Sigh, you are right LadyLust, I remember the golden times 8-7-6 years ago, I was with an agency, only one agency and could easily had 10 men a day ( had I wanted such amount ) paying 200 per hour, when I decided to make a comeback, a year ago, I joined an agency, paid for expensive photos...I went through weeks of no bookings for 150 per hour, so I decided to join another 4 agencies and I would go thru an okay week and then down again nothing for two weeks.
I was struggling and then a friend who retired from AW recommended the site to me, having never been a indie before I had my reservations and I was worried about my safety etc. but I gave it a go and initially I was only attracting non-members and timewasters and dodgy sounding people, but I encouraged people to email me first for enquiries rather than call direct so within 3 months I managed to build up a decent FB and now attracting decent member with prolific FB themselves. it just takes time, its all down to your personality too, I am far from being a tall slim blonde Barbie doll, but I am always very friendly, respectful, I don't watch the clock/ check phone in front of them ( major turn off for clients ). Its also good not to practise back to back bookings ( unless you must ), because then you will enjoy yourself more and clients will feel it. If you are tired, grumpy overworked they will never come back.