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SuperCheese

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Other escort issues
« on: 27 April 2017, 11:00:25 am »
I've just been directed to another escort's profile, as a client of mine says he can't leave me any feedback. She says that if any clients see either me or another escort, their bookings will be refused. This was under something about offering bareback. I don't offer bareback.  ??? ???

Is this just a rivalry thing or is she just being kind enough to give me some free advertisement??

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #1 on: 27 April 2017, 11:19:27 am »
It might as well be rivalry, are you in the same area as her?

It is affecting your business negatively if your client refuse to leave feedback for you fearing they will be declined by this other girl.

Try contacting her to ask what the post is about esp if you have never interacted with her or provide the service she is talking about. She is tainting you in a bad light to get more clients for herself.

meetingdiversity

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #2 on: 27 April 2017, 11:27:31 am »
That is very spiteful of her, I wonder why she chose a few out of everyone. It shouldn't matter who clients see I encourage they can see others having fun. Not that they need my approval.

It is a free choice world.

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #3 on: 27 April 2017, 01:21:36 pm »
Some people are like this, they see their clients as their own "turf" and get upset if they see anyone else. It's quite controlling and weird really and I don't understand why it happens but there are clients who will worship escorts and will do anything to please them too which only encourages it.

I guess half of them aren't crazy just doing what they can to mess with other local escorts business but I wouldn't worry much about this feedback only works to a small extent. Nobody looking for somebody to have sex with will spend hours looking for the amount of feedback they have they'll go straight for your photos and sometimes read some things to find out your measurements,name and what you'll do.  Don't get sucked into playing these games just ignore it, if a client doesn't want to leave feedback don't press the issue or you end up looking as bad as her.

SuperCheese

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #4 on: 27 April 2017, 02:15:59 pm »
Yes, it's negatively affecting my business, as now I know the reason why nobody will leave me feedback. There seems to be an escort alliance that doesn't include this other girl and I. We're the two new ones and I was doing very well to start with. This escort doesn't seem to be direct competition anyway. I don't offer PSE, nor am I 40.

I've sent her a message, which she's read and ignored.

SuperCheese

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #5 on: 27 April 2017, 02:27:46 pm »
Also, I have a feeling that a fair few of my timewasters are actually them. It's funny how quite a few have been given feedback only from local ladies. I've actually had a woman calling my work phone laughing her head off at me.

I understand this is a cut throat business, but why are this girl and I being targeted? I don't offer bareback and I value my safety. I turn down bareback requests. Nobody in my area offers it, nor do I offer things that other escorts don't.

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #6 on: 27 April 2017, 02:30:31 pm »
Perhaps you've seen a "known" (to her) barebacker? Guilty by association etc? Quite spiteful publically naming you, I'm sure you can report this to AW.

meetingdiversity

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #7 on: 27 April 2017, 02:34:33 pm »
Maybe talk to adult work about her mentioning your name on her profile being malicious. It will pad in time give them no reaction or they might do it more. Sadly a few are like this almot like they are the on AW. Stay strong focus on other things should help have you looked to increase your advertising until this passes.

Bless you it has been a bad luck streak for you so far.

SuperCheese

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #8 on: 27 April 2017, 02:42:50 pm »
I don't take bookings from anyone who asks. I think she's being malicious. I will contact AW, but I don't hold my breath.

Yeah, it seems like issue after issue! I've met some lovely clients though, after sifting through a lot of TWs.

meetingdiversity

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #9 on: 27 April 2017, 04:30:06 pm »
I don't take bookings from anyone who asks. I think she's being malicious. I will contact AW, but I don't hold my breath.

Yeah, it seems like issue after issue! I've met some lovely clients though, after sifting through a lot of TWs.

Hopefully they can help because what she is doing isn't right.

SophieinSurrey

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #10 on: 27 April 2017, 04:43:47 pm »
In the past I have had a couple of girls being silly like this. Ignore it and they usually move along to someone else. If they don't, and in the past I have had two girls get pretty silly, I have politely but firmly rung them up. In both cases they packed it in straight away as probably assumed that they were perfectly safe behind the keyboard. There is no room for jealousy in this industry, plenty of business for everyone.

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #11 on: 27 April 2017, 04:51:15 pm »
In the past I have had a couple of girls being silly like this. Ignore it and they usually move along to someone else. If they don't, and in the past I have had two girls get pretty silly, I have politely but firmly rung them up. In both cases they packed it in straight away as probably assumed that they were perfectly safe behind the keyboard. There is no room for jealousy in this industry, plenty of business for everyone.

I'm not sure how I can call her without resorting to their own dirty tricks. I don't mean anyone harm, but it's a nasty thing to do.

SophieinSurrey

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #12 on: 27 April 2017, 04:54:02 pm »
I'm not sure how I can call her without resorting to their own dirty tricks. I don't mean anyone harm, but it's a nasty thing to do.

I didn't say that you needed to be nasty, but it depends what your communication skills are like.
« Last Edit: 27 April 2017, 05:08:07 pm by SophieinSurrey »

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #13 on: 27 April 2017, 06:33:31 pm »
Maybe write something in response - keeping it professional - on your own profile?
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

SuperCheese

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #14 on: 04 May 2017, 11:39:09 pm »
Apparently, she's telling people that I used to offer bareback and that she suspects I have STIs. She doesn't show her number on her profile, so there's no way of getting it without resorting to dirty tricks.