Hey there...i am a BBW and want to get into escorting...was wondering if anyone has any advice for me on how to get started I'm not really sure if i want to sleep with them at the moment but i would look into doing it at some point...any advice would be greatly appreciated

Hi there,

Thanks for your reply...I have thought about it and I know its not easy...i really think i could do it...i love sex and meeting new people. I have read all the posts and things but i would rather sit down and speak to someone who has experience of doing it and can help me out at the start??

If you know anyone that can help me i would be really grateful

Holiday xx

Hi there,

Thanks for your reply...I have thought about it and I know its not easy...i really think i could do it...i love sex and meeting new people. I have read all the posts and things but i would rather sit down and speak to someone who has experience of doing it and can help me out at the start??

If you know anyone that can help me i would be really grateful

Holiday xx

Well, you've made the first good move and requested a buddy in your area.  Also drop Penny a line at www.escortbuddys.com to see if she has anyone in your area.

It's a love-in with Joey this morning because I agree that no matter what anybody tells you, they can give you all the advice you need, there's nothing like experiencing it the first time yourself. But that's not to say you still shouldn't have a chat with somebody first, to at least get a rough idea.

I think when people say 'easy' money, they mean 'fast' money.

Spot on. That's exactly what it is imho. "Fast(quick)" and "easy" are two seperate things when it comes to this job. If (some of) the male members of Punternet are to be believed, absolutely no thought goes into what we do at all. This is a business, just one like no other. But we're self-employed, therefore we only have ourselves to depend on. This job can sometimes be emotionally and physically taxing and as I said before, you have to be of a certain strong character to succeed in it.

If you do decide to go ahead, take some more time, make use of the search facility and read the main site. Yes, there's a lot of it, but you don't have to read everything now. Start with what pertains to you now, our 10 point starter guide for instance, what to do on outcalls, what to do if you're taking incalls, parts of the site that relate to your taking those first few steps, then read the rest at your leisure.
And good luck.

try it without money being involved. A book I like suggests going to a bar, and picking up an average man.

I take it that one cannot cheat and be drunk while trying this technique as the 'average' or 'repulsive' guy may actually come out looking as cute as Carlson Daly in the dim lighting and intoxication LOL.

If you can't do it sober, I'd say you know what the answer to 'is this for me' is.

Have to second this. I don't think alcohol and escorting mix well. The last thing you want to do is miss a subtle warning sign, or ignore your own feelings about your work and what you're doing at the time, because you're in that 'everything's gonna be fine' second glass of wine phase! It can be important to pay attention to so many little things during a booking.

Not to mention even bigger risks that come from alcohol, but they're much more widely publicized so no point repeating them here to a bunch of ladies and men who actually have their heads screwed on.

Brandy is right if you have any doubt dont get into the industry.   Buddies are a great there are so many nutters out there and Penny is really experienced she will be able to tell you a lot and not through rose tinted specs either which is what you need.

Was just a joke. If anybody is injured by it I have a 1st aid kit luv.