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DanielleSmith

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Developing feeling for a client
« on: 01 December 2021, 04:47:43 am »
I’m developing feelings for my client.  I’ve seen this guy for 5 years, he’s progressed to coming 1-2 times a week (I only work 2 days a week).

He’s shy and I’m in complete control of what we do or don’t do, he’s seems more after the intimacy then sex.  In giving intimacy repeatedly it started to become authentic and now I’ve developed feelings.  He hasn’t expressed any real feelings for me other then an obvious over infatuation. 

He’s married, his kids are moving on and I think he’s in mid-crisis and not happy with the monotony of his life. 

I don’t want to lose him as a client because I am still a money hungry cash-cow, yet I want to push him away because I don’t want feelings for an unobtainable married man or put myself in a situation of uncertain vulnerability.

I’ve been in the biz a long time, I know the biz so this isn’t my first rodeo. 

Do I stop seeing him entirely, or pull back?
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Lady Frog

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Re: Developing feeling for a client
« Reply #1 on: 01 December 2021, 06:00:31 pm »
I mean this in a friendly way as possible so please do not be offended,

but it strikes me as a little odd that you have developed feelings, after 5 years, for someone you haven't mentioned as having any particularly attractive qualities.

Do you thinking there is something else going on in your life at the moment, that has lead you to think you have feelings for him that maybe aren't truly romantic feelings? Perhaps you are stressed or lacking in another area of your life at the moment, and he is the most constant and financially/emotionally reliable person you have around you, so you are just feeling warmth and gratitude towards him, and confusing that for romantic feelings.

I may be totally wrong but just a thought.
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Kay

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Re: Developing feeling for a client
« Reply #2 on: 02 December 2021, 02:33:24 am »
I think there are quite a few threads on this if you do a search.
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