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DaisyDuck

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #15 on: 05 May 2017, 05:11:17 am »
What is the problem with some people? That's just crazy.

Try offering a small discount to book via aw. This should get more feedback, as not everyone is paying attention to her. And be sure to have on your profile that you do not offer bareback and never have. Like on the FAQ "No, I have never offered unprotected sex and I'm not going to start offering it just because you ask!"

They probably see through her, but I suppose some are intimidated by the threat of not being seen.

I would report her to aw, as well.

meetingdiversity

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #16 on: 05 May 2017, 05:37:20 pm »
You could name and shame her on your profile that she is just a jealous escort.

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #17 on: 05 May 2017, 05:51:42 pm »
You could put on your profile something like...

It has been brought to my attention there is a local escort has been spreading malicious rumours that I have previously offered bareback sex and I have STI's. I consider this to be a pathetic attempt by this escort to manipulate clients not to visit me.

One can only assume this escort is so scared of competition she has resort to malicious lies.

I HAVE NEVER OFFERED AND WILL I NEVER OFFER BAREBACK SEX. I TAKE MY HEALTH SO SERIOUS THAT ANYONE ASKING FOR BAREBACK WILL AUTOMATICALLY BE BARRED FROM BOOKING ME.
I AM A RESPONSIBLE ESCORT I HAVE UP TO DATE SEXUAL HEALTH CHECKS WHICH I CAN SHOW.

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #18 on: 05 May 2017, 05:54:38 pm »
You could name and shame her on your profile that she is just a jealous escort.

I personally think doing that is absurd and asking for even more trouble

meetingdiversity

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #19 on: 05 May 2017, 06:03:56 pm »
I personally think doing that is absurd and asking for even more trouble

Sure I thought well she is naming the Op so naming her wouldn't do no harm. Or if she hasn't verified make a new email and a new escort name with new photos might work. Using a new pc Or it might show you have an alias to clients.

Personally I would be on to contacting adult work until blue in the face. Take a few screen shots off her profile to send them.

It is aw now who can correct this.
« Last Edit: 05 May 2017, 06:14:34 pm by meetingdiversity »

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #20 on: 05 May 2017, 08:58:38 pm »
I don't want to draw more attention to it, as some potential clients may not click on her profile, as she's much older than I am.

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #21 on: 06 May 2017, 12:04:01 am »
No that would bring the issue to the attention of every prospective client.

  I would report her to AW for mentioning you on her profile.  Ignore the silly bitch, and sooner or later the guys will get sick of her behaviour as it's fun they come for not drama.  Unless they the hangers on who you wouldn't want anyway.

If you wanting to increase your feedback, maybe a day which is discounted but to receive it they must put through a booking request and leave feedback.  And you could leave them feedback. 

SophieinSurrey

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #22 on: 06 May 2017, 04:08:12 am »
I don't want to draw more attention to it, as some potential clients may not click on her profile, as she's much older than I am.
You have had some very suggestions, and none of them appear to suit you. Not sure what anyone else can say?
« Last Edit: 06 May 2017, 04:18:21 am by SophieinSurrey »

meetingdiversity

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #23 on: 06 May 2017, 08:36:10 am »
I don't want to draw more attention to it, as some potential clients may not click on her profile, as she's much older than I am.

So you will let her abuse you like this without putting up a fight?. She might alert others saying awk this one lets you run all over her. Just saying some times we need to fight for what is right. I say fight but mean fight like not to give up.


Like if I never fought I would have lost 3 grand it was only because I challenged them getting it back.

The fact that she refers to you on her Ad is concerning if it was done to me. All it takes is time and hopfully no one makes false reviews based on what her profile says. This could get very bad just give it time for alot of punters to see it.
« Last Edit: 06 May 2017, 08:40:49 am by meetingdiversity »

sweetmilf

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #24 on: 06 May 2017, 09:15:56 am »
Go to the police with sheets of "evidence", for the harassment. 

That will be the end of it, usually.

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #25 on: 06 May 2017, 10:15:15 am »
So you will let her abuse you like this without putting up a fight?

There's a difference between putting up a fight in a discreet and dignified way and publicly ranting on your advertising about somebody who most punters won't even have noticed and a situation they don't know about and have no interest in. At best you look stupid and unprofessional, at worst a bit unhinged (as well as negative and defensive, which isn't going to bring punters flocking to your door).

I had similar years ago from some silly bitch (telling punters I drank, had herpes and did bareback on the sly, that sort of thing - it was just after I stopped doing OWO and I guess her business must have got quiet so she blamed me for making people think about their health) and I ignored it completely, although I suppose I might have been tempted to contact her and ask what the fuck she was playing at privately. She's now long gone.

In the end if it came up in a booking I'd just roll my eyes and point out that she was obviously struggling if she was getting that desperate that badmouthing other women was getting her more repeat business than her service. If she'd mentioned me on her AW page I would have reported it, but that's it.

MistressMorgana

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #26 on: 06 May 2017, 10:28:13 am »
No that would bring the issue to the attention of every prospective client.

  I would report her to AW for mentioning you on her profile.  Ignore the silly bitch, and sooner or later the guys will get sick of her behaviour as it's fun they come for not drama.  Unless they the hangers on who you wouldn't want anyway.

If you wanting to increase your feedback, maybe a day which is discounted but to receive it they must put through a booking request and leave feedback.  And you could leave them feedback.

This is the best option.

meetingdiversity

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #27 on: 06 May 2017, 10:33:55 am »
There's a difference between putting up a fight in a discreet and dignified way and publicly ranting on your advertising about somebody who most punters won't even have noticed and a situation they don't know about and have no interest in. At best you look stupid and unprofessional, at worst a bit unhinged (as well as negative and defensive, which isn't going to bring punters flocking to your door).

I had similar years ago from some silly bitch (telling punters I drank, had herpes and did bareback on the sly, that sort of thing - it was just after I stopped doing OWO and I guess her business must have got quiet so she blamed me for making people think about their health) and I ignored it completely, although I suppose I might have been tempted to contact her and ask what the fuck she was playing at privately. She's now long gone.

In the end if it came up in a booking I'd just roll my eyes and point out that she was obviously struggling if she was getting that desperate that badmouthing other women was getting her more repeat business than her service. If she'd mentioned me on her AW page I would have reported it, but that's it.

What I am saying is doing nothing isn't letting them know not to do it.  It has never happened to me but if it did I would throw all my legal power in to force and get on to adult work. If you word things right clients won't know.

There are cleaver ways to do it and to get what you want.

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #28 on: 06 May 2017, 10:49:59 am »
Even though this is so frustrating and annoying I would not put up a fight as this will only fuel the fire and prolong the whole nastiness. Difficult I know, but in my opinion, its the quickest way to let this let this pass.

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #29 on: 06 May 2017, 01:29:51 pm »
Unfortunately most of us will have this happen at some point, most guys hearing a lady bad mouthing another lady will think she's an idiot and ignore, they don't want to hear it or get involved.  I doubt it will really effect your business, it will probably damage hers instead.  Is it really effecting your business, I say that as virtually no one who books me via AW leaves me feedback, probably as I never ask for it, but are you seeing your numbers down since she has started this.

Just put somewhere on your AW profile that you don't offer bareback and get regular tests done, and ignore her, she will eventually give up.  If you start an argument with someone like this it never ends well, and just makes things worse.  I think ladies doing this are quiet, not doing the money they want, and basically just jealous.