I always thought about this i'm 5'3.5ft (can't forget that half it's very important lol) and i'm a 14/16 about 13.5st with a bit of a belly. I asked another escort who had been doing this job far longer than me, she's tiny (size and she said no because if you call yourself as a bbw, people will look for smothering etc... She might of been wrong but that's what put me off writing that about myself. Right now I class myself as curvy. xxx

Um no that's bollocks.I am a bbw and have always classified myself as such.I can honestly say I have only maybe had around 5 calls asking for smothering in 5 years.Like any other service if you don't offer a service you don't offer it.I don't think you get many more blokes asking for services you don't do just because you are a bbw.Cos she is skinny does she get alot of blokes asking for fetishes such as carrying her?I'm guessing not.

The problem is though it depends what guys class as bbw, for some a 14 is for others its 18+.

Same with ssbbw, some guys will class someone at least 240lbs as one while others would class someone at least 350lbs as one.

So whatever we put there will always be someone unhappy as we are bigger/smaller than what they were actually expecting.

I gotta say that as an actual bbw nothing annoys me more than seeing clearly thin but curvy girls on bbw specific sites. It's like, let us fatties have one thing for us, you know?

exactly

I'm a 24-26 and I thought about saying ssbbw, but ssbbw seems to be classed as at least 240lbs which I am just below.

  Based on this I am an ssbbw? I am more than 240lbs. But no, I don't see myself as ss. I saw this lady, Ruby's ad, and to me thats a genuine ssbbw and I'm nowhere near.

The problem is though it depends what guys class as bbw, for some a 14 is for others its 18+.

Same with ssbbw, some guys will class someone at least 240lbs as one while others would class someone at least 350lbs as one.

So whatever we put there will always be someone unhappy as we are bigger/smaller than what they were actually expecting.

Agree with this.I have a big tummy and a big pair of norks but average to slim bum and legs and I have had people moan because my bum and legs aren't big enough.Have also had people tell me I'm not a proper bbw because I'm a 16/18 which is rubbish.

I think whatever size you are there is a market and also confusion about what is what. When I started I was told to market myself as BBW and when I did blokes told me I was not big enough, I've also had big tit fans say my tits aren't big enough (40E!) because when they want big tits they want super huge ones, equally other guys have told me they are the biggest they have seen (I think they mean allowed to touch!)

The thing is to market yourself to show off the bits you like best and the bits that get mentioned by clients- even if it's a bit you don't much like about yourself if several men rave about say your bum then you should probably talk about that in profiles and show pictures of it. I think (loathed as I am to say it) client feedback on these things is worth listening to if it's said more than once or twice.

I always maintain being honest about sizing is the best way to go, but even then there will always be someone who says You're not a size X or Y. You just have to get used to that and if you are honest it shouldn't happen often.

I have the big tits and tummy but no bum so when men ask if I have a big bum I'm honest, OK I might lose a few bookings but I'd rather that than them walk out or be narked with me.

I think you have to get out of your head there is a 'typical' escort, there isn't. You might think so looking at agency photos, but look at independent women- there is every shape and size imaginable out there and I think if you come across well on your profile and come across as decent and honest that will go a long way. I think many men actually often want a woman who is reliable, clean, interesting and kind and does the services she says she does. And to be honest, those are the clients you want- the ones who are going to get riled over whether you are a size 14 or 16 are more likely to be awkward entitled arses!

As for the OP, talk about your lovely legs and pert b cup boobs and just don't mention the bum or tum! I would also avoid mentioning BBW too- I think you're probably too small for men who search BBW.