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Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« on: 23 January 2017, 02:46:21 pm »
Only had interest of some people think they wanted to see me early but I can't meet until 8.they say when can I meet and after I say the time just say bye or hang up. A man who wanted to tie me up, someone wanted scat, someone wanted his friend to come and one who asked for anal lots even thought I said no. Nobody else is interested. A couple asked for no condom too. So basically nobody sutible. I thought people would like to book in advance. Also I did book someone for 8.30 but it was from a witheld number. Don't even know if he will turn up.

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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #1 on: 23 January 2017, 02:58:31 pm »
Does your advert state what you do offer? I rarely get asked for BB, anal, sub services as all my profiles state I do not offer these services. Also its prob wise not to accept bookings from with held numbers, I don't and on the occasion I can be bothered to answer a private number 1st thing I say is call back on a unwith held number, some do majority dont

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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #2 on: 23 January 2017, 03:25:56 pm »
It sounds like you really need to check what services you are advertising I rarely get asked for anything you have mentioned and i agree with the previous comment I do not think it is a good idea to take bookings from with held numbers I certainly do not i do not even bother to answer them

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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #3 on: 23 January 2017, 04:12:39 pm »
Theses are my adds:

[removed - please don't post your ads on the forum]

Thought I made it obvious what I offer.

« Last Edit: 23 January 2017, 08:12:22 pm by amy »

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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #4 on: 23 January 2017, 04:19:25 pm »
You will get men asking to tie you up ect as you say domination on your profile and its not specified which way ie you being the dom or them. And id put it in your faq's that you don't offer what you don't offer

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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #5 on: 23 January 2017, 04:22:17 pm »
Thought I made it obvious what I offer.

Your Adultwork ad I'd very basic and says you do domination/bdsm  so could be why you are getting asked for the likes of scat . also you only have three things in your enjoys list none of which are penetration with condom which is likely why your getting asked for bare back

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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #6 on: 23 January 2017, 04:23:38 pm »
Ive taken a look at your profile and if you want my honest opinion

1 Get some better profile photos maybe some in nice lingerie after all its your shop window.
2. Remove all explicit photos from your public gallery, your profile should attract and interest your punters not slap them in the face with all the goods on show so put them in a private gallery and charge for them.
3. Fill in the services you offer.
4. Offer half hours, you are new and not all men want to stump up ?100 on a first meet with a new escort
5. Put a reference to you being a BBW or SSBBW in your profile title (BBW Amberdusk) so it attracts punters who like the bigger escort.
6. Fill out your profile a bit its a bit sparse.
7. Get yourself verified. (This in my opinion is better than being unverified but its up to you)
8. Fill out you Q and A's
9. For same day bookings show your phone number which can be paid for from sales of you private gallery.

Hope this helps.
« Last Edit: 23 January 2017, 04:36:33 pm by mature helen »

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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #7 on: 23 January 2017, 04:33:27 pm »
I agree with everything Helen suggested.
Are you not offering full sex? If not you're going to struggle for customers. There is a market for oral only, but it's smaller and you should probably make that the focus of your headline and profile.

Make sure you're ticking all the relevant boxes. EG for oral there's oral, oral without (at discretion), oral without, and receiving oral.

When you first start you will get all the boundary pushers ringing you. They try it with all the new girls. Just make sure you save their numbers in your phone as "Wanted anal", "pushy twat", etc so if they ring again you don't need to answer.
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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #8 on: 23 January 2017, 04:39:44 pm »
Hi, I'm thinking of just deleting the adult work one for now. My lap top broke recently and its so difficult to fill it all in on a phone. I might just keep to back page.hopefully getting some better pics by a photographer friend this week.on the backpage one I do say no anal or no unsafe sex.

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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #9 on: 23 January 2017, 04:42:20 pm »
Well that was all a waste of time then.

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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #10 on: 23 January 2017, 04:42:26 pm »
I am doing full sex but that's a good idea saving the numbers and I'm not answering anymore more withelds. Might change my user name when I get the lap top fixed and do a better profile for adult work.

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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #11 on: 23 January 2017, 04:43:13 pm »
No it was really helpful thanks I will keep it in mind hopefully get my lap top fixed next week.

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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #12 on: 23 January 2017, 04:50:27 pm »
I'd suggest putting "BBW" in your username for AW. Like BBW_Amber or similar.
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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #13 on: 23 January 2017, 07:05:10 pm »
Also as well as the very helpful suggestions from the other ladies, are you absolutely sure you want to show your full face? What about in the future if you get a new job, settle down and have kids, etc. do you really want this floating about.

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Re: Not having much luck with my advert but getting interest.
« Reply #14 on: 23 January 2017, 07:11:10 pm »
One other thing, you don't need the any money exchanged bit on your ads.