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ladyofthemansion

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Oral without. How long to do it for.
« on: 27 October 2023, 08:44:03 am »
I charge extra for this but don’t offer CIM.

I normally suck for about 5 min maybe 10 before l change to something else.

I had a guy yesterday ask to book massage and oral and l pointed out l don’t do CIM. He said that was fine as long as l sucked till he came.

Not got back to him yet as l don’t know how long he would take. I’ve never had anybody ask me to suck longer than what l do.

Am wondering if it sounds unreasonable to specify if there is a maximum amount of time l will suck. My mouth gets sore if it’s too long 😂
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Re: Oral without. How long to do it for.
« Reply #1 on: 27 October 2023, 11:02:56 am »
I would say your boundaries are yours to define. What's reasonable is going to vary significantly from person to person because we all have our own tolerance and comfort levels. The issue here is clear communication with your client so that they can decide whether what you offer is something he wants to pay for. If he decides it isn't then he wasn't the right client for you anyway.

When normally performing oral on a client; if your mouth gets sore, what would you usually do? Is it possible to switch between massage and oral until he's excited enough?

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Re: Oral without. How long to do it for.
« Reply #2 on: 27 October 2023, 11:17:46 am »
If you get a sore mouth then I don’t think you should see the client. I’m not sure how long he booked you for but sucking a dick straight and no other activity  for more than 30 mins doesn’t sound fun. Most guys can see if you’re getting a bit tired and will offer to go down on you or want kissing. I think it depends on how much it affects you. Usually if this happens I just push through it but anything after 20 mins and I’m going to need a breather. Most guys are understanding. We aren’t robots!

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Re: Oral without. How long to do it for.
« Reply #3 on: 27 October 2023, 11:19:00 am »
I agree there is no set rules and your boundary is your boundary. I too get very sore jaw and mouth due to a condition so i don't tend to offer bookings where men want oral only for a longer period. Had a couple before wanting it for most of the booking and had to tell them it's too much after a bit. If i get any calls saying they just want that i tell them i won't be suitable if they expect it for long period without anything else.

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Re: Oral without. How long to do it for.
« Reply #4 on: 27 October 2023, 11:29:37 am »
I switch to hand for a while, or a combination. Recently I've had some clients with odd breath or too much aftershave around their mouth area. Although I like kissing I've been glad of the option to perform oral.

However if someone asks for prolonged oral I will decline the booking, or only accept with a few boundaries in place eg the right to stop if I'm getting tired or sore, stipulate no facefucking, no smothering etc

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Re: Oral without. How long to do it for.
« Reply #5 on: 27 October 2023, 10:45:28 pm »
I charge extra for this but don’t offer CIM.

I normally suck for about 5 min maybe 10 before l change to something else.

I had a guy yesterday ask to book massage and oral and l pointed out l don’t do CIM. He said that was fine as long as l sucked till he came.

Not got back to him yet as l don’t know how long he would take. I’ve never had anybody ask me to suck longer than what l do.

Am wondering if it sounds unreasonable to specify if there is a maximum amount of time l will suck. My mouth gets sore if it’s too long 😂

He sounds like an arsehole. You’re not a machine. Do what you want. You’re offering a sexual experience that includes a massage not a suck and go.

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Re: Oral without. How long to do it for.
« Reply #6 on: 28 October 2023, 11:41:47 am »
As others have said, you set boundaries to suit your own comfort level but if I get anyone wanting prolonged oral, I mix it up with long slow licking, tongue flicking over the tip, playfully rubbing the tip between two fingers etc i.e. anything apart from sucking hard for sustained periods. I'm strictly no face fucking for many reasons but not least due to comfort and control.

If they ask to book a session of just or mainly oral, I make it clear that I regard it as edging and this gives me leeway to ease off every so often if I start to ache.

I also make sure I'm lying or sitting in a position that's comfortable for me and I always keep a glass of water next to the bed to keep the saliva flowing if I'm getting thirsty.

I have one regular client who always has an hour of edging via oral, we get settled into position with pillows etc and off we go. Last time I noticed his right leg stayed in the exact same position for the entire 55 minutes we were on the bed, god knows how he didn't get cramp.

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Re: Oral without. How long to do it for.
« Reply #7 on: 28 October 2023, 03:17:58 pm »
I tend to limit the time to a couple of minutes with a short break of hand work mid way to avoid CIM although I do offer it.

No matter how hard I try, I've never been good at judging when they are going to cum - a few make an announcement before it happens and some slow down their breathing

Sometimes it can be best to at least take it in my mouth to avoid a squirt in the eye - nothing worse than that  >:(

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Re: Oral without. How long to do it for.
« Reply #8 on: 28 October 2023, 05:33:52 pm »
I just accept lockjaw, because I'm far too accommodating for my own good. I like to think I'm fairly decent so mostly they CIM before I get too sore.

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Re: Oral without. How long to do it for.
« Reply #9 on: 29 October 2023, 03:36:18 pm »
I just accept lockjaw, because I'm far too accommodating for my own good. I like to think I'm fairly decent so mostly they CIM before I get too sore.

Same, many times iv given head/ff for 20/30 mins, they mostly make me stop every 5 mins so they don’t cum aha

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Re: Oral without. How long to do it for.
« Reply #10 on: 29 October 2023, 04:41:40 pm »
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Same, many times iv given head/ff for 20/30 mins, they mostly make me stop every 5 mins so they don’t cum aha

In my early days, I had a man who'd booked an hour fire off in my mouth as soon as I put my lips over it, he wasn't even fully hard. We were only like 6 or 7 minutes into it and he couldn't go again despite much effort.

Luckily he didn't get annoyed about it though.

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Re: Oral without. How long to do it for.
« Reply #11 on: 29 October 2023, 10:38:33 pm »
In my early days, I had a man who'd booked an hour fire off in my mouth as soon as I put my lips over it, he wasn't even fully hard. We were only like 6 or 7 minutes into it and he couldn't go again despite much effort.

Luckily he didn't get annoyed about it though.

Iv had this a few times lol we went up just relaxing for the rest of the time lol

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Re: Oral without. How long to do it for.
« Reply #12 on: 30 October 2023, 07:12:06 pm »
Yes, that's where my gift of the gab has to come in  ;D