Author Topic: Outcall safety checks and female clients? (Read 5012 times)

Marcie · « **on:** 24 November 2021, 03:08:16 pm »

I haven't escorted or been intimate in years and slightly overwhelmed and nervous about my first client and the emails I'm receiving.

The only thing I remember is the buzz I got from escorting.

My question " If a client with no feedback on AW requests an outcall to a hotel, what safety checks do I need to carry out "? Do I just ask for their room number and call reception to put me through to their room? Am I missing other steps I need to take. I'll obviously call them to get a gist of whether they seem genuine. I'm also only responding to people who can string more than a sentence together.

Also second question is " How normal is it to receive booking requests from women"? because i got one and I'm not sure if this is a prank because I've only ever received booking requests from couples before. Would really value some feedback. Thank you

Mirror · « **Reply #1 on:** 24 November 2021, 07:21:30 pm »

Quote from: Marcie on 24 November 2021, 03:08:16 pm

I haven't escorted or been intimate in years and slightly overwhelmed and nervous about my first client and the emails I'm receiving.

The only thing I remember is the buzz I got from escorting.

My question " If a client with no feedback on AW requests an outcall to a hotel, what safety checks do I need to carry out "? Do I just ask for their room number and call reception to put me through to their room? Am I missing other steps I need to take. I'll obviously call them to get a gist of whether they seem genuine. I'm also only responding to people who can string more than a sentence together.

Also second question is " How normal is it to receive booking requests from women"? because i got one and I'm not sure if this is a prank because I've only ever received booking requests from couples before. Would really value some feedback. Thank you

You need to be screening all clients, running the same checks regardless of AW feedback.

Bookings by women are extremely rare, apply the same rules as for men. For couples I require a phone call during which I can speak to them both. This helps prevent fantasists who will just waste time, as well as couples who'll each contact you separately, sometimes pretending to be each other.

Miffy · « **Reply #2 on:** 24 November 2021, 08:13:45 pm »

Treat each and every client as if they have no AW feedback and as Mirror says, screen all clients.

I take advance bookings, so for outcalls to hotels, I ask for a copy of the booking reservation. On the day the client has checked in, he had to furnish me with his room number. I will then call the hotel and ask for the client by name/room number. Alternatively sometimes, I just ask for the client to take a picture of him with his key outside the room. I take deposits for all outcalls, I find this cuts down on time wasters.

Mirror's advice re. women is good too. (I don't see women so can't comment but if I did, I would probably do similar).

Marcie · « **Reply #3 on:** 24 November 2021, 09:32:47 pm »

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Bookings by women are extremely rare, apply the same rules as for men. For couples I require a phone call during which I can speak to them both.

Thanks Mirror for your advice That's one experience I wont forget. Went to see a couple and the husband had told his wife that I was " just a masseuse" ! So you can probably imagine her reaction when she found a very naked masseuse sitting on top of her !

if looks could kill her her husband would be dead..........but I was young ... shit happens.

So just treat everybody the same.

Thanks Miffy, I take advanced bookings as well.

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I ask for a copy of the booking reservation. On the day the client has checked in, he had to furnish me with his room number

. Excellent suggestions! I did'nt do those checks when I was escorting before but I'll certainly be implementing those going forward.

PinkR2021 · « **Reply #4 on:** 26 November 2021, 12:56:12 pm »

I have downloaded Client Eye and Registered for NUM. Even if they have fantastic feedback on AW, I’ve had a few pop up as time wasters(multiple reports) or deemed dangerous.
It isn’t fool proof, but it’s cut down on my time waster rate.

KirstyKiss · « **Reply #5 on:** 26 November 2021, 01:10:41 pm »

So called 'fantastic feedback' clients on AW are some of the worst I've seen.

I screen the arse out of everyone. I'd rather sit and watch Netflix than see someone who doesn't tick all my boxes.

GG · « **Reply #6 on:** 26 November 2021, 02:23:22 pm »

Quote from: KBP on 26 November 2021, 01:10:41 pm

So called 'fantastic feedback' clients on AW are some of the worst I've seen.

I screen the arse out of everyone. I'd rather sit and watch Netflix than see someone who doesn't tick all my boxes.

Agreed. Don’t ever let “fantastic” AW feedback take place of old oul fashion gut instinct & screening.
I get a fair few requests from females. It seems to be becoming more popular although I’m an erotic masseuse not a full service escort x

Marcie · « **Reply #7 on:** 26 November 2021, 10:21:54 pm »

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I have downloaded Client Eye and Registered for NUM.

Thanks PinkR2021but when I google NUM it brings up the " National union of mineworkers" unless that's a euphemism for sex worker?

Hi Gina, you say

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I get a fair few requests from females. It seems to be becoming more popular although I’m an erotic masseuse not a full service escort x

. Do your female requests ever convert into bookings? Back in my hay day, I had quite a few female clients as an escort but they were always accompanied by a hubby or Bf unfortunately

it would be great to know that this was in fact " normal" and becoming a growing trend.

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So called 'fantastic feedback' clients on AW are some of the worst I've seen.

Yes KBP. This was my memory of how Aw was like years ago. Men with a huge amount of positive reviews tend to have a huge sense of entitlement and delusional belief that ( most ) of the positive reviews left by the other women are actually true

I've been getting a lot of booking requests for my escort services but the clients positive feedback is only from phone bookings or web cam bookings so positive feedback is pretty much pointless anyway.

Mirror · « **Reply #8 on:** 26 November 2021, 10:27:47 pm »

Quote from: Marcie on 26 November 2021, 10:21:54 pm

Thanks PinkR2021but when I google NUM it brings up the " National union of mineworkers" unless that's a euphemism for sex worker?

Hi Gina, you say . Do your female requests ever convert into bookings? Back in my hay day, I had quite a few female clients as an escort but they were always accompanied by a hubby or Bf unfortunately it would be great to know that this was in fact " normal" and becoming a growing trend.
Yes KBP. This was my memory of how Aw was like years ago. Men with a huge amount of positive reviews tend to have a huge sense of entitlement and delusional belief that ( most ) of the positive reviews left by the other women are actually true

I've been getting a lot of booking requests for my escort services but the clients positive feedback is only from phone bookings or web cam bookings so positive feedback is pretty much pointless anyway.

National Ugly Mugs might help.

Marcie · « **Reply #9 on:** 26 November 2021, 10:32:22 pm »

Thanks Mirror!

That sounds better than registering as a mine worker!

KirstyKiss · « **Reply #10 on:** 27 November 2021, 12:40:52 am »

Marcie,

I only ever did outcalls when I first started and did practically no security checks as I was so green! I got stood up a couple of times!
If I were to offer them now I would ask for proof of address and a 50% deposit.
If it was a hotel I would phone before I left and ask to be put through to the client to check he was there.
The thought of outcalls makes me uncomfortable now, probably because I'm too lazy plus I'd feel I was being done as I wouldn't technically be getting paid for my travel time.

Marcie · « **Reply #11 on:** 27 November 2021, 11:11:57 pm »

Hi KBP

Thanks for your advice

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I got stood up a couple of times!

that's my nightmare as well as 2. Fake notes 3. Being rejected (not that it happened before but the thought is still there ) and also rejection might just mean that there a cheap thrill seeking walker so I know that it shouldn't bother me too much.

As soon as I get enough money, I wont be offering outcalls. I use to use hotels and apartments years ago which for me was one of the fun parts about escorting. But it's back to square one for me.

At the moment I'm turning down a lot of outcall bookings because these guys expect me to do a 4 hour roundtrip for a 1.5 hr booking. So, I wouldn't say your lazy, I'd say you were smart!

Mirror · « **Reply #12 on:** 28 November 2021, 06:57:28 am »

Quote from: Marcie on 27 November 2021, 11:11:57 pm

Hi KBP

Thanks for your advice
that's my nightmare as well as 2. Fake notes 3. Being rejected (not that it happened before but the thought is still there ) and also rejection might just mean that there a cheap thrill seeking walker so I know that it shouldn't bother me too much.

As soon as I get enough money, I wont be offering outcalls. I use to use hotels and apartments years ago which for me was one of the fun parts about escorting. But it's back to square one for me.

At the moment I'm turning down a lot of outcall bookings because these guys expect me to do a 4 hour roundtrip for a 1.5 hr booking. So, I wouldn't say your lazy, I'd say you were smart!

I add quite a chunk onto my fee to cover the travel both time and expense, stating this in my advertising.

GG · « **Reply #13 on:** 28 November 2021, 09:33:22 am »

Quote from: Marcie on 26 November 2021, 10:21:54 pm

Hi Gina, you say . Do your female requests ever convert into bookings? Back in my hay day, I had quite a few female clients as an escort but they were always accompanied by a hubby or Bf unfortunately it would be great to know that this was in fact " normal" and becoming a growing trend.

Yes they do, although the number is still quite low its definitely becoming more popular x

Miffy · « **Reply #14 on:** 28 November 2021, 11:23:56 am »

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At the moment I'm turning down a lot of outcall bookings because these guys expect me to do a 4 hour roundtrip for a 1.5 hr booking.

Sod that. I only do outcalls within zone 1 (I'm in London). Additionally, if the outcall ends after 10:30pm, they need to pay for a taxi too. Deposits for all outcalls are mandatory too.

An option is to state location(s) you're willing to travel to for an outcall plus the minimum appointment length.

See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

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