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katrina

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Re: Men who do not come
« Reply #15 on: 29 July 2016, 11:10:46 pm »
cos the more they stress about it the harder it is to get it up!


Yes definitely! All the stressing does is make it flop and the floppiness leads to more stress which leads to more floppiness...

newbieNW

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Re: Men who do not come
« Reply #16 on: 30 July 2016, 11:19:58 am »
I know viagra isn't for everyone.  Some people are not "allowed" to take it but if they have issues, all they could say is, "you know, it's not you, I still enjoy our time together".   "don't worry about it, it happens" etc.  Some may be embarrassed by it but some people don't seem to realise that blue pill can / could / might help instead of looking at escort saying nothing.  I saw a relatively young chap, not obese, fit looking one.   He had this issue.  He seemed kind of grumpy, as if I didn't "help" enough - he didn't give me a positive feedback. Well, he kept phoning me early in the morning and tried to book me to get this problem sorted out.   ::)  I think he was wanking over the phone. I blocked him since.   Only if he went to GP.  It could be some medical problems lurking. 

Lem0nade

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Re: Men who do not come
« Reply #17 on: 30 July 2016, 11:53:29 am »
Certainly don't think you're doing anything wrong! Some men can get a little nervous, or simply have other problems going on that prevent them from achieving satisfaction.

I've only had a couple of clients fail to cum during our meetings. Both were very, very nervous and seemed to be quite self-conscious. One was clearly quite embarrassed by the situation, but the other was fine and we had a great chat afterwards.

newbieNW

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Re: Men who do not come
« Reply #18 on: 30 July 2016, 03:42:36 pm »
 ;D ;D  Thank you.  I will keep that in mind. 

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Re: Men who do not come
« Reply #19 on: 30 July 2016, 09:55:00 pm »
If all fails and time's running out, just lay back and tell them how much you want them to cum all over you. It works 99% of the time for me.... they're so used to their own hand, that it's very likely it'll work, and you're the 'porn' to which they're touching themselves, if you get me. Don't get me wrong I always prefer to get my clients there myself but sometimes this is the best solution when you've tried everything else.

newbieNW

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Re: Men who do not come
« Reply #20 on: 31 July 2016, 09:04:25 am »
Yes, the last resort.  It always makes me think punters would think that you weren't good enough though in some ways  ::) except those who would politely tell me "it's not you, I have these issues" which is far more pleasant.    :)    Some do attempt the penetrative sex whilst they know damn well (not in an impolite sense) that they DO have problems.  Are they afraid of admitting that this could be ED?   It's like, he has a car. He knows it stopped starting normally, on and off.  It needs sorting out.  He knows.   Clearly, this doesn't apply to the men who are willing to communicate by saying "this doesn't make any difference to the pleasure I get from seeing you".   

Paprika82

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Re: Men who do not come
« Reply #21 on: 07 August 2016, 01:03:10 pm »
I had one client for an hour's booking not too long ago, it took most of that time for him to come. Sometimes they stay hard, other times they go soft, but we just changed tact and took a break or two and had a chat in the middle. I gave him a massage. Eventually with about ten minutes to go he finally blew his load. He did seem very relieved (and somewhat tired) afterwards.
 
  I don't take it personally. Perhaps I would if it was a boyfriend/husband/partner, but not if it's a client.

newbieNW

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Re: Men who do not come
« Reply #22 on: 07 August 2016, 05:10:32 pm »
Job well done!  :D   :-*