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EnglishKaty

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NEWBIE, things going badly!
« on: 19 October 2018, 07:04:56 pm »
Hi I’m Katy,

Decided to put myself in AW and give escorting a try. I was supposed to do my first meeting early this evening, went to the meeting place as I only do outcalls. When I got there I was approached by 2 men in the space of a few minutes but neither were the client. My luck got even worse as my uncle cane walking out of the shop I was outside of and started talking to me. He was asking what I was doing there etc. I managed to get rid of him and a few minutes later the client messaged me asking what I was wearing. Stupidly I messaged back with exactly what I had on and didn’t receive a message back. I have an awful gut feeling that it was my uncle that had made the booking. Trust me luck for my first ever one :( I’m really upset and embarrassed.


Apart from that I have so far I have had some interest but most want a picture of my face before booking or to have car meets, neither of which I am willing to do. I also had a guy that wanted to rub himself around my clit without a condom and I said no. I’ve got two bookings for next week but let’s face it, they can be cancelled any time yet so I am not counting them. Am I being too picky with the things I am willing to do?

Any advice appreciated and please don’t laugh too much at my disaster of a first booking :(

Xx Katy
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Re: NEWBIE, things going badly!
« Reply #1 on: 19 October 2018, 08:46:39 pm »
One mistake was to not have an address at which the booking was going to happen - not some random 'outside the supermarket' meeting place. If it's a hotel, you can then check that someone is there. If it's a home, you can ask for a name you can check.

As a new person on AW, you're going to get people trying it on who either have zero intention of booking you (TW / picture collectors) or want to push boundaries.

No, you're not being too picky. It's possible you're not being picky enough.
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Re: NEWBIE, things going badly!
« Reply #2 on: 19 October 2018, 08:57:23 pm »
You were going to meet outside somewhere?? Why? Never do this. How are you going to keep safe if you are meeting someone in a random location? It also sounds like you are just meeting people without letting anyone know where you are going. That's very, very dangerous. You need to let someone know you will be at X address and discreetly text them when you arrive and leave.

You aren't being picky enough, I only do outcalls, and unless I have an actual address and other assurances like fuck am I going to meet anyone. And absolutely don't do cars when your basic safety measure needs a massive overhaul.

I suggest you take a good long read at all the safety advice on here and https://saafe.info/ 
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Re: NEWBIE, things going badly!
« Reply #3 on: 19 October 2018, 10:42:23 pm »
Could be that the OP has read advice on dating sites, always meet in a public place for safety.

This is a far cry from dating though and needs a whole new train of thought.  To meet a new client publicly means the man can be watching from nearby and giving you the once over to decide if he will turn up or not.

There could be worse intentions of course and the uncle story is a bit strange in my view.
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Re: NEWBIE, things going badly!
« Reply #4 on: 19 October 2018, 11:54:23 pm »
As far as this is concerned..

Good advice from dating: someone knows where you are, and when you're going to call them to say you're ok. They needn't know cash is involved. If you're doing outcalls, real clients should expect to give info so that someone knows who you're with too.

Bad advice from dating: you meet in a public place.

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Re: NEWBIE, things going badly!
« Reply #5 on: 20 October 2018, 12:42:18 am »
This job is a learning curve. It took me , weeks, months even years to perfect my screening on clients.
When you are new, people WILL try to take advantage on absolutely everything.
ALWAYS make sure someone knows where you are,  and when,  and who you are with.
Make sure the client sees you texting/calling someone on your arrival and have 2 phones with you.
Try to put on your ad that you are an experienced escort that should help in weeding out the timewasters.
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Re: NEWBIE, things going badly!
« Reply #6 on: 20 October 2018, 03:15:37 pm »
I think you are thinking the worst, likely the guy who booked you was just a timewaster. PLEASE take all the advice given above.
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Re: NEWBIE, things going badly!
« Reply #7 on: 21 October 2018, 08:49:57 am »
Not much to add to the advice.  But please do trust you're instincts when it comes to your safety. You're never being too picky when it comes to that.  And again, don't over think or beat yourself up this, we all encounter time wasters.
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