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saltysweet

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Re: 'Man in the street' gig
« Reply #15 on: 17 May 2021, 07:05:39 pm »
Quote from: TantricTease on 17 May 2021, 11:09:31 am
Salty is there any chance this man recognised you from a website as being an escort and this is why he bought you the hot chocolate, to maybe get a closer look to see if you really were “the woman from the escort ad” and then to see what you said? Was he shocked when you told him it’s pay to play?

Oh that's a good question TT.
I never show above my lips or neck and wear a super-glam hoe wig for photos.
Neither he or I come from the area.

I was rushing past in my boring anorak, trainers and 'shopping wig number 9'. I saw him clock me from 30 yards away and could hear his footsteps trying to catch up. Its a very busy park busting with people. I thought he was just going to say hello.

No, he wasn't shocked at all. After a bit of a chat and milky beverage he politely said he fancied me, would I like to hook up for fun. I said I charge. He asked the fee then said what he could afford. All matter of fact.
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englishrebecca121

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Re: 'Man in the street' gig
« Reply #16 on: 18 May 2021, 12:24:51 pm »
no no no what are you thinking, he sounds creepy as hell
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saltysweet

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Re: 'Man in the street' gig
« Reply #17 on: 18 May 2021, 12:33:50 pm »
ER-Because I've done it before several times and was absolutely fine and jolly. It's not that unusual compared to bar hook ups which I've done briefly pre-internet, a bit like Amy.

Guy approaches, you size him up, negotiate and on to his hotel. In this case there's a bit of controversy. But it's quite an immediate, neat way to work and screen with zero advertising involved.I'm asking opinions before I decide! :) Curious to see people's views and your feels are appreciated.
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englishrebecca121

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Re: 'Man in the street' gig
« Reply #18 on: 18 May 2021, 10:10:56 pm »
he had his kids with him surely you can see peoples concern ! xx
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Re: 'Man in the street' gig
« Reply #19 on: 19 May 2021, 09:55:13 am »
If his children were off playing on the swings or whatever and out of earshot I don't really think it matters BUT if they were standing there with him then I would probably think he was a vile individual and not entertain him.
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saltysweet

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« Reply #20 on: 19 May 2021, 11:27:02 am »
Quote from: englishrebecca121 on 18 May 2021, 10:10:56 pm
he had his kids with him surely you can see peoples concern ! xx

I'm curious ER what's the concern?


Lillybliss, yes correct, that's the type of situation.
They're small, visible, monitored, but not in earshot.
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Re: 'Man in the street' gig
« Reply #21 on: 19 May 2021, 02:15:22 pm »
Quote from: saltysweet on 19 May 2021, 11:27:02 am
I'm curious ER what's the concern?


Lillybliss, yes correct, that's the type of situation.
They're small, visible, monitored, but not in earshot.

i just think surely its easier just to use aw or whatever site but each to their own x
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saltysweet

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« Reply #22 on: 19 May 2021, 02:37:19 pm »
Quote from: englishrebecca121 on 19 May 2021, 02:15:22 pm
i just think surely its easier just to use aw or whatever site but each to their own x

Oh I see what you mean EG.
I think I'm used to not relying on the web as I did 8-10  jobs daily 6 days a week without much fuss before Tim Berners-Lee invented the internet. No escort sites existed but everyone hooked up fine. And I quite like to take face to face opportunities when they pop up :)  Like you say horses for courses.

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Re: 'Man in the street' gig
« Reply #23 on: 19 May 2021, 02:43:11 pm »
Quote from: saltysweet on 19 May 2021, 02:37:19 pm
Oh I see.
I think I'm used to not relying on the web as I did 8-10  jobs daily 6 days a week without much fuss before Tim Berners-Lee invented the internet. And I quite like to take face to face opportunities when they pop up :) Like you say horses for courses.

I agree. It's different, but it's not 'easier'.

No having to worry about advertising, answering stupid phone calls and emails, photos, confirmations on the day/an hour before, no real opportunities for timewasters and you get to size them up in person. Plus they generally don't get to find out where you live, for the people who work from home. You can just forget all the preamble and get on with it :D.
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Re: 'Man in the street' gig
« Reply #24 on: 21 May 2021, 09:17:31 pm »
If you can get business that way go for it, any tips on doing it?

When I first started working I used to tell everyone what I do, most people would be surprised, shocked, occasionally I got enquiries and on a few occasions I did get a customer or two that way, most were a quicky in a car on one occasion  in a weather shelter on a beach front.

I soon found out that proudly telling everyone that I am a prostitute was a lot of hassle.
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Re: 'Man in the street' gig
« Reply #25 on: 22 May 2021, 12:46:57 am »
Quote from: Pepper on 21 May 2021, 09:17:31 pm
If you can get business that way go for it, any tips on doing it?

When I first started working I used to tell everyone what I do, most people would be surprised, shocked, occasionally I got enquiries and on a few occasions I did get a customer or two that way, most were a quicky in a car on one occasion  in a weather shelter on a beach front.

I soon found out that proudly telling everyone that I am a prostitute was a lot of hassle.

Too right... sadly most will take advantage by assuming that we are the stereo typical hoe down on her luck with few options
Haha how wrong could they be!?
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Re: 'Man in the street' gig
« Reply #26 on: 10 July 2021, 07:39:09 pm »
I was on tour once in a major UK city and went for a cup of tea and fresh air in a bar near to the hotel. A stag party group were in there getting there evening started and a few of them refused to leave me alone, despite me trying to politely avoid conversation, they wouldn't stop trying to chat me up and badgering me to come out with them for the evening. So in the end I thought fuck it, I told them I am an escort, and I will be working all weekend, gave them my work number, and went back to the hotel!

They didn't ring  ::) ;D
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saltysweet

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« Reply #27 on: 28 September 2021, 04:08:45 pm »
Haaha..you called their bluff!
You're too 'real' for them cause it's all hot air especially for stags and hens...flirting, bigin each other up.
All trousers no action. ;D
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Re: 'Man in the street' gig
« Reply #28 on: 04 October 2021, 12:34:07 pm »
I know this is waaaay too late to answer to be any help with the original situation 😀 but no I wouldn't have a problem with a man approaching me with his kids in tow. Yes it's amoral but most of my clients are amoral. So am I sometimes when I am at work! My concern is for my own safety, and whether this potential client might compromise it. Having visible kids does not pose any increased risk to me therefore I would not care.

It seems strange to me that we all get intimate with married men and fathers, but seeing the children is somehow wrong or off-putting? They still exist, all the offspring of the men we shag for money, so seeing them doesn't change anything in my opinion.
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saltysweet

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« Reply #29 on: 06 October 2021, 11:35:36 pm »
Quote from: Nelly on 04 October 2021, 12:34:07 pm
I know this is waaaay too late to answer to be any help with the original situation 😀 but no I wouldn't have a problem with a man approaching me with his kids in tow. Yes it's amoral but most of my clients are amoral. So am I sometimes when I am at work! My concern is for my own safety, and whether this potential client might compromise it. Having visible kids does not pose any increased risk to me therefore I would not care.

It seems strange to me that we all get intimate with married men and fathers, but seeing the children is somehow wrong or off-putting? They still exist, all the offspring of the men we shag for money, so seeing them doesn't change anything in my opinion.

I agree Nelly, nicely expressed.
Don't see the point in getting all offended when we're partners in their infidelity.

I chose not to do him as it was too complicated to arrange as I didn't want to give him my number straight off. I wanted to ring or text him when I was ready. Wife checks phone and all that. No big loss. He made a bold move which I appreciate. I like guys with a bit of enthusiasm and sense of adventure.
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