Hello Girls,

How are you ?
I'm Happy to read you always,

I have today something to share:

I Had A new client.
When first contacted me , he asked for discount,
and i reply to him Good Restaurants doesn't give discounts.
He accepted, and paid what was asked.
He got enchanted after the date, that invited me to have dinner,
obviously i would ask for a Donation,
he asked for that a price, i said OK, 2 times in the same day,
first time client, would be OK to do the exception.

He got asleep , so contact me to meet next day,
We set to meet at 4pm,
and he asked me about the deal?
i asked what about? the dinner thing?
he said no! the donation.
I said, oh OK... Its = XXX amount (i discounted 100U$S from what he paid first)
he said no, you told me less (he rest 100U$S more...)
i got to think about that
the guy wanted to pay less... he was going to leave town that day...
i said OK, i will give him instead of no timing thing, 45minutes and that's all.
he was agree. so we set the time.

He didn't message me, it was 5pm,
had opportunity of a new booking, so i went to it.

I return sometime early in the afternoon, so i decided to leave him a message in case he wanted to meet us before he leaves the country.

He told me had some dinner thing with a client, and told me he will contact me after that, around 9pm
i said OK.

He got earlier than the time he told me,
which i was not ready, you know all dressed up, hair done
make up, etc. u know.

And by that by being Friday getting a cab was terrible,
i run in all as fast as i could,
i felt tired by the other booking, but made the Great effort as i could.
i walked and walked blocks until i could get on...

meanwhile i checked my emails, and he sent me something like:....
"You told me in 25 minutes you'll be here, its been almost 45 minutes, just forget it, maybe if life wants we meet again..."

by that moment i got in the cab, it was very closed from where i was, so i didn't get too much to get there
i was in 10 minutes...

I reply to him :(while in the cab), that i was arriving at his hotel by now...
i decided to keep on, i wouldn't return...
i was going to loose the chance...m.. i took the risk

I got at the lift, knocked the door,
He opened, looked like with a grin face,
I explained what happend...
He didn't seemed with attitude to do nothing
we sat down, talk a bit,
and then he told me
"I'm sorry but I'm very tired..I have my flight in 4hrs...and all this got my mojo down..."
I offer at least a massage, to relax, and see from there...
He didn't want to,

He told me that i would be compensated
and asked how much would i ask to him...
I seriously got.. shocked, like being refused... that i didn't react like i should,
i think i should have asked at least 50% of the fee, as i got all the trouble to be there,

He just offer less than that
i accepted,i didn't wanted to get in discussion, and again talking about money that front, i didn t like it
i set all in message, or emails
and I thought if some day he returns to the city,

remembers i was not rude to him, and educated about it,
which i think he wasn't....

I don't know  Girls What do you think of this experience,
Have you ever been something like this?
What Did you do?
Or What would you have done?


Thank you for reading me, (sorry my English)
and your advices, and experiences!

Have an amazing weekend.
Take care you all
Big Hugs,

Bella

This guy was excited to meet you the first time but then lost interested in you. Nevertheless he booked a night appointment. If he was so uninterested he could have cancelled, but he chose not to (and behave like an asshole instead). The problem is you arrived half an hour late (not good). He ended up paying for half of the session as an apology for changing his mind. That's fine. Had you been on time I would have made him pay the whole appointment for messing me up. I would have told him I had to cancel 2 appointments because of him. Problem is you arrived half an hour late so you don't have a leg to stand on.

He did mess you around though (at least he compensated you for it) but this appointment had "red flags" written all over it. He had been trying to bargain, had not contacted you when he was supposed to, had change the meeting time right before the appointment. In other words: He had turn into a TW. Problem is you were too exited about seeing him (more than he was) and  didn't see this.

Thank You Ana for Reading this experience,
and for your opinion,
And yes you are rite.
And i understand as well men are complicated creatures, specially the ones you don't know well...
heheheh
Well at least from mistakes
One learn,
and next time
Things would be much more better.

Have a lovely Sunday Ana,
Thank you!

Hugs,

Bella.

You Are rite, very basic.
I will follow your Advice Ana,
It was the first time i email a client to see if the meeting was still on.
But as he was leaving town that day, i didn't want to loose the chance to let the meeting proceed again.

Oh another detail i forgot to tell,
when we were starting our meeting xxx
his cellphone started ringing:
so he had to wake up and talk on the balcony of the room hotel:
first his mother, then his wife, and then wife with kids,
the poor man
had like 5 calls, distraction 100%
he couldn't cum....
we laugh at that, cause he decide the cheat destiny, destiny bite his tail,
it was some kind of funny, after big laughs and jokes he could relax.

Thank you v much Ana

Big Hugs,

Bella.