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curvygrace

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Outcall procedures - how hard can it be?!!?
« on: 19 July 2015, 12:14:56 pm »
How many escorts actually do outcall procedures - particularly for private addresses?

It seems to me that not many do, and it also seems to me that many punters are put off by requests for letter heads/ landlines.

It is ironic that it it is standard to do hotel security but do none for private addresses when the latter are clearly more dangerous.

My refusal to budge on the matter is losing me work.  :FF


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Re: Outcall procedures - how hard can it be?!!?
« Reply #1 on: 19 July 2015, 12:21:04 pm »
I do outcalls sometimes.
I feel comfortable in private houses just as well as hotels.
I'm a bit lazy to travel though.
Majority of clients have been happy to give landline details.

Many don't have landlines, I don't.
So a lot of vetting may be common sense, gut.
« Last Edit: 19 July 2015, 01:07:53 pm by cheesypeas »
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Nia Hope

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Re: Outcall procedures - how hard can it be?!!?
« Reply #2 on: 19 July 2015, 12:48:51 pm »
I've never asked for clients personal details as in bills etc, I understand why some escorts do of course, I've only asked for a landline number and then most of them said no. I've gone on gut instinct and always taken a driver with me. Most clients would have laughed in my face if I'd asked for a bill,

I suppose if they don't mind giving up their real name etc then all good x
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Re: Outcall procedures - how hard can it be?!!?
« Reply #3 on: 19 July 2015, 12:58:17 pm »
If they don't have a landline and they're not on the electoral roll, then it's a deposit for me as bills/letterheads can be faked.

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Re: Outcall procedures - how hard can it be?!!?
« Reply #4 on: 19 July 2015, 01:07:54 pm »
I've never asked for clients personal details as in bills etc, I understand why some escorts do of course, I've only asked for a landline number and then most of them said no. I've gone on gut instinct and always taken a driver with me. Most clients would have laughed in my face if I'd asked for a bill,

How can you know they're going to be at the address they've given you, though?

I know there's nothing to stop them booking and then just changing their mind and not opening the door, but I wouldn't even put my coat on until I knew I was going to a pukka address where the person who had contacted me was going to be - my time's worth more than taking a risk like that.

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« Reply #5 on: 19 July 2015, 01:08:54 pm »
No one laughed in my face  ???
If you never asked, how can you predict the future?
« Last Edit: 19 July 2015, 02:03:19 pm by cheesypeas »
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« Reply #6 on: 19 July 2015, 01:23:29 pm »
I think it's just the way I got used to? I don't do outcalls nowadays but did in the past and before I discovered saafe it never crossed my mind to ask for a bill or electoral role proof, on the back of advice here I started asking for these things and yes I did get clients actually laugh and ask if I was serious.

In 10 years of doing outcalls I paid a driver and went on my gut, I had maybe 5or 6 in that period that had wasted my time, I think we put ourselves at risk doing incalls too, I've had more problems with incall jobs than outcall jobs, x
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Re: Outcall procedures - how hard can it be?!!?
« Reply #7 on: 19 July 2015, 01:45:01 pm »
I have always asked for residency proof, and or a deposit in advance.

I have this explained on my profile, and also stipulate this upfront before going ahead with arrangements.

I have not been laughed at and never had a problem, never had a TW yet.

Yes I did have a lot more problems with incalls, and after a long time did bring in a deposit system for that, which then worked really well for me.

My outcall procedure has also helped me dodge a couple of well known TWs and dangerous punters. I've also read about instances of independents and agencies who do not make such checkes, turning up to find the man not at the property, hiding around the corner or pretending they didn't make the booking. That's ok if you are ok with having your time wasted.

Gut feeling doesn't work for me even after a very long time, I've been wrong about genuine sounding men, and wrong about TW sounding clients.

Some genuine men cancel or don't turn up through genuine nerves, and my experience is that the checks give them more of a sense of commitment.

It's not foolproof but works for me, so I won't be changing what I do.

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Re: Outcall procedures - how hard can it be?!!?
« Reply #8 on: 19 July 2015, 01:58:03 pm »
How many escorts actually do outcall procedures - particularly for private addresses?

It is ironic that it it is standard to do hotel security but do none for private addresses when the latter are clearly more dangerous.

I do!
I always take a landline number. I've been caught out before and that's because I did not implement thorough security measures when I first started out.

If clients don't want to give out that information then they're not worth seeing; why should WE compromise our safety for ONE Outcall? Safety issues aside, I've had clients who have not been there at the address and who wouldn't answer the door. Guess what? No landline number (surprise surprise!).It's just not worth the drama IMO. That's another reason why I don't travel a huge distance to Outcalls; if it's not within a 30 minute drive, I don't go.

I have had situations where clients have been in mobile homes in caravan parks but they have always given me full information and met me at the gates so I had no problem ever. I vetted them thoroughly though and they were only a 10 minute drive away.

Gut instinct is what we all go on but it is not enough on its own. For example, a lorry driver tried to book me for an Outcall in his cab and my gut instinct told me he was a lovely guy BUT of course I would have to have been mad or desperate to put myself in a potentially dangerous situation.

If clients don't like it they can argue about it until the cows come home. I've managed to avoid dangerous situations because of my vetting procedures and I'm not going to change that.

Stick to your guns, Ivy!

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« Reply #9 on: 19 July 2015, 02:05:14 pm »
I understand now Nia...you already tried it.
Yes I agree both have risks.

Got an outcall to a tent once  :o...
I verified his phone and bills and it checked out fine.
Don't know how he did it...lots of wires and a landline.
It was a bit of a suprise.
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« Reply #10 on: 19 July 2015, 02:08:12 pm »
I totally agree that you should stick to what makes you feel safe, I took risks yes and I'm glad I don't have to rely on outcalls now, if you're turning down money ivy because they won't follow your procedures then I'd advise that you don't dwell on the money, I turn down loads of incalls over small things that niggle me x
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« Reply #11 on: 19 July 2015, 02:08:47 pm »
I do outcalls.
Client texts me address and I confirm booking.
Simple as that!
Every outcall I have been on has been a genuine one, maybe I've just been lucky!
If the distance of the outcall is within 30 minutes or less, I don't require a deposit.
Anything over a 30 minute drive, I ask for a deposit by bank transfer/paypal  just incase  :)

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Re: Outcall procedures - how hard can it be?!!?
« Reply #12 on: 19 July 2015, 02:23:54 pm »
You been very lucky Lola.
You been working 4 months, long may you have the luck of the Irish! ;)
« Last Edit: 19 July 2015, 02:35:53 pm by cheesypeas »
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« Reply #13 on: 19 July 2015, 02:28:32 pm »
I also don't ask for proof, might be a stupid thing but in the two and a half years I've been doing this job properly I've never had an issue with out calls to homes. Only once has a client stood me up and he had bad feedback so it was dumb of me to even take the booking. Thankfully I had only stepped foot out my door, and he wasn't answering so I went back in!

I also go by gut instinct and it has never done me wrong, I ask their address and then I search it up on google maps to see its whereabouts etc. And it's not done me any harm yet, we all do things differently I guess!

But I know I have a good gut instinct and can usually tell in a few minutes of a phone call if a guy is genuine or not. X
« Last Edit: 19 July 2015, 02:31:57 pm by MilkChocolate »

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Re: Outcall procedures - how hard can it be?!!?
« Reply #14 on: 19 July 2015, 02:33:54 pm »
I find it hard to put about deposits on my ads, just find it hard not to end up with something that's 4 paragraphs long rather than short and to the point.