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Ilia2014

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Only do outcalls/ Problem
« on: 05 January 2020, 03:52:44 pm »
Hello All,

I only do outcalls because I have a kid.

It seems to be that clients lose interest as soon as I tell them they need to book a hotel room.

My friend always books a hotel room for a day and then advertises on AW. Just not sure if that would work in London as there is so much choice?

Do you have any thoughts/ tips what I could do about it?

Phoenix

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Re: Only do outcalls/ Problem
« Reply #1 on: 06 January 2020, 01:19:28 pm »
Would you be happy to visit them in their homes also?
I have worked Outcall only for over a decade.
You need to make it crystal clear in all your advertising, so the idiots who still ring you anyway are razed down from numerous per day... to around 3 every hour  :FF

Mirror

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Re: Only do outcalls/ Problem
« Reply #2 on: 06 January 2020, 04:17:33 pm »
Would you be happy to visit them in their homes also?
I have worked Outcall only for over a decade.
You need to make it crystal clear in all your advertising, so the idiots who still ring you anyway are razed down from numerous per day... to around 3 every hour  :FF

When I switched to mainly outcall it took a good 3-6 months for callers to realise incalls were not on offer, in that time quite a few would ask me to make an exception and sneak them into my home. Some even asked me to justify why they couldn't visit me at home.

Anyhow actual outcalls and those willing and able to arrange accomodation built up, and the incall requests lessened. I did do the occasional hotel day, which kept things ticking over nicely but eventually outcall regulars as well as one-offs built up and overtook the incall requests.

Ann

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Re: Only do outcalls/ Problem
« Reply #3 on: 06 January 2020, 05:14:17 pm »
Hello All,

I only do outcalls because I have a kid.

It seems to be that clients lose interest as soon as I tell them they need to book a hotel room.

My friend always books a hotel room for a day and then advertises on AW. Just not sure if that would work in London as there is so much choice?

Do you have any thoughts/ tips what I could do about it?

Why don’t you tell them as per your profile you’re not able  to accommodate and they have three options::

1. Invite you to their place
2 They can book a hotel
3. You can book day use/hotel room for extra $$ (covering hotel cost) with a deposit to be paid. Deposit is very important in this situation because you don’t want to end up paying for the hotel if they decide to cancel. And yes plenty of clients cancels last minute or do not bother to show up

Maybe write something similar on your profile because they are thick and will ask you again and again.


Ilia2014

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Re: Only do outcalls/ Problem
« Reply #4 on: 06 January 2020, 06:46:06 pm »
I have a question about how to go about when I book a hotel for the day.

How best being discreet? Better booking in a big one and just asking them straight to the room?

Also how do they pay the deposit? PayPal?

Philipa

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Re: Only do outcalls/ Problem
« Reply #5 on: 06 January 2020, 07:11:10 pm »
I do outcalls only in London.
I book one of the busy business chain hotels. Preferable without a lift card so the client can come straight to the room. Because the hotel is busy and lots of business types during the day, it feels discreet. In my opinion it's better to book a big hotel just in case they figure out what you do. I was kicked out before from a much smaller city apartment hotel.

I have used PayPal for deposits but from a PayPal account that doesn't use my real name or address. I would be very careful about using PayPal for charge backs though. I much prefer a UK bank transfer if they have a UK bank account- you just give your sort code and account number.



Kay

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Re: Only do outcalls/ Problem
« Reply #6 on: 06 January 2020, 09:03:31 pm »
I have a question about how to go about when I book a hotel for the day.

How best being discreet? Better booking in a big one and just asking them straight to the room?

Also how do they pay the deposit? PayPal?

Do you need/expect a deposit for in-calls? Don't use PayPal for anything sex work related.

Yes, book a big anonymous hotel that isn't keycarded, and just give the clients your room number when you're sure they're there.
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