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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: MissTee on 30 May 2014, 09:14:43 pm
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Hi Ladies
I had an enquiry to my work email today from a fairly local chap asking for oral & intercourse to become a regular thing... (Im aware it probably wouldnt be regular!)... I messaged back anyway asking how long he'd like to book etc. In the meantime I logged on to my AdultWork page where he'd messaged me there also, so took a look at his profile.... basically it said things such as happy to take girls virginity, happy to make you pregnant as it's cheaper than IVF and so it went on, he only had 1 review from 2012.
Anyway, he then emailed me that he wanted to let his sperm enter my womb stating, 'you know what to do' and hes been seeing an escort since she was 17 (??!!!) for 3 years and now shes moving and he's only available at 1.30am as hes in a shared house etc etc....
I replied saying I'm not what hes looking for etc and thank you for the enquiry, BUT as a newbie and only having 3 enquiries so far.... is this the type of jargon that you get alot??
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As your new you will get a lot of rubbish like that and time wasters and idiots trying to get you to offer services you don't do, if you are strict and firm then they will get bored, although you will still get the odd one.
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Thanks Chrissie x
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Eeeeeeeeewwww what a delusional creep!
Avoid at all costs and block him.
Unfortunately as a newbie, you really need to have your wits about you because you will get lost of weirdos and timewasters try to pull a fast one but as you get more experienced, you'll be able to smell a rat much better.
Of course no matter how experienced you are in this line of work, there's always one oddball that slips through the net and manages to pass our vetting process but just make sure you have some sort of security in place.
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Yes its normal when you are new alot of the veteran knobheads and timewasters go on the prowl it will lessen as you go along. Best to just delete and block.
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Thanks ladies, also had a guy ring about 7 times today when id emailed him to say I wasnt working. When I decided to answer he actually seemed a decent genuine man.... id like to think I've fairly good instinct... ive now created a personal voicemail and turned my phone off.
desperate to find a buddy for my outcalls though for extra security... ill only be doing max 2 a week due to 'normal' lifexx
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Try and get a call blocker on your phone and always remember to log numbers of timewasters/knobheads/no shows. Seems obvious but I have known veteran ladies not always log these people. Saves answering the idiot brigade and getting yourself stressed. :)
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Thanks ladies, also had a guy ring about 7 times today when id emailed him to say I wasnt working. When I decided to answer he actually seemed a decent genuine man.... id like to think I've fairly good instinct... ive now created a personal voicemail and turned my phone off.
desperate to find a buddy for my outcalls though for extra security... ill only be doing max 2 a week due to 'normal' lifexx
But remember anyone can put on a polite voice. Personally I think actions speak louder than words and I think phoning someone 7 times is plain weird. If I met a guy on a nite out and he phoned me 7 times, I would think stalker and never see him again. If anyone phoned me 7 times in my personal life, you would instantly think there was some sort of emergency. I just think phoning someone that amount of times is a red flag that they are a complete tit and completely ignorant, the fact you told him that it was your day off and he chose to harass you with calls anyway is an even bigger red flat. I'd block that person regardless of how nice he sounds but then I am choosy and have zero tolerance for anything that doesn't sound normal. xx
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Try and get a call blocker on your phone and always remember to log numbers of timewasters/knobheads/no shows. Seems obvious but I have known veteran ladies not always log these people. Saves answering the idiot brigade and getting yourself stressed. :)
This exactly!
But remember anyone can put on a polite voice. Personally I think actions speak louder than words and I think phoning someone 7 times is plain weird. If I met a guy on a nite out and he phoned me 7 times, I would think stalker and never see him again. If anyone phoned me 7 times in my personal life, you would instantly think there was some sort of emergency. I just think phoning someone that amount of times is a red flag that they are a complete tit and completely ignorant, the fact you told him that it was your day off and he chose to harass you with calls anyway is an even bigger red flat. I'd block that person regardless of how nice he sounds but then I am choosy and have zero tolerance for anything that doesn't sound normal. xx
I will see guys who do this, but it does make me wary. But I agree with PP - that IF I was to be working from my home address where I lived , or if it was an outcall to a private home and I did not ave security sitting outside then I too would block the people who phone incessantly. 2-3 times in a row , or maybe 5 over a whole day = fair enough. But any more than that would get my idiot radar up.
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But remember she told him it was her day off and he STILL harassed her with calls x
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Yeah it wouldn't be the amount of calls that would bother me it would be the fact I had said no.Be wary of boundary pushers.
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Sorry ladies, I wasnt, clear. I hadnt told him via email it was my day off but that I had bad signal (bloody phones!!) And to leave a voicemail. A voicemail was , left but it sounded like an in pocket noise as could hear car indicators, maybe thats why the calls were in quick succession?!?
Really appreciating all your help though ladies, especially as a newbs.... on another note, I went shopping for stuff for my outcall bag today, now thats a whole-nother ball game lol!! Xx
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Well yes probably so.Probably not a bad guy then if you had told him to ring you.
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I'd steer well clear. 'Shared house' is also a no no when it comes to male clients UNLESS you know they're ok and theres a lock on the bedroom door. In my humble opinion! Polite voices mean NOTHING. Serial killers can be polite lol.
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Thanks ladies, also had a guy ring about 7 times today when id emailed him to say I wasnt working When I decided to answer he actually seemed a decent genuine man.... id like to think I've fairly good instinct... ive now created a personal voicemail and turned my phone off.
desperate to find a buddy for my outcalls though for extra security... ill only be doing max 2 a week due to 'normal' lifexx
But you said you emailed him to tell him you were not working?? I'm confused x
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Ive fudged up.....told him I wasnt working as in not doing outcalls but to call and leave a message if easier... then the calls came in fairly quick succession with a 2 min voicemail of just car noise. Sorry ladies!!! X