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lovespirit

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Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« on: 28 November 2024, 09:32:41 pm »
Hello. So I have been working in a local parlour for the past month and building up regular clientele. One client really liked me and said he wanted to book me for a whole night in a hotel. He asked me how much would I charge and I had no idea. I looked around how much escorts charge for a whole night on escorting websites, but he said he didn't want an "escort" rate. I don't want to say too much and price myself out, but don't want to charge too less, especially if I'm booking the hotel. How much would people charge for an overnight outcall?
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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #1 on: 28 November 2024, 09:45:57 pm »
If he's booking you for an outcall it's up to him to provide the hotel, unless he wants you to book it after he sends you the money to do so. Otherwise it's an incall and your hotel room, so you could take some other bookings while you're there.

He's got a bloody nerve trying to talk you down to some cheapskate rate - of course he doesn't want an 'escort rate' because that would mean paying you properly! What you charge depends partly on your location and also how long you plan the booking to be (8 hours, 10, 12?) but these are tough bookings. The last one I did before I stopped offering them I charged £900, I think and that's more than ten years ago; you likely won't be up to working the next day so take that into account too.

Nowadays I'd want 12x my hourly rate, plus cover for lost earnings the next day and a premium for not being able to sleep at home in my bed, so I reckon about £5K would do it  ;D

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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #2 on: 29 November 2024, 04:07:08 am »
I wouldn’t even see this person.

Overnights are not easy, why is he telling you what rate he does and doesn’t want? Who is he to say that? Is this someone you want to spend all night with?
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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #3 on: 29 November 2024, 08:34:58 am »
You're right. Maybe I shouldn't bother with him. I've only done it once with him and he was very rough, slapped me around, did anal, did cum in mouth. He was very demanding....

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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #4 on: 29 November 2024, 09:51:23 am »
Sounds like an absolute cheapskate. Avoid.  :-*

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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #5 on: 29 November 2024, 09:53:47 am »
He wants to exploit You and get all nighter for half the price.
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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #6 on: 29 November 2024, 10:11:47 am »
Hello. So I have been working in a local parlour for the past month and building up regular clientele. One client really liked me and said he wanted to book me for a whole night in a hotel. He asked me how much would I charge and I had no idea. I looked around how much escorts charge for a whole night on escorting websites, but he said he didn't want an "escort" rate. I don't want to say too much and price myself out, but don't want to charge too less, especially if I'm booking the hotel. How much would people charge for an overnight outcall?

Do you actually want an overnight with this client?

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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #7 on: 29 November 2024, 01:03:57 pm »
You're right. Maybe I shouldn't bother with him. I've only done it once with him and he was very rough, slapped me around, did anal, did cum in mouth. He was very demanding....

We already knew that!

Presumably you consented to those things beforehand rather than him just doing them?

Personally, I wouldn't see him again at all unless I was absolutely desperate for the money. On an overnight, it's extremely likely to be all of those for hour after hour after hour.
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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #8 on: 29 November 2024, 05:33:53 pm »
OMG! That sounds horrific. I don't mind one hour, but not all night long. I did agree to anal, and OWO, but then he came in my mouth and it was too late for me to withdraw. I even ended up swallowing some of it as he had his penis pushed up right against the back of my mouth. I hurriedly moved my mouth away, but it was too late and he'd squirted some up into the back of my throat.

I guess I am being a bit greedy. I thought maybe I'd charge about £1,700 so it would be a chunk of money all in one go.

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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #9 on: 29 November 2024, 07:15:36 pm »
You're right. Maybe I shouldn't bother with him. I've only done it once with him and he was very rough, slapped me around, did anal, did cum in mouth. He was very demanding....

I totally missed this the first time around, but it sounds horrific and I'm so sorry that you had to go through that - with or without consent. I definitely think he needs to be blocked.

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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #10 on: 29 November 2024, 07:56:24 pm »
I guess I am being a bit greedy. I thought maybe I'd charge about £1,700 so it would be a chunk of money all in one go.

A lot of advice here could be replaced just by the words "don't be greedy"...

I guarantee that he's thinking of paying a lot less than that!

If I had to bet, it'll be 4-5 times what an hour at the brothel costs him. After all, 'you're getting all of it' and he 'deserves' a discount on the hourly rate because of booking so many...

'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #11 on: 29 November 2024, 07:58:09 pm »
I've changed the title of the thread to reflect reality...
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #12 on: 29 November 2024, 10:08:08 pm »
I recently had someone who wanted me to travel over 4hrs of travel time for an overnight but could only afford £500. Without a doubt I told him to naff off.

He's a cheeky twat if he doesn't want to pay you 'escorts rates. In other words proper rates.

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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #13 on: 30 November 2024, 12:01:39 am »
He's just trying his luck, if he can get you for cheap. These men will pay more than premium price for an escort they really want to see, so please don't sell yourself short.
Overnights are not easy on the body as I tend to stay awake I don't trust these men. so I used to charge £1200--£1500

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Re: Overnight with an abusive brothel client?
« Reply #14 on: 30 November 2024, 04:28:27 am »
Brothel customer often ask this it's normally just a fantasy. Plus you will probably be fired from the brothel if they found out.