I often wonder if the guy was trying to find out if we were alone

Good point. Guys wanting to enter living room didn't really happened to me, and the only time it did, he turned out to be robber.

Oh dear my apartment is very open plan so to get through to the bedroom you have you go through the lounge and to get to the bathroom through the kitchen. But i lock all my letters and documents away and I dont have any family pictures around. It human nature to be nosey so I dont give them that opportunity.  Sometines they will want to sit on my couch and I dont mind as banal chat will count as part of their paid time. But I have fucked in my lounge about 3 times as I have a huge mirror in there .

But usually I just direct them straight into the bedroom after their shower and they are ok with that,

I'm in a flat and I close all the doors so they come in to the hall and  spare room, which I work from and have access to the bathroom. I always take money through to the off limits room where my partner usually is anyway, and bring them back a drink. A lot of people do work in the whole apartment if they don't live there so I wouldn't be offended. They just think everyone works exactly same set up x

Some of us think it cheeky. or are wary, of guys who want to use the private areas of our working space, but as you say, they may have been to visit other girls that are more than comfortable to allow this. It is not something that I could ever feel comfortable with and when I used to rent a flat I would always be looking for certain things like layout, access to be of a certain criteria that suited me.

Sarah x x x

I have a work apartment and I still don't like clients particularly ones I don't know using the lounge area. Thats the place I have things like my handbag and also my chilling between bookings area. To me my bedroom and bathroom is more than sufficient. I once had a new guy follow me from the bedroom into my kitchen when i went to get him a drink he was firmly told that this was not on. I also get clients ask for a 'tour'. I think they just don't think and assume its like going round to visit a new mate rather than a w.g providing a service.

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Quote from: Chanel on 31 December 2013, 09:32:05 pm

Oh dear my apartment is very open plan so to get through to the bedroom you have you go through the lounge and to get to the bathroom through the kitchen. But i lock all my letters and documents away and I dont have any family pictures around. It human nature to be nosey so I dont give them that opportunity.  Sometines they will want to sit on my couch and I dont mind as banal chat will count as part of their paid time. But I have fucked in my lounge about 3 times as I have a huge mirror in there .

But usually I just direct them straight into the bedroom after their shower and they are ok with that,

I would feel really weird and guilty actually if my family and friends were sitting on a couch or eating from a kitchen that I have fucked paying clients on/in.

My work room is off limits to family and friends and the rest of my flat is off limits to clients. I do like to keep things separate.

xx

I dont have a problem with sex as I dont see sex as dirty or something evil. Its natural and I enjoy it plus my clients thank God are always clean.

I dont feel bad at all as my sex work pays the rent, buys the food ect ect. Im sure my mum and dad had sex on thier couch and we all sat onit, my married school teachers may have shagged on her desk after hours, a prostitute might of had sex in a toliet cubicle I used when I went for a wee in my local KFC...I think you see where Im going with this lol. I dont feel gulity at all. I have had sex everywhere in my flat including the outside patio and that was huge turn on for me. I deserve a spanking dont I?

Sex is a natural encounter yes but being paid for sex for the hour isn't a natural encounter in my book.

Naturally though I put myself under a lot of pressure with guilt with everything in life, I cant help it, perhaps I just have a lot more respect for those I love and care about and perhaps I have more respect for myself and how I run my business and my life. I wouldn't want my mum or dad sitting their arse down on a place where a 70 year old man paid to fuck their daughter on, as silly as that may sound, its the way I feel.

And the majority of my clients are spotlessly clean too but others stink to the high heavens but their personal hygiene whether its good or bad is nothing to do with why I don't want to fuck them in my kitchen or in my lounge where I have personal things lying around and personally I do think having sex in a kitchen is dirty with bodily fluids, skin, sweat and whatever else flying around!

Like I said I just like to keep my personal space separate from my work life, that doesn't make me completely in the wrong as your post suggests. You have your opinion and I have mine which are complete opposites by the looks of things.

The way my flat is set up is that its a duplex where my work room & bathroom are on a different floor from my kitchen and livingroom so theres no need for clients to ask for a tour (which happens often) or for them to want sex in my livingroom or kitchen etc and as others have suggested, if its a new client then it makes me wary wondering why they want to check out my whole flat, of course some may just be curious but others may have another motive.

Once I get to know a client and I trust them then I have no problems with them sitting for a bit in my lounge but I still wouldn't be having sex in those parts of my house.

Yes stress and pressure and the issues that come along with them arent easy to deal with at all. Hope you feel better soon xxx