inoperational so feedback isn't possible.

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #3 on: 22 July 2020, 02:52:12 pm »
For outcalls to private residences I tried asking for landline number or bill when I first started but majority of people now dont have a landline phone and those that did always seemed to be X directory and bills always seemed to be at least 6 months old. So I now just require a deposit that at leasts covers my travel and if they aren't willing to pay it then I'm not willing to see them.

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #4 on: 22 July 2020, 04:08:21 pm »
I just don't go if a guy doesn't me show proof of address.
I've had too many hoax outcalls - including when guys HAVE shown me proof of address - to risk it.
I also ask for a picture of the money with the notes spread out (so I can see the full amount) and with a note saying the day's date.

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #5 on: 22 July 2020, 06:03:26 pm »
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« Last Edit: 13 August 2021, 11:18:21 pm by sparkly_top »

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #6 on: 22 July 2020, 06:33:06 pm »
If their bills are online only, they can send you a screengrab and what I’ve insisted as an alternative to a paper bill.

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #7 on: 22 July 2020, 06:36:45 pm »
Hi everyone, I do not do outcalls, but I am interested in why getting proof of address is important? As the clients don’t give their real name anyway, so this will never at match what is on the bill!

If you don’t do outcalls, then proof of residential address probably isn’t as vital for those who visit men at their home.

If feedback is lacking, not recent or only from cam girls, I often request names of other escorts they’ve seen recently, and some kind of verifiable proof of identity, maybe a Linkedin profile or email from their work/place of business email. If a man won’t share any of this, or even his real name, I won’t see him.

But, we all have our own processes. Even if he provides everything I’ve requested, I still might not see him.

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #8 on: 22 July 2020, 10:27:49 pm »
Alternatively, you could ask for a picture of their driving licence, as this has an address on.

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #9 on: 23 July 2020, 12:50:52 am »
Hi everyone, I do not do outcalls, but I am interested in why getting proof of address is important? As the clients don’t give their real name anyway, so this will never at match what is on the bill!

It's not the name that's important - it's to prove that they are where they say they are. If they tell you they are at 85 London Road, and their water bill has that address on dated last week, you can be pretty sure they are at that address.

It is partly for security but mostly to avoid wasted travel costs for a hoax outcall (ie you being out of pocket for return taxi fare when you have to turn round and go home cos no one answered the door).

Most men are reluctant to do this. I simply ask for their address, text it to my security buddy, and insist on return travel costs before I leave, usually by bank transfer. Then when I arrive, I check that the door number etc. matches the address I texted my security buddy, and text him to confirm.
A woman, especially, if she have the misfortune of knowing anything, should conceal it as well as she can. - Jane Austen

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #10 on: 23 July 2020, 07:48:57 am »
Thanks for the responses this is so helpful! x

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #11 on: 24 July 2020, 01:30:57 am »
I only ever do outcalls if they provide proof of address via a bill in last 3 months and needs to be official bill. Mainly to avoid hoax outcalls and safety reasons. Most will be happy to provide proof of the address as they understand safety side and that weirdos try to do fake bookings. Anyone who will not provide it i would not trust and will turn them down.

If they have a problem reassuring you it is a genuine booking by doing this then why would they want a escort visiting there home anyway.

Before camera phones/ smart phones came in there was so many fake bookings for outcalls where people would just take a mobile number and trust they live where they say and this method will stop a lot of the fake bookings.

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #12 on: 24 July 2020, 02:59:13 am »
I've not had an issue with fake addresses even when I soley did outcalls. So I've never ask for proofs.

I ask 101 questions about them and the location till I'm happy. If I have a tiny doubt in a blue moon I sometimes make them stand by their open door so I can check them out from a distance before I show myself. Even then it's been fine.
« Last Edit: 24 July 2020, 03:22:28 am by saltysweet »

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #13 on: 24 July 2020, 06:39:53 pm »
I always offer them the choice of small deposit (and often I accept just £10 voucher, depending on my gut instinct and distance from me) or proof of address.
I stress that it's their choice, so they can't accuse me of conning them.

Once in a blue moon when all else has failed, I accept a photo of their open front door with the number showing..
You'd be surprised how many simply show just the door number - missing the point entirely  ::)

Like English Green said, for me it's to prevent fake Outcalls and also they have 'invested' something into the arrangement and are less likely to cancel I think

I do get caught out sometimes, usually when I am already out  in my car and too rushed to wait for details.
 It makes me absolutely bloody livid, so I try to avoid getting caught out  >:(

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Re: Outcalls - asking for utility bill/proof of address?
« Reply #14 on: 25 July 2020, 09:50:06 am »
Hi, I do a small amount of outcalls and insist on proof of Id and a £20 deposit via bank transfer, most genuine clients are happy to.  The 3 times I've accepted bookings on aw without doing so I've ended up driving an hour each way and had no shows.  Never, ever believe aw feedback, it's where I've had no shows despite having very solid feedback.  Aw feedback imho counts for nothing.  All the best.