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Carolina

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Couples and woman
« on: 26 June 2014, 02:04:37 pm »
I'm thinking on work for couples.

Sex is sex.

I never had an experiencie with a girl or a couple, but I know I'm able to do that and I would like.

Don't know how men will react if put in a profile I accept woman and couples.... This things are normal in male escorts I think.

To be honest I don't if accepting couples is good idea. Two people ... what can they do?


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Re: Couples and woman
« Reply #1 on: 26 June 2014, 03:02:27 pm »
How will men react?Lots of escorts offer to see couples or other ladies it is not really very unusual.
I would say be absolutely sure you are happy offering sex to women.It can be horrible having a booking with another lady that is not actually bisexual or at least bicurious.
Are you happy to french kiss,give and recieve oral and finger/be fingered with or by a girl?
Be prepared also to attract alot of timewasters.Men who ring asking if you will see then and their wife,always say you need to speak to the female too...amazingly when you ask to speak to both parties the bloke makes an excuse or never calls back.

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Re: Couples and woman
« Reply #2 on: 04 July 2014, 09:37:14 am »
I saw an asian guy once and his wife and she wasn't into it at all she was so shy, it was the guy who wanted to see his wife with another woman.I had to end up telling him to leave the room whilst i spoke to the poor girl and i told her i wouldn't do anything she didn't want me to do ( which wasn't a lot).
You must make sure both parties are up for it.
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Re: Couples and woman
« Reply #3 on: 04 July 2014, 10:02:12 pm »
How will men react?Lots of escorts offer to see couples or other ladies it is not really very unusual.
I would say be absolutely sure you are happy offering sex to women.It can be horrible having a booking with another lady that is not actually bisexual or at least bicurious.
Are you happy to french kiss,give and recieve oral and finger/be fingered with or by a girl?
Be prepared also to attract alot of timewasters.Men who ring asking if you will see then and their wife,always say you need to speak to the female too...amazingly when you ask to speak to both parties the bloke makes an excuse or never calls back.

Amen

I would absolutely love a genuine booking from a couple, but the ones I've had in the North East have been timewasters. I've never spoke to the female.

If u do want to indulge, I'd probably say you'd be better trying it out down a swinging route or experimenting with someone. You don't want to find out u might not like it when you're being paid for it & they can see it, or can tell you're inexperienced.

I'm completely bisexual & its crap when u do duos with someone inexperienced or acting it.

Abbi xxx

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Re: Couples and woman
« Reply #4 on: 04 July 2014, 10:11:12 pm »
Gosh I hAve the same chap call me from a land line once a month wanting him n his wife ( who he changes the name each time )to meet up describes her etc when I say put her on the phone he hangs up .... He obviously is a TW and getting a kick from the fantasy ... Drives me insAne ... I've  yet to see a "real couple " yet ... I get loads of "me and my Gf want to meet blah blah but nothing materialises xx

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Re: Couples and woman
« Reply #5 on: 04 July 2014, 11:23:41 pm »
You have to be careful with couples. I used to get them all the time in the strip club and they were always my least favorite, the girl would just get insecure/jealous and become a total bitch, pushing me out of the way, being snappy and catty, the guy gets annoyed but can't say anything, and then she gets pissy when it's time to tip. Or you have some girl who flinches everytime you come close to her and acts disgusted if you so much as stick your boobs in her face, not sure which is worse. The couples I have had that were good were AWESOME though, but the girl was always bisexual in that case and came across as very confident, I won't do anything with couples if I pick up on an inch on insecurity on the girls part, I don't want to make her feel worse about herself anyway. When it's worked out it was also usually a girl who worked in the industry, a escort, ex-stripper, burlesque dancer, cam girl, or they were swingers/into the fetish scene.

I have my first couple this week, I'm excited but I've gotten tons of requests from couples and this is the first one I've agreed to book. The guy contacted me but was cool with me speaking to his wife and she basically just said she's bisexual and it's for her, not him, but she isn't comfortable with me touching her husband she just wants to be with me while he watches and after a bit she'll let him fuck her, which is fine with me! They've done it several times before with escorts though and have put effort planning it, renting out a nice hotel room, etc-- I won't go to a couples house.


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Re: Couples and woman
« Reply #6 on: 05 July 2014, 01:16:12 am »
You have to be careful with couples. I used to get them all the time in the strip club and they were always my least favorite, the girl would just get insecure/jealous and become a total bitch, pushing me out of the way, being snappy and catty, the guy gets annoyed but can't say anything, and then she gets pissy when it's time to tip. Or you have some girl who flinches everytime you come close to her and acts disgusted if you so much as stick your boobs in her face, not sure which is worse. The couples I have had that were good were AWESOME though, but the girl was always bisexual in that case and came across as very confident, I won't do anything with couples if I pick up on an inch on insecurity on the girls part, I don't want to make her feel worse about herself anyway. When it's worked out it was also usually a girl who worked in the industry, a escort, ex-stripper, burlesque dancer, cam girl, or they were swingers/into the fetish scene.

I have my first couple this week, I'm excited but I've gotten tons of requests from couples and this is the first one I've agreed to book. The guy contacted me but was cool with me speaking to his wife and she basically just said she's bisexual and it's for her, not him, but she isn't comfortable with me touching her husband she just wants to be with me while he watches and after a bit she'll let him fuck her, which is fine with me! They've done it several times before with escorts though and have put effort planning it, renting out a nice hotel room, etc-- I won't go to a couples house.

Is this from your experience of less than a month? Or less than a week? It's a bit confusing as you seem to have a few different stories...?

I'm just trying to understand, as I'm sure others are

caylee_k

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Re: Couples and woman
« Reply #7 on: 05 July 2014, 01:17:54 am »
^Uhm well if you actually read my post you would see I was talking about couples in a strip club?

 ??? ??? ???

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Re: Couples and woman
« Reply #8 on: 05 July 2014, 01:28:11 am »
^Uhm well if you actually read my post you would see I was talking about couples in a strip club?

 ??? ??? ???

This is primarily a site for escorts. The clue is in the title! I wouldn't ignore anyone looking for advice outside of this demographic. However, if you aren't an escort looking for advice (or looking to offer it) then I would suggest it isn't the ideal place for unrelated US strip-club anecdotes which have nothing to do with escorting?

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Re: Couples and woman
« Reply #9 on: 05 July 2014, 01:34:18 am »
Mimi-licious, we've had this conversation before in the multiple PMs you chose to send me even after I told you to stop messaging me... since you have such dislike towards me and think I'm a horrible person, I'm not sure why you're even responding to my posts. It is not your place to tell me what I can and cannot post on this board. I see a great similarity between the clients I have had as a stripper and the clients I had an escort. Perhaps you think they are entirely different, but both professions are in the sex industry and I use the skills I have developed as a stripper over the past 5 years to screen my clients, interact with them, and please them. I am currently working in both industries. I am a working escort and I have every right to post on this board. If you think my advice is useless don't read it, it's really simple!

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Re: Couples and woman
« Reply #10 on: 05 July 2014, 02:16:57 am »
Mimi-licious, we've had this conversation before in the multiple PMs you chose to send me even after I told you to stop messaging me... since you have such dislike towards me and think I'm a horrible person, I'm not sure why you're even responding to my posts. It is not your place to tell me what I can and cannot post on this board. I see a great similarity between the clients I have had as a stripper and the clients I had an escort. Perhaps you think they are entirely different, but both professions are in the sex industry and I use the skills I have developed as a stripper over the past 5 years to screen my clients, interact with them, and please them. I am currently working in both industries. I am a working escort and I have every right to post on this board. If you think my advice is useless don't read it, it's really simple!

Caylee

I find it incredibly insulting that you are trying to blacken my character through your petty use of what is supposed to be a supportive thread, where people help one another.

Yes, we have exchanged PMs and if I were of the same mentality as you, I would say much more. However, this is a public board designed to help and support people. It is not there for bickering so I'm sorry to disappoint you.

KimberlyC

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Re: Couples and woman
« Reply #11 on: 05 July 2014, 07:41:50 am »
I think Caylee's post about couples in a strip club was perfectly pertinent to this discussion. Of course there are some differences between stripping and escorting, but men and women are largely the same in both the US and the UK and the dynamic she's talking about where the woman may not actually be into it seems like something one could encounter in either setting/either country.

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Re: Couples and woman
« Reply #12 on: 05 July 2014, 07:53:43 am »
I think Caylee's post about couples in a strip club was perfectly pertinent to this discussion. Of course there are some differences between stripping and escorting, but men and women are largely the same in both the US and the UK and the dynamic she's talking about where the woman may not actually be into it seems like something one could encounter in either setting/either country.

Completely agree!

I've had a couple of couples bookings and have really enjoyed them but you do need to speak to both parties and see what they are both happy with. I would say 1 in 20 couples enquirys actually turns into a booking, the other 19 hang up when I ask to speak to the woman.   ::)
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Re: Couples and woman
« Reply #13 on: 05 July 2014, 10:59:48 am »
Each to their own!  :)

Ok, I concede that perhaps there was relevance in the stripping vs escorting example - sorry folks.

I don't generally find the stripping examples add anything, particularly in terms of the writing style but I guess we are all allowed our opinions.