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redjx

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Keep being asked what my services are & whats included.
« on: 23 November 2015, 09:09:11 am »
Total newbie, recieved a few emails from potential clients & they keep asking what services I offer although most of my adverts state that. I just feel rude saying go look at my advert again, but I don't wanna list everything I'm willing to do as that just seems shady. What would be the best response?

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Re: Keep being asked what my services are & whats included.
« Reply #1 on: 23 November 2015, 09:14:41 am »
Total newbie, recieved a few emails from potential clients & they keep asking what services I offer although most of my adverts state that. I just feel rude saying go look at my advert again, but I don't wanna list everything I'm willing to do as that just seems shady. What would be the best response?

I always confirm my services, they want to double check whats on offer as some girls write they do so and so and they get there and they dont. Stating what services avoids you having a disgruntled punter on your hands, less hassle x

sultress000

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Re: Keep being asked what my services are & whats included.
« Reply #2 on: 23 November 2015, 09:20:09 am »
I would just saying I offer everything I say in my profile!

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Re: Keep being asked what my services are & whats included.
« Reply #3 on: 23 November 2015, 10:10:03 am »
I refer them back to my ad depending on how dumb they sound and whether I want to continue talking to them - if they sound otherwise fine, one way to do it is to ask if there's a service they're looking for in particular. Some will just be trying to get you to talk about sex on the phone, so that's one way round it :).

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Re: Keep being asked what my services are & whats included.
« Reply #4 on: 23 November 2015, 04:12:16 pm »
I always ask them on the phone if they have read my profile and are happy with what I offer, if they say yes then great. If not then as Amy said, I will l assess them personally and decide then whether or not I want to continue with that person.

Today I got off the phone without asking a new client if he had read my profile but I remembered just as he hung up so I text him asking and he responded saying yes he read it and he was happy but he likes domination which is something I don't do  ::)

So I text back saying well obviously we are incompatible and I cancelled the booking. I said that not only do i not advertise domination services but I have a clear separate tab explaining what sort of service I offer.

My service isn't for everyone and I get that but while people who expect more from me than I actually offer keep booking me, they are only going to be disappointed and my reputation is only going to suffer because of it. So if ever I was strict before, I'm even more strict now trying to avoid incompatibility if I can help it.

For those who do actually accept what I offer, my reputation is spot on.

If you have a clear advert and make sure they are happy with it then there's nothing more you can do. If they STILL go ahead and book you then it's their own fault for making the wrong choice.

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« Last Edit: 23 November 2015, 04:17:47 pm by Kendra Glasgow »

Wailing Banshee

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Re: Keep being asked what my services are & whats included.
« Reply #5 on: 23 November 2015, 11:40:58 pm »
You get a feel for it- Some blokes ask to confirm a service, which is fair enough, some are just idiots or who want to hear you say 'naughty' things. You'll figure out what makes you feel comfortable and not quickly. If it makes you feel uncomfortable (which is different to mildly irritated) don't take the booking.

If someone asks you what services you do (You'll get this a lot!) just ask them what they were interested in.
Or I say, 'all the usual services but I don't do X and Y'
Or say I couldn't possibly list everything!  what do you have in mind?
If you are asked describe or list services so in a straight forward professional manner- decent blokes will be fine with this, they just want to be sure- no need to be all breathy and sexy sounding because that'll just feed the free sex talk wankers!

If they have a genuine thing in mind they'll ask outright. If they start to list stuff then they are likely timewasters/after pervy talk!

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Re: Keep being asked what my services are & whats included.
« Reply #6 on: 24 November 2015, 05:18:13 pm »
Second what Banshee said :)