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Aqua Allegoria

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Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« on: 25 September 2015, 03:32:43 pm »
Hello Ladies,


So we all get idiots, nasty clients, rude clients and then I had that thief client.

Yesterday I had a client who walked because I offended him when I told him he needed to shower.

The moment I opened the door I just KNEW I didn't like him and he would be trouble. Now I'm thinking:

What if there was a way to actually turn them down and kick them out if by any chance the moment they arrive there's that really bad vibe? So far Id say I had 7 guys I really hated doing. I screen by phone and yes sometimes they pass my screening and still like yesterday they are just "not ok".

So what if there was a way of telling them once they walk in "sorry mate, I don't like the way you sound/act, let's just leave it"

Any ideas?

cheesypeas

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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #1 on: 25 September 2015, 04:02:03 pm »
Got flood, plumbers waiting outside...sorry.
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Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #2 on: 25 September 2015, 04:07:04 pm »
Got flood, plumbers waiting outside...sorry.

Oh that's not bad. Or my flatmate is sick and throwing up crazy and needs me hahaha.

I guess me being not only picky but also kind of straightforward I would just like to be able to tell the truth: Nope, you're a rude prick, get lost:)

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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #3 on: 25 September 2015, 05:01:08 pm »
Got flood, plumbers waiting outside...sorry.

That's a classic. I've used it many times and it always works great, but you need to be a good actress.

"Hi Tony, i truly apologize for this but the landlord is coming up in ten minutes with the plumber because the neighbour downstairs has a terrible leak due to my bathroom pipe having broken.They have to throw down half of my bathroom wall!  I'm really really sorry but I have to cancel the appointment. I'll make it up for you next time"

Au revoir Tony. Good bye to you and your bad vibes.
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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #4 on: 25 September 2015, 05:15:48 pm »
I'm kicking myself for not throwing one out earlier. As soon as he came in he started moaning about other escorts in the next town along & saying he didn't like anyone on AW. Winging prick. I put up with his BS but in hindsight I'll turn ones like him away, offer 30quid back or something & say "sorry you are really being rude & I don't like your attitude so we aren't going to get along, I'd like you to leave now."

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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #5 on: 25 September 2015, 05:22:15 pm »
You could try to make them leave instead of asking them to by saying hope you dont mind my husbands cooking tea downstairs, I have diarrhea but I should be okay not to poop on you, i have a bloke dropping a gun of in ten mins but itll only take a sec Etc. but theres a chance they would still want the booking.
 I have on occasion turned people away at the door because I get a bad vibe but I do just say sorry I really don't think this is a good idea, your not who I thought you were and it's making me seriously uncomfortable." If they get arsy I put my scary voice on and demand they leave while pointing at cams.

I'd reserve it for when you get a really really bad vibe of a guy, you don't want to be randomly turning away every guy you don't auto click with. There's always a risk they'll be gobby about it and loud. Plus you never know if you piss em off if they'll leave feedback or do something spiteful.

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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #6 on: 25 September 2015, 05:32:48 pm »
I've had burglary and a couple of police officers are here taking a statement and taking photos.....
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Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #7 on: 25 September 2015, 05:33:51 pm »
You could try to make them leave instead of asking them to by saying hope you dont mind my husbands cooking tea downstairs, I have diarrhea but I should be okay not to poop on you, i have a bloke dropping a gun of in ten mins but itll only take a sec Etc. but theres a chance they would still want the booking.
 I have on occasion turned people away at the door because I get a bad vibe but I do just say sorry I really don't think this is a good idea, your not who I thought you were and it's making me seriously uncomfortable." If they get arsy I put my scary voice on and demand they leave while pointing at cams.

I'd reserve it for when you get a really really bad vibe of a guy, you don't want to be randomly turning away every guy you don't auto click with. There's always a risk they'll be gobby about it and loud. Plus you never know if you piss em off if they'll leave feedback or do something spiteful.

Thanks!!!! This is exactly the kind of advice I was looking for.
Yes there's a difference between what I call a "whatever" client (a client you don't really click with but you can still go through with the booking because you cannot expect to click with each of them)

Then there are clients who get on your nerves but ok it's still bearable. Just annoying but within the limits.

And then guys like the one yesterday. I guess since the robber I'm a bit paranoid but yes I just felt something was not ok with his passive aggressive attitude. Those guys sometimes pass my phone screening because they manage to control themselves on the phone and the nasty shows only once you open the door.

Thank you ladies xxx

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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #8 on: 25 September 2015, 05:35:06 pm »
I've had burglary and a couple of police officers are here taking a statement and taking photos.....

Or upstairs at my neighbours'. Perfect!!!

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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #9 on: 25 September 2015, 05:41:27 pm »
I'm kicking myself for not throwing one out earlier. As soon as he came in he started moaning about other escorts in the next town along & saying he didn't like anyone on AW. Winging prick. I put up with his BS but in hindsight I'll turn ones like him away, offer 30quid back or something & say "sorry you are really being rude & I don't like your attitude so we aren't going to get along, I'd like you to leave now."

Well for the previous pricks I had I actually shortened the booking and offered a bit cash back. Just to get rid of them saying I can see they do not enjoy themselves and I'm not willing to continue.

Now that I've been through a theft trauma I'm more assertive and I won't risk anything. I had a guy asking for an overnight next month, he sounded lovely but kind of overconfident type who just "knew it would be so great". Well I sent an email with my terms and conditions and never heard from him again. Thank god for that.

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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #10 on: 25 September 2015, 05:51:34 pm »
Sometimes less is so much more and I prefer to be authentic, so I say something along the lines of "I don't think we are compatible" which is a neutral statement.

Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #11 on: 25 September 2015, 06:11:50 pm »
Sometimes less is so much more and I prefer to be authentic, so I say something along the lines of "I don't think we are compatible" which is a neutral statement.

This would go much better with my philosophy AND especially with my personality.

It's just that as happyhooker says they can get vengeful and try and get some sort of revenge.

On the other hand 1) I know myself well enough to know that I won't throw someone out just for no reason and 2) guys giving bad vibes are either pathetic pricks or perfectly aware of their "bad vibes attitude"

I guess it's a thing to treat according to each individual bad vibe client and circumstances

cheesypeas

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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #12 on: 25 September 2015, 06:47:34 pm »
I have a legitimate reason for refusal as some of my equipment
is safe for use on people under a certain weight.
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Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #13 on: 25 September 2015, 06:51:48 pm »
I have a legitimate reason for refusal as some of my equipment
is safe for use on people under a certain weight.

LMAO!!!!!

cheesypeas

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Re: Open the door and oops bad vibes!!!!
« Reply #14 on: 25 September 2015, 07:01:03 pm »
It seems a bit rude but I had to ask a couple of hearty
blokes their weight at the door after a large guy demolished
the object when he sat on it. Then he said...'Is it safe?' ???
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