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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: mySecret on 11 February 2020, 06:01:29 am
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i want from my heart stop sell my body, so i know maybe sound crazy but could work to do only social event cheap of course just for a chat? i could offer only a basic massage too but mostly just company and as i am! LOL not heels. ;D like a kind tinder but i get pay? i know that maybe could be annoying listen all the drama, but maybe there are guys more shy and maybe less ready for a sexual meet?
so i could write that i am going to wear my usual gym clothes, are they sexy? i think sooo
what you think? thank you
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There's a market for absolutely everything. The size of that market is very questionable, however.
I can relate with you though. Have you thought about moving more into domination and fetish meetings? You technically are not engaging in sexual activities and the market size is substantially larger than that of the "social only meeting".
Just a thought!
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No I don't think there is a sensible market.
I've come across civvy girls who jump at the chance for a glass of fizz and dinner somewhere with a white tablecloth for free with these 'seeking arrangment' guys. Girls who dream of being treated to a 'nice Italian meal' are your competition.
Lonely, horny women are also your competition. My GF's friend, with a professional job shagged an online 'hook up' after he bought her a maconalds, I was shocked and asked her friend 'why' when she can charge...she's lonely and wants to hang out. She was visiting 1-2 awkward guys a week from hook up sites, screw them and leave all for free! They didn't even take here out.
When I was on those sites not one guy wanted to just eat.
I wouldn't waste time with this idea Secret.
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While it's not black and white, I think that a huge percentage of guys who are paying will be expecting something sexual. Otherwise why would they pay? Considering a lot of woman are on the Tinders etc and meeting and fucking for free, why would someone meet, pay and get nothing?
I don't think it would be popular at all. If it was, I think a great deal more of us would be doing it, myself included! Get paid for a nice meal and not have to suck their dick? Yes please!
I do think that as mentioned, the only way to do well with a non-sexual service is in the domination arena. This is the adult industry after all!
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;D okay bad idea! oh thank you! i do not think that i am ready to be a dominant! so okay stay on cam and content so! ::) i understand...ah many ladies outside of escort go out for free...and well thank you so much
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so i know maybe sound crazy but could work to do only social event cheap of course just for a chat?
Have you tried Whats Your Price? I got a few paid platonic meets in London -£50 for breakfast, £75-£100 for dinner dates. They give you the cash during the meal -you are not expected to sleep with them. Still, it's hard work because you have to filter through the timewasters and be active on your profile :-\
The men there are particular; they don't want to use escort services or PlentyofFish/Tinder(I just think they are too socially awkward to pull). It's very similar to Rent A Friend in Japan but nowhere near the demand or market size.
As others have mentioned, domination is more lucrative eg. humiliation and financial domination. It's definitely worth trying (on cam too, there's some submissive guys).
There's a market for everything but you really need to market yourself ; there's some platonic cuddle therapist websites and snuggle buddy services :o they exist! Charging £60 an hour! I wonder if they get regular business though...
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Wow glad to be proved wrong. I'm amazed and curious that you achieved this Philipa? Can I ask, how long is a breakfast or dinner date? Do you choose the venue? My mate told me that some were tight about what you could eat...did that crop up or could you murder the menu? ;D
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Can I ask, how long is a breakfast or dinner date? Do you choose the venue? My mate told me that some were tight about what you could eat...did that crop up or could you murder the menu? ;D
Breakfast was for 1.5 hours; dinner lasted 3 hours. Of course, some girls just take the money and leave.
I think putting what types of cuisines, or restaurants you enjoy in the profile will influence the venue you go to. For example, saying that you enjoy modern fine dining with an experimental twist..you've always wanted to try this cool venue..etc. Unless the man is really obtuse and doesn't get it.
What you could order depends entirely on the type of man he is. I was given a restricted set menu instead of the a la carte menu on one dinner date (maybe your friend experienced this?) and had to share a dessert on another date. I didn't mind though, it was still a good meal. So probably not the type of date where you can say," gimme that expensive bottle of chateau Latour wine!" But if he keeps bragging about his Amex black card and how much he likes to spend, then you can definitely call their bluff.
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Breakfast was for 1.5 hours; dinner lasted 3 hours. Of course, some girls just take the money and leave.
I think putting what types of cuisines, or restaurants you enjoy in the profile will influence the venue you go to. For example, saying that you enjoy modern fine dining with an experimental twist..you've always wanted to try this cool venue..etc. Unless the man is really obtuse and doesn't get it.
What you could order depends entirely on the type of man he is. I was given a restricted set menu instead of the a la carte menu on one dinner date (maybe your friend experienced this?) and had to share a dessert on another date. I didn't mind though, it was still a good meal. So probably not the type of date where you can say," gimme that expensive bottle of chateau Latour wine!" But if he keeps bragging about his Amex black card and how much he likes to spend, then you can definitely call their bluff.
thank you so much! i do not have statistics but some men like the not escort kinda of
...well with my diet will be difficult to do so however could be cool for other ladies if they need to find a way that it is not sexual intimate! ahah i would just ask for water and diet coke which gonna be tricky! thank you so much
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Really interesting Philipa.
You've got the patience of a saint!