If you stick OWO into the search, you'll find it has been discussed a few times before

I'll merge this with one of them soon, but the short answer is that everyone has their own place on the risk - reward scale; there's a market for OWO, a market for OW, and a market that doesn't care so long as you have their penis in your mouth; and ultimately it's up to you and no-one else.

Have to agree with xw5 there IS a market for OWO, OW and for clients who don't care which way they get it.

I obviously don't cater for clients where no OWO is a deal breaker but I do cater for a massive chunk of men who want a little discrete fun with an escort but who have wives and girlfriends and think the risk of OWO is too high for them incase they take something nasty back and pass it on to their wife.

Then I have clients who I see that come to me regularly but also see a selection of other ladies all offering different things.

I think your bf was thinking that as your in a relationship, you shouldn't be offering risky services incase you pass something onto him. I am surprised you haven't had this conversation with him until now.

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Was he your partner when you were doing the OWO?

There are risks to doing it. Whether or not they are worth it to you depends on a pile of things, including how much you enjoy doing OWO vs OW and what the alternatives are.

But if you're taking them, it's polite to let your partner(s) know, especially if you're not using condoms for anything with them. That doesn't mean you need to give a blow by blow (sorry!) account of every booking, but telling them that you're doing A, B and C lets them work out what risks they want to take and means you're not going to be in the position of having something and needing to conceal it from them.

I offer owo, I do worry about the safety of it and therefore regularly get checked

I tried to give ow once, and the teet on the condom damn near choked me, not sure now you girls who always do ow manage

Some people like having hundreds of etc - I'm sure I've said that oral sex is far more common in sex between men than anal is, and the vast majority is OWO.

Pee is sterile. Unless they have an infection in their genitals, they probably have more bacteria in their mouths.

I used to offer owo many years back. 

Then a few years ago I decided to withdraw this service.

Like some girls, I was worried I would lose business and I have to say I did lose some of my regulars for whom this was a must, but to be honest, the ones I lost have been replaced by those that ONLY want oral with.............

Whenever I go to my usual sex worker's clinic for a check up, I am frequently told that there are many girls offering this service and not really wanting to at all but fear they will lose money if they do not.  I have even heard it first hand from one lady I know who says she hates it but fears not offering it. 

I hate to say this and no offence to anyone that does offer owo, but one thing I did notice, is that since not offering it, the quality of my clients has improved!  I don't mean that in a detrimental way to anyone still doing this but for me, I think it was in some way a journey of progression from taking on rather more PSE bookings whereas now I am most definitely GFE and tend to prefer the less shall we say, energetic client!

The one thing that does get my back up is when guys ring me up, and knowing (as it's clearly stated on my site and profiles everywhere that I do not offer owo) that, still try to ask for it.......... some even say, oh won't you do it just for me.................

Some arrogant guy told me a few weeks back that all men want owo and didn't I know that?  .................. I think I just hung up on him then.............

Saying all of that though, anything we offer is an individual choice.  One thing I have learnt in this business is that you can't base your income/bookings/clients on what the next girl is doing because we are all different and offer a different type of persona........... 

I am pretty sure that I do have some clients that come to see me that will still go to other's for owo but still come and see me because they like me and sometimes the basic services are neither here or there, if in fact, you have built up a good relationship with a regular client and build up a good client base of your own. 

As for the bareback issue, no you cannot equate the two at all. 

I use a variety of condoms, generally my preference are durex and they do something called a light or extra thin feel but to be honest, all the ones I have used, I don't have a problem with. 

Perhaps it's just an individual thing and I am so used to it now that I don't even think about the rubber taste or feel and it's a matter of getting used to it as no way would I go without. 

You can also get flavoured condoms you know but personally for me, I think it looks funny seeing a green/red/brown rubber on a willy.......... LOL 

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