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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #15 on: 29 October 2012, 07:55:43 pm »

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I think she means the verification photo - it's not essential for UK ladies, but may be compulsary for Europeans...?

Diana - you can choose to have it hidden. Make sure you tick the box to hide it.

I'm in London.

I know you are - are you from UK? UK citizens don't need to verify profiles, nor do they have to send verification pics. I'm unsure about European citizens, I'd have to check the (many) rules on Adultwork. If you can start a profile without verifying, there's absolutely no reason why you should get verified at this point in time.

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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #16 on: 29 October 2012, 07:58:22 pm »
No, they ask for the vertification in the first 24 hours of the profile. :( i''ll send it with blured eyes, i may change a little and the colour of my hair. The good thing is that i'm a specialist in photoshop, so i'll do my best. Tip for you, if you never need help with your photos, feel free to ask me to do it for you.

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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #17 on: 29 October 2012, 08:12:25 pm »
Ah I see. AW can be a tad confusing to begin with. I stick to my emails and profile summary on my app lol. Must upload sone more recent photos when I get the energy to plough through the system!

Just a note on the apearance front. Many guys love the stereotypical barbie girl escort. And many love the average housewife next door look. I don't think a more stereotypical image generates more cash. I think it depends on how you Market yourself.

Make sure to have a set list of limits and boundaries and a working character. AW has a long list of likes so make sure whatever you've 'liked' you do actually like. Xxx
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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #18 on: 29 October 2012, 08:24:04 pm »
Yes, i understand what you say about the "likes listing". I tried to be as honest, as possible.
Girls, another part that scaries me a little, is the safety. What should i do with bad clients? What are you doing in these situations? What if someone tries to hit me or does something that i don't want?
And also, the condoms, are really the best protection against viruses?

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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #19 on: 29 October 2012, 08:28:33 pm »
Diana when I first started I listed myself as liking OWO not realising fully that I'd be swallowing pre cum from men I was seriously unattracted to, I guess I thought, I could do it for the money as I done it in my personal life. Huge difference!

As for the safety, have you got a friend you trust who could be your buddy? There's loads on here regarding safety.

Condoms are the only STD preventive measure I know of. Oral dams are an idea for RO.  And spermicidal lube is used by some ladies I know. Xx
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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #20 on: 29 October 2012, 08:39:43 pm »
Sorry for forgeting to answer. My rate is 200. I saw many pictures all those days, i'm really slim, quite tall, and as they say mediterannean pretty. I think that this is a good price for my appearance, to begin with.

What you need to remember is this - that there are going to be many many pretty girls in your area who will charge a lot less than this, and also - looks are only one small aspect of escorting, there is a lot more to it than that.

Do you enjoy sex or can you give a good appearance of doing so with guys of all ages/looks/weight? 
Do you have something unique that will help you to stand out from the competition?
Can you go the extra mile with regards to attitude, enthusiasum and service?

Those are just a few of the things you need to consider  ;D

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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #21 on: 29 October 2012, 08:50:24 pm »
No i don't have a buddy. :( can i find here one?
But and as i wrote in my profile in AW, i can't do incalls ( i share a flat), so i can go only to hotels. This is safer, isn't it?

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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #22 on: 29 October 2012, 08:53:52 pm »
Every one of us have different ideas on safety. My own preference is incalls in a holiday apartment or rented flat. I don't like hotels, possibly because I'm lazy lol but maybe because I get goose bumps doing them.
You can offer outcalls to hotels or you can book one and take incalls there.

You may find a buddy on here or by asking a trusted friend.
Alternatively check AW and see if any ladies are interested in pairing up. Xx
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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #23 on: 29 October 2012, 08:57:30 pm »
and something last (for today heh), as a indie i can choose my clients, correct?

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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #24 on: 29 October 2012, 09:05:52 pm »
and something last (for today heh), as a indie i can choose my clients, correct?

Yes. No one can force you to sleep with (or see) anyone you don't want to :)

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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #25 on: 30 October 2012, 11:22:22 am »
Lol anyone see punting forum's take on this thread?...
As for asking about the face photo, I'm pretty sure that's just the verification photo and not a requirement, as in you won't be able to join unless... It's just if you want to be verified, which is admittedly pretty useful!

As people have pointed out though, it might be worth checking the going rate for services and matching it somewhat- for any girl, especially if this is your sole source of income.. It's ridiculous but sometimes even if I put my price down by ?20 there's a noticeable difference in calls!

Also, not doing incalls is likely to be an issue.. Personally I only get maybe one a week.. I do however find that agencies tend to have more outcall work- if working for agencies is something you're still considering feel free to PM me- recently decided to work for a couple as AW was getting a bit dead, and spent a considerable amount of time researching the good ones (now with an added bonus of actually working with them) so can advise which ones are decent, in my experience.

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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #26 on: 30 October 2012, 05:25:56 pm »
Girls, i want to thank you all!!
I just dealed my first booking for next Tuesday, from AW. :)
Thank you for the advice and for introducing me this site. Hope goes well, i'll keep you updated. :)

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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #27 on: 30 October 2012, 06:48:36 pm »
Congrats!  :) I'm sure you'll do we'll, and, after the security stuff is done the most important thing to do is to ENJOY! ;D xxx

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Re: Newbie to the industry, ready to get crazy!
« Reply #28 on: 31 October 2012, 12:32:02 am »
Hi and welcome.

 I don't think many of us have had much experience being pimped out at brothels and those of us who have certainly would not advise anyone to go into agency/parlour/brothel work.

 I for one would not recommend it! From experience!

I think the best thing to do is to make a profile on AW. as has been suggested.

It's free, simple and there's a handy app for the iPhone :)

 I have never shown my face and I advertise myself as I wish. I have my own do's and don'ts and I charge my own rates. It's fab being indie :) Try it, you might like it ;) xxx

im pretty happy and i work for an agency in a brothel. same thing happened to me when i first applied (at the place i work at now actually) they never got back to me until few months later after applying again but rather than saying no previous experience i told them another agency were interested in me and how id had a paid for sex arrangement with someone i knew. got an interview after that
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