He wasn't normal. Power and Control xx

Loads of that, in this industry.  Men who are probably rejected by decent civvie women for his defective personality would have to pay for sex.  I doubt they enjoy paying for it and expect you to be free if he can get away with it!   

Loads of that, in this industry.

That's not my experience at all, and I've worked in this industry on and off for thirteen and a half years.

If I was getting a high proportion of rude, problematic or otherwise unpleasant punters and a lot of poor quality enquiries I'd be having a good look at my ads to see what it was that might be attracting them? After all, the only thing they'd all have in common would be me.

I have exactly the same advert for as a year ago , and I get more and more difficult and not pleasant clients trying to have a creepy dirty talk with me. I don't do PSE.

No he was in the wrong. Infact I would have weed on his time lol . Of course you're timing the meet ffs you run a schedule based business you can't just give everyone random amounts of time you might either accidentally dock them time or accidentally miss other bookings, even if you overrun an hour  free time because the booking is so great, you still have to know where the time is going. Idoit who thinks the world revolves around him. Block him. Any other service based job time is respected: 1. Therapists, 2. Beauticians/massues 3. Builders etc, they don't have fanny fits thrown over the fact that their time is money.  we have to convince them that they're our favourite / only client.  Might feel shitty especially not being used to what is and isn't expected in this job but feel happy you didn't have to endure a boundary pushing booking.

This is a creepy world as I found.

I agree. It is a creepy world. I have seen an old guy a few times but won't see him anymore as, when I ask him the time (towards the end of a booking) he always says: 'Oh no! Why do you have to DO that???!!' in an exasperated voice. I obviously disappoint him by alluding to the fact that I'm not enjoying it so much that time doesn't matter to me.

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I feel slightly better reading these posts, thank you, Guys    Before reading these, I was like...   Life is good again. xx

I have seen an old guy a few times but won't see him anymore as, when I ask him the time (towards the end of a booking) he always says: 'Oh no! Why do you have to DO that???!!' in an exasperated voice.

I can almost hear the whiny tone from here but to be fair, there isn't any reason you should have to ask him the time - if you can't look at your phone then wear a watch. You're in charge of timekeeping, not your customers.

This is a creepy world as I found.  I had this "do you do this for money?" business as well.  So I doubt if it's rare.  I think there are punters who also expect too much from wgs or do not respect our healthy boundaries.  Since I am a newbie, I get this type of bull more often, I was assuming.   At least, we talk and discuss this far more openly.  As I said before, there's this dynamic in the current punters scene.  It's best to admit that wgs do get far more hassles due to exposure whilst punters can go back to their civvie life.

I think newbies definitely get more boundary pushers, and also people who are perceived as being more likely to back down and easier to manipulate (because of age, language difficulties and so on) but some hardcore screening ought to stop most of them getting as far as being in the same room. When they do, some assertiveness and a no nonsense approach will go a long way to putting a stop to it and whilst I know some people worry that this will be a mood killer, the fact is that by haggling, trying to get somebody to do services they don't offer or stay for longer for free or whatever, they've killed it themselves.

I think quite a few of your posts sound angry and while it's good to let off steam here if the job is really making you unhappy, not only is that not the fault of punters as a group but it's not what anybody should expect from how they choose to earn a living, and if we can all help make things a bit easier by trying to figure out why, then maybe it can improve things a bit. Nobody here (hopefully) wants anyone to be scared and miserable even if their situation isn't ideal .