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Sexy_Kitty

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Re: No Show Policy
« Reply #15 on: 11 August 2014, 12:57:06 am »
I give my address to my clients ten minutes before the booking (they already know what tube station to go to) so if I don't hear from them 5 minutes before the booking time I send them a message saying that their booking will be cancelled if I don't hear from them in ten minutes. 5 minutes past the meeting and no response they get a message from me telling them it has been cancelled and not to contact me again as I don't appreciate my time being wasted.

I don't know why I even bother really, honestly 10% of the guys respond to my first message, I don't hear anything from 90% of them. Those that do respond usually say they're sorry but they have been underground and are running a little late. 90% of guys will text me to let me know they're running late, as they often want to make sure there's a point in coming to the booking (i.e. I'm not going to have to throw them out early because I have someone right after them).
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Sassy Slapper

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Re: No Show Policy
« Reply #16 on: 11 August 2014, 08:38:14 am »
If someone no shows me and I have not met them before I put them into my phone as noshowed, if they call back again I explain that i know they no showed me the time before and depending on their attitude and reasoning on the phone I may take a booking or I may tell them no. Most of the do show up the second time around but if they dont and no show me again I change them to noshowbanned which tells me they had their second chance and wont ever get another one.

If its a guy I have seen before then I would give him a second chance definatley as he has proven that its not how he usually operates but again, if he does it a 2nd time i put him in as banned.

If a guy lets me down within an hour of the booking then i log him as "cancelled last minute" and again I have the 2nd chance procedure.

I do find that the higher majority of guys when given a second chance and know you know they no showed you in the past WILL turn up but thats just me, other girls may have a different statistic.

I have had days when the only ones who call were the guys who didnt show the last time and giving them the second chance has turned the day into a highly profitable one so Im happy with my procedure. As I said though, its also down to their attitude on the phone. If they just laugh or try to fob me off then they dont get the second chance as by then they have pissed me off again.

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Re: No Show Policy
« Reply #17 on: 11 August 2014, 05:56:18 pm »
If it's a new client I haven't seen before, and he doesn't phone when he's on his way to get my flat number (which I don't give until
then so I know they're actually going to show up), I'll phone or text him, no reply he'll get blocked.
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Re: No Show Policy
« Reply #18 on: 11 August 2014, 06:22:07 pm »
One bottled it in the lift at my Incall place as felt bad for his wife bless.

Rosa

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Re: No Show Policy
« Reply #19 on: 12 August 2014, 07:05:05 am »
I usually give a second chance, however if it's a first-time with me appointment and they didn't bother to cancel, let me know either before or even afterwards then I will ask for a deposit for the next booking. I have recently seen a couple of clients who had either cancelled or no-showed for their first booking a year or two ago and all was fine.

I give a confirmation window and recently have been quite strict with this with new clients, ie if not confirmed in that window and by the method agreed (for instance if it's been arranged purely by text or email then confirmation must be a spoken phone call), then I do not accept another booking.

Life and nerves do happen however I found that new clients who confirm significantly late, and not as agreed tend to go on to be unreliable or mess about with future bookings, ie they are just lax in general and I'm only interested in people who are reliable. More often than not if someone confirms late I'll have filled the appointment, either the actual slot or have taken my quota for the day and use that as free time or an early finish.

As a rule of thumb if someone cancels more appointments than they attend then I will start to ask for a deposit, or not be able to hold future bookings for them which I do make clear.

carachameleon

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Re: No Show Policy
« Reply #20 on: 12 August 2014, 10:30:13 am »
BUT I have a question, what would you do if you were booked up and your (1 hour) 1pm booking arrived 15 minutes late without a phone call to tell you he was running late?

Would you.....

1. Give him the full hour knowing this is going to cause problems later by making all the other bookings after him run late?
2.  Give him 45 minutes but still charge him for the hour?
3.  Offer him a shorter 30 minute booking and take the loss? (if you offer these)
4.  Refuse to see him?

I have a one-hour minimum and I don't usually book meetings back to back. But on days when I really can't help it, I will inform the client beforehand that I need them to be punctual as I have plans after their appointment. If they are still late, at least they will know that they might not get the full hour. So I'll go with option 2 if I have other plans. Furthermore, it's their problem for being late.

What's worse is if they are 15 minutes late AND don't call to notify, then it's certainly option 2. I don't see why such a rude and tardy should not be penalised. Thankfully, this has probably happen only once or twice in my career. They are free to walk so by all means...

If they are a no-show (i.e. book appointment, confirms but then does not show up) which is rare, I don't ever see them again unless they are willing to make up for it. Which usually means paying my full-rate for the time they wasted. I've got several who have redeemed themselves this way.   

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Re: No Show Policy
« Reply #21 on: 12 August 2014, 10:58:28 am »
4. Realistically not many clients will pay for the hour and get 45 minutes or less than that. Clients can walk if they change their mind even if isn't ideal for the escort. I wouldn't pay the full price for some thing, for them to cut a chunk out of the item. Not many in society would to be honest.

Many businesses working on an appointment system will give you reduced time, charging same price - it's up to you you've blocked up their diary and can forfeit it. This isn't necessarily what I do, I just wait and see what the client wants to do.

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Re: No Show Policy
« Reply #22 on: 12 August 2014, 11:39:20 am »
For me I would never see a no-show as I think it's rude and disrespectful so not someone I want to see. If they 'chickened out' then at least a text is better than nothing, even to say their dog had died!

The ones that do this often do it to wind us up and inconvenience us plus there is the chance we could've turned others down to see them. I did give one a chance couple years ago as he sent a lovely text apologising so I booked him again and he did the same thing making me feel like a right mug so that's it now. Haven't had too many no shows this year thank gawd.

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Re: No Show Policy
« Reply #23 on: 12 August 2014, 08:07:34 pm »
Ive had today a rude guy turning 10 minutes late, complaining he cant find a free parking and has to pay. WTF?
Whitout saying sorry for being late, or leting me know he is late, nothing.
I cancelled his booking and told him I cant stand for people who dont have the courtesy to let me know they are late more than 5 minutes and he called me rude. LOL. Im still pissed off
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meetingdiversity

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Re: No Show Policy
« Reply #24 on: 12 August 2014, 10:27:47 pm »
A few clients call me to inform that they're running late 15 minutes past their booking time. It is so obvious.

carachameleon

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Re: No Show Policy
« Reply #25 on: 13 August 2014, 04:03:02 pm »
Well, of course I jinxed myself after my previous post on this thread. Today, I had a booking  that I shouldn't have taken with this guy I saw once. He had previously asked for a 40% discount on my fee after the first meet, promising to be a regular which I rejected. He arranged an appointment (full fee) for an hour. 10 minutes after our appointment time, I texted him as he had not arrived and he said he was waiting for a cab. I told him I might not be able to give him the full hour as he was already so late. Another 10 minutes later, he called me to say the cab was late. I was pissed off he had taken the mickey and given me all sort of crock excuses.  So i cancelled he appointment.

The jerk had the nerve to text me telling me I had a horrible attitude and lecturing me how he can't help it if I had back to back appointments. I was so pissed off! Firstly, he was so presumptuous that I had another booking after him which I did not. I thought he was being an idiot for not informing me he was running late. I had to contact him to find out. Even then, 20 minutes after our appointment he was still waiting for a cab which is ridiculous because he would be past half an hour late when he eventually arrived. And the worst bit is that he left for our appointment 5 minutes before our scheduled meeting time!!!!

Erghhhhh. What a piece of work. Told him never to contact me again.