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Trafford

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Re: Nights when escorting feels like degrading/trickery
« Reply #30 on: 31 August 2009, 02:00:30 pm »
Joey, the proof of the pudding is here in black and white.

Have a look back at all your own posts over the year or so you've been here and maybe you'll spot a pattern. You have a lot of problems during your work. We all have wasters and idiots, its part and package but at some point you just have to accept that it is part of the job and the best way to deal is to raise your eyebrows and put the phone down, or simply say 'this isn't working out, here is your money back' or any other similarly non-reactive 0ption. That way you stress less over it, dont get so angry and ultimately have more energy for the good things in life. Obsessing over the bad stuff in this business whether its clients or other escorts is just a hiding to nothng. They are not going to change, the only thing you can do to make this job a happier one is for you to change how you react.

You can either let the high number of idiots (which we all get) drag you down or you write them off and move on.

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UrbaneAspects

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Re: Nights when escorting feels like degrading/trickery
« Reply #31 on: 31 August 2009, 10:12:19 pm »
Except to say, telling somebody to go get a better job, just because he couldn't afford your rates (not that you weren't worth it) is just plain nasty, not to mention mean. Especially in this economic climate.

You missed the point. I bet even if I had told him I was only $50, he'd still say its too much. Why? Why do I know that? Because if someone doesnt have it, they'd had said, "its more than I was looking to pay", or that they will have to get back with me, or... or  ask for a discount...etc.

I find it absolutely ridiculous to stand behind this 'client'. Guy wasnt a client...he was a grade A timewaster. He was being nasty, mean, rude, childish, etc. by telling me, "oh thats too much" and then hanging up on me. Why glorify this guy? Is it not possible to see what this guy's intentions were? Its that simple. Im not going to pacify anyones rude comments.

Anyway, I dont want to fight anymore...group hug  :)
« Last Edit: 31 August 2009, 10:21:56 pm by JoeyR »

UrbaneAspects

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Re: Nights when escorting feels like degrading/trickery
« Reply #32 on: 31 August 2009, 10:24:32 pm »
Again, don't take this personally Joey.

Love Alex x

No, no hard feelings...

Carla

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Re: Nights when escorting feels like degrading/trickery
« Reply #33 on: 31 August 2009, 10:52:21 pm »
Yeah, group hug guys. It could be worse. We could be brian and sara, now THEY are cross with each other!

sara1981x

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Re: Nights when escorting feels like degrading/trickery
« Reply #34 on: 31 August 2009, 11:28:31 pm »
Yeah, group Hug. Brian is Sara, Sara feels like Amy, but only part time as on a Sunday Brian likes to be Michael, when the wife goes out Michael goes back to Brian and Brian then becomes Angelica. Confused. I am too! So is Brian. So group hugs all round I agree.

UrbaneAspects

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Re: Nights when escorting feels like degrading/trickery
« Reply #35 on: 31 August 2009, 11:30:48 pm »
I am totally confused  ???

Carla

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Re: Nights when escorting feels like degrading/trickery
« Reply #36 on: 31 August 2009, 11:33:03 pm »
You are sara, so you must be brian too? In which case haven't you been slagging yourself in around 1 million posts? oh do you know what, I don't give a buggery actually. Carry on as you were.

Violette

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Re: Nights when escorting feels like degrading/trickery
« Reply #37 on: 31 August 2009, 11:44:12 pm »
Joey, Carla-don't go there with that lot(Sara, Brian, Angelica, Michael), it is a funny ole game they are playing and it is best we stay out of it.

Carla

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Re: Nights when escorting feels like degrading/trickery
« Reply #38 on: 31 August 2009, 11:46:46 pm »
Sorry, couldn't help poking a crocodile with a stick. Sorry to take the thread off topic  :(

brandy@saafe

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Re: Nights when escorting feels like degrading/trickery
« Reply #39 on: 01 September 2009, 12:27:12 am »
Yeah, group Hug. Brian is Sara, Sara feels like Amy, but only part time as on a Sunday Brian likes to be Michael, when the wife goes out Michael goes back to Brian and Brian then becomes Angelica. Confused. I am too! So is Brian. So group hugs all round I agree.

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