Hi,

I'm a total newbie to this, I have done a lot of research and the saafe website and forum has been a great source of info and support. However I still have a few queries about practicalities?

What's involved in a car meet? Do you meet at a public place? Do you drive to meet the client and meet at his car? Is it actually in his car?

And timing- How do you keep an eye on the time? when you're with a client? Do you wear a watch? Or have a timer? When does the time/session begin? As soon as you're through the door? Or is there a 5 - 10 minute grace period either side for introductions?


And do you/can you shower before leaving? (I only offer out calls)

And how much do drivers/security get paid?

I will be grateful for any advice or suggestions that can be offered. I hope to hear back soon.

Thanks xx   

No no no! 

Don't do them, your safety comes first always!
And agree with cat your escort sensor won't be finely tuned yet to tell a genuine from dangerous client.

I have been escorting for about 15yrs starting with outcalls and hotels and now only do incalls to my apartment with the exception of a couple of regulars i have known for years, i will visit.
But  i have never meet anyone in a car and wouldn't even now!

Be carefull huni always

Thank you all so so much for your advice. I will definitely take heed and not offer this service. It's very reassuring to know there's girls like you out there willing to help.
Thank you :-)

Also, any idea or suggestions re a driver? At least until my spidey senses get a bit more tuned in!

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Its hard to find a reliable trustworthy driver. I would ask the girls you know in the area for recommendations (presuming you know someone of course) or stick to taxi's for a while. You would screen a driver just as you would a client, but much more vigorously, as you are going to be alone with them in a car, and potentially relying on them to get out of sticky situations.

Remember that taxi's and drivers are tax deductable so try and get receipts from them!

Xx

Lol at the imo, overreaction to the prospect of car meet on here

AW has a Car Meets like option, and if you like it, you get lots of guys wanting car meets

I did one, and it went absoloutely fine, I got the guy to put in an AW booking request and also took his reg plate number from my room

it took about 10 mins and he was a lovely clean and friendly client

of course, not all clients will be like this, but i think girls on here are slightly overreacting on how dangerous it apparently is

i did use the aw booking system though and made sure the guy had feedback, if you work just from taking calls instead of a proper system where you can check the booking history of the person to an extent (which imo is dangerous and I had lots of dick heads and no shows when I worked this way) where you dont have a clue who the other person is, then I'd say it is too risky

havnt said all this i only did the one car meet then sorted it so i could provide incalls but this was only because I didnt want my neighbours seeing me getting into numerous cars and getting caught in public

im not recommending it over other safer ways of escorting though, especially if your new, i had been working for 2 years at the point i did this

Kimmy also may have had just by pure chance one of the few OK car meets. Now if she'd had 10 or 20 that were fine that would be a different thing. When I first started I had zero security & screening in place,  from the stories I've read and the experience I've had since I know I was lucky not to be booked by TWs or any scammers, but I'd never base my current and future procedures on that.

I agree thats why I said at the end I wouldnt recommend it over other ways of escorting and especially since she is new, i would never have done it as a new girl I would have been too scared, i had been doing it for 2 years when i first even considered it and even then as I said I took security measures, its not the best way of working at all

Well, you did call everyone else's posts an "overreaction", so I think that's why people assumed you were taking the view that car meets are fine/not that bad/etc. But thank you for clarifying with this post. A random lurking newbie may still read your previous post and take it to mean that, as an experienced escort, you think car meets are A-OK for all, but hopefully not.

Re. car meets in general - I think many escorts have several categories for what they are prepared to offer to different clients. E.g. "GFE is on offer to all clients who are clean and respectful"; "Overnights are available to clients I've met at least once before so I have a chance to suss them out a bit before committing to what could be the worst 12 hours of my life"; "Car meets are not something I'd ever do" OR perhaps "I would do a car meet for a long-time regular as long as my rules were still followed 100% correctly, with cash paid up front and meeting at a certain agreed place and I take his license plate number down and text it to my security buddy before I get into the car" - etc etc.

There's nothing inherently wrong with the majority of different booking types, but it's all about making sure you have the upper hand and are not taking undue risks. I won't even go to a client's home unless I've met him once before (although I know other escorts are fine with this and they make sure to double- and triple-check the client's details before setting out to make it safer) so everyone's personal "I'll do this for all respectful clients" and "I'll consider this for long-term regulars" categories are different, but I do think it's important to have the maximum layer of strict-ness on first time bookings with new clients.

As another example, I won't consider seeing a new client outside of my stated & advertised availability. But with clients who've proved themselves clean, polite, respectful and pleasant, I tell them that yes, they can text me (also a no-no for new clients because I ask them to call or email so, if they ignore that, I feel that they are disrespecting me and that gives me a bad belly-feeling about them!) and yes they can request bookings on other days because, if they give me enough notice, I'm usually happy to make the extra effort to see them. But there's no point making extra effort (or taking extra risk) for guys you've never met before. There's a huge difference between a genuine, paying client and the ten bazillion not-ever-going-to-pay-you-for-anything timewasters (and worse) out there, and it's important to find out which group a potential new client belongs to as quickly as possible so that you don't waste time on the numpties/worse.

So, basically, if a newbie really wanted to offer car meets I'd probably recommend that they offer them for returning clients only (and following smart safety procedures like texting the license plate details to their security buddy). If a guy is genuine and respectful, he won't mind following one simple little rule in order to receive the service he's looking for. And this way you neatly cut out the guys who think that you having rules to protect yourself is an annoying waste of time, because those are the guys who don't give a crap about your safety or wellbeing so you definitely want to be turning them away with a smile of relief!

Hiya girls,
Just wanted to add this and get some advice from anyone who's experienced with dogging really.
I had a client email me today asking if I would go dogging with him one day and that it would be fun, I saw this man last Saturday and to be honest was the best booking I've had, don't know whether that was down to his performance or the fact I fancied the pants off him (literally lol), but anyway back on topic.
I'm contemplating considering it, we really get on and I've always been intrigued and interested about dogging I'm only 20 and have never done dogging or swinging but would really love to try!

Any advice from someone experienced on the whole dogging scene and if it's a good idea to go with a client?
Would love to hear from some of you!
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