Miss E

How many enquiries and bookings roughly do you get a week?
I think the issue is my lack of exposure. Twitter plus Adultseek just isn't enough

Apologies Lu2222; when you mentioned City of Love I assumed you were in London.

It really isn't that useful to compare yourself with other people working in completely different areas and in completely different ways, especially when those people are established and you're not. £200 sounds high to me for the Midlands but I suppose it depends where you are - your appearance isn't that relevant because there are lots of other attractive women out there doing similar services and charging less than you, which doesn't matter when you've gained some regulars but will make it harder to get them in the first place.

If you're only concerned about AW having your passport details, you can always just 'lose' the passport after and get a new one? Back on availability, are you working regular days/hours or are they different week to week (I suppose this is the sort of thing that you can put on Twitter, but nothing can convince me that it's ever going to be a go-to for punters wanting to punt in the next few hours).

Thanks everyone for the replies. It's really helpful.

I dont particularly want AW having my passport details, real name, address etc. It makes me nervous of any of leaks etc. I know i'm probably just paranoid 

It's holding me back though. I see that.

I also change my schedule most weeks so that probably doesn't help things. I host from hotels too

I’ve been on AW for 17 years and I’ve not known them to leak details
They removed the verification pic thing that used to get shown if it wasn’t ticked that as a big problem
And they seem to be a lot more human recently 

And like Amy said no point in comparing to others as they might offer totally different services & prices to you or be in a different area

If you stop working off AW you can always ask them to remove your passport / bank details if you use them under GDPR
I did this and they deleted all my stuff within a few weeks

You might even be able to verify with a full drivers license rather than a passport but I’m not sure

You are charging an extremely high rate for a poor part of the country.

West Midlands is more populated than East Midlands but if you are new and starting out many will be reluctant to pay a very high rate.


Try £160 an hour if you like.

I really cannot see £200 an hour women being very busy in much poorer locations.

I am in the East mids so know how it is here.

Thanks everyone!

A rate amendment may be in order then. I'm happy to try that.

With AW if I verify and then decide I don't want to be on the site anymore I know I can delete my account but do they delete the verification information?

Thanks Amy. I looked over the Aw board but I must have missed it. I'll look again.

I looked on AW and found someone about my age, same kind of look etc and saw what she was charging. I just went with the same figure.

Thanks everyone for the replies. It's really helpful.

I dont particularly want AW having my passport details, real name, address etc. It makes me nervous of any of leaks etc. I know i'm probably just paranoid 

It's holding me back though. I see that.

I also change my schedule most weeks so that probably doesn't help things. I host from hotels too

I used my drivers license to verify back 2019 and again ladt year for a duo profile and was easy and didn't take long to have profile up.

Ok thank you everyone 

It's really showed me what the issues are. I knew you ladies would put me on the right track.