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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Escortx on 23 January 2017, 02:46:21 pm
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Only had interest of some people think they wanted to see me early but I can't meet until 8.they say when can I meet and after I say the time just say bye or hang up. A man who wanted to tie me up, someone wanted scat, someone wanted his friend to come and one who asked for anal lots even thought I said no. Nobody else is interested. A couple asked for no condom too. So basically nobody sutible. I thought people would like to book in advance. Also I did book someone for 8.30 but it was from a witheld number. Don't even know if he will turn up.
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Does your advert state what you do offer? I rarely get asked for BB, anal, sub services as all my profiles state I do not offer these services. Also its prob wise not to accept bookings from with held numbers, I don't and on the occasion I can be bothered to answer a private number 1st thing I say is call back on a unwith held number, some do majority dont
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It sounds like you really need to check what services you are advertising I rarely get asked for anything you have mentioned and i agree with the previous comment I do not think it is a good idea to take bookings from with held numbers I certainly do not i do not even bother to answer them
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Theses are my adds:
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Thought I made it obvious what I offer.
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You will get men asking to tie you up ect as you say domination on your profile and its not specified which way ie you being the dom or them. And id put it in your faq's that you don't offer what you don't offer
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Thought I made it obvious what I offer.
Your Adultwork ad I'd very basic and says you do domination/bdsm so could be why you are getting asked for the likes of scat . also you only have three things in your enjoys list none of which are penetration with condom which is likely why your getting asked for bare back
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Ive taken a look at your profile and if you want my honest opinion
1 Get some better profile photos maybe some in nice lingerie after all its your shop window.
2. Remove all explicit photos from your public gallery, your profile should attract and interest your punters not slap them in the face with all the goods on show so put them in a private gallery and charge for them.
3. Fill in the services you offer.
4. Offer half hours, you are new and not all men want to stump up ?100 on a first meet with a new escort
5. Put a reference to you being a BBW or SSBBW in your profile title (BBW Amberdusk) so it attracts punters who like the bigger escort.
6. Fill out your profile a bit its a bit sparse.
7. Get yourself verified. (This in my opinion is better than being unverified but its up to you)
8. Fill out you Q and A's
9. For same day bookings show your phone number which can be paid for from sales of you private gallery.
Hope this helps.
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I agree with everything Helen suggested.
Are you not offering full sex? If not you're going to struggle for customers. There is a market for oral only, but it's smaller and you should probably make that the focus of your headline and profile.
Make sure you're ticking all the relevant boxes. EG for oral there's oral, oral without (at discretion), oral without, and receiving oral.
When you first start you will get all the boundary pushers ringing you. They try it with all the new girls. Just make sure you save their numbers in your phone as "Wanted anal", "pushy twat", etc so if they ring again you don't need to answer.
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Hi, I'm thinking of just deleting the adult work one for now. My lap top broke recently and its so difficult to fill it all in on a phone. I might just keep to back page.hopefully getting some better pics by a photographer friend this week.on the backpage one I do say no anal or no unsafe sex.
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Well that was all a waste of time then.
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I am doing full sex but that's a good idea saving the numbers and I'm not answering anymore more withelds. Might change my user name when I get the lap top fixed and do a better profile for adult work.
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No it was really helpful thanks I will keep it in mind hopefully get my lap top fixed next week.
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I'd suggest putting "BBW" in your username for AW. Like BBW_Amber or similar.
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Also as well as the very helpful suggestions from the other ladies, are you absolutely sure you want to show your full face? What about in the future if you get a new job, settle down and have kids, etc. do you really want this floating about.
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One other thing, you don't need the any money exchanged bit on your ads.
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SPOT ON!
Exactly what I would also advise.
Good luck!
Ive taken a look at your profile and if you want my honest opinion
1 Get some better profile photos maybe some in nice lingerie after all its your shop window.
2. Remove all explicit photos from your public gallery, your profile should attract and interest your punters not slap them in the face with all the goods on show so put them in a private gallery and charge for them.
3. Fill in the services you offer.
4. Offer half hours, you are new and not all men want to stump up ?100 on a first meet with a new escort
5. Put a reference to you being a BBW or SSBBW in your profile title (BBW Amberdusk) so it attracts punters who like the bigger escort.
6. Fill out your profile a bit its a bit sparse.
7. Get yourself verified. (This in my opinion is better than being unverified but its up to you)
8. Fill out you Q and A's
9. For same day bookings show your phone number which can be paid for from sales of you private gallery.
Hope this helps.
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Hi I have tried again and decided to show a face pic but no pussy or breasts in public. I have requested to be verifies. Can you let me know if its a bit better?
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Amber, can you please stop posting your ads on the forum? If you really want everybody reading (including people who aren't members here) knowing who you are you can add a link to your forum profile; I realise I didn't immediately remove it yesterday but that's because I was busy and apparently the report button was broken.
Better still, keep it for PMs and maintain your anonymity at least until you get settled into both the board and the job :).
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Sorry. I just want some advice on my add. Didn't know it wasn't allowed.
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I'd say you need to sort the text out - it's scrappy, a little repetitive, and not very informative.
Also, you put your rates in the text, which isn't necessary, and they contradict with the rates you've listed in the pricing table. It's entirely up to you of course, but your 2h price also seems a little odd (more than two 1hs).
As someone else has said, you don't need the legal caveat about paying for your time only - it's an American thing because prostitution is mostly illegal there.
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Sorry. I just want some advice on my add. Didn't know it wasn't allowed.
From the forum rules:
Please don't post links to other sites on the forum, including to your own ads. If you want to include your link you can add it to your Forum Profile, but remember it will then be displayed underneath your username and available to anybody reading your posts.
It's fine to ask for feedback on your ads, as is general discussion on what people find works well/doesn't work in ad text, photos and so on. What we don't want is a massive spammy onslaught of stealth tout posts where people all want to show everybody how they do it on their ad :).
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your 2h price also seems a little odd (more than two 1hs).
My two hour price is ?20 more than two 1hrs during the day (when I knock ?20 off per booking). It makes perfect sense to me, because two hour bookings are largely awful.
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How are you getting on?
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Hi I have managed to see two or three a day since I out the add on aw and changed my price from 100 to 70 and doing half an hour at 45. I had a blow job and cim today. Sat on some guy and gave him hand relief and got one later probably oral and sex. Its going okay everyone has been nice. I don't like the hairy guys and I hate cum but getting used to it now.
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Them rates are very low but if your happy with them rates then thats all thats matters,
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Those rates are lower than the average in the north east maybe try looking at what other escorts are charging in your area and see if you are much cheaper. If your prices are too low then you might be attracting the wrong kind of clients
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I had a look and the rates seem to be from 60 to 100 and a lot of escorts so lots of competition. I don't do analmtoo and I'm a BBW size 26. I might raise it to 100. But I haven't had many today I did two and that's enough and maybe its slower at the weekend
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I hate cum but getting used to it now.
You don't have to offer services you don't enjoy.
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please don't go on the fact that Jean down the road does everything for 60, while their are guys who are happy with Jean there are also a lot who want someone a bit more exclusive.
You are worth what you feel your worth. Its all about your image, about making guys want to see you at 100 over Jean at 60 even though Jean offers more services.
So like taking some tasteful lingerie shots, that give a hint of what you have without everything being on display (think boudoir shots).
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im well above my best mate who lives less than half a mile down the road but iv never thought to put my prices down because at my london prices people in leeds/wakefield will still pay then and if they dont I cam more, I wont ever sell myself short, thats when you resent this job
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Once you've got a few positive feedbacks on AW you could try moving your price up a bit.
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So you offer OWO /CIM, and these services do have risks. Not sure if you are fully aware of these? You might want to read through on this site as there are threads on the subjects. To give CIM for such a low rate, it's your choice, your choice alone. But, punters know you are literally giving it away.
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How much do you recommend I charge? I know it has some risks
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No one can tell you exactly what you should be charging, that is up to you to decide what you feel you're worth.
Have you worked out your bills etc? That is a gpod way tovwork out your prices.
For example say you want to make 3000 per month, using half hours to work our the most you would have to see, that is roughly 17 clients a week at 45. Where as at 60 it is roughly 13 and at 70 it is roughly 11 clients.
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How much do you recommend I charge? I know it has some risks
If you go to Questions and Answers, there is a thread titled, "OWO or OW".
It depends on how you feel, but if you price yourself too low, punters may think you have no confidence/new, they will take FULL advantage. :)