For those members who accept dress requests and or offering BDSM as well as GFE, at what point do you accept these requests?Do you require this when the person makes their booking?
Quite a few punters book me because I have a wide ranging wardrobe, shoes, clothes, lingerie, stockings (I would say these are a speciality), and I also have a BDSM (Domme) side but for many years was known for my GFE which I continue to advertise.
It's usual for me to accept bookings months, weeks, days ahead, absolutely fine but some (quite a few) are booking then contacting me after I've accepted the booking (for which I take a deposit) sometimes the night before to list the clothing, lingerie, shoes they would like me to wear (often quoting photos from my website or AW). Sometimes this has happened once I'm away from my base eg on the few occasions I've been away touring. The BDSM requests often days or weeks after making the booking with no indication they require this. I am sure anyone providing BDSM services is aware consent, discussion of expectations, limits etc is really important.
I have changed my wording do include 'dress or service requests must be made at the time of booking', some bookers are doing this, but some are not.