Maria, you do not have prove yourself to anybody - may I remind members that it is up to each individual whether they decide to post anonymously and there are many ladies who do exactly that without being expected to vouch for themselves. The trolls do come and go, but generally get bored long before they get to cause trouble, since it isn't a particularly incendiary atmosphere on the forum and this is as it should be
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For what it's worth I don't think the OP's syntax or vocabulary come across as male, more as someone perhaps quite young for their age and trying to find an 'in' to a group of people who she perceives in a particular way; we really ought to be used to it by now. And as Lucy said, if advice is sought on here, it will be given, this is what the site is for.
We won't judge, Maria but we will never condone or encourage illegal activity of any kind, and the advice anyone receives will generally be of the type that promotes a responsible and safe way of working, which in the case is entirely at odds with the thread starter, but we also ought to remember that you haven't actually started working yet (and looking at your profile, I shudder to think of some of the emails you'll have got).
The overriding feeling I get from your posts (and you are not the only one we have here at the moment) is that you are still associating your personal life and the things you enjoy/want to do with the job, and it is just not appropriate for you to do so. This doesn't mean you should be providing services you don't enjoy or pretending to be something you're not, but this is a way to earn money, not a fun/exciting way to get your kicks, and if you continue to think it is, you are playing a very dangerous game. Adultwork in particular is renowned for making it easy for the unscrupulous to target newbies, and as has already been said, this work needs to be approached with the same sort of professional attitude that providing any other personal service would - advertising yourself to basically be used and abused by all comers for a poxy ?70 an hour is more than likely going to teach you that this isn't anywhere near as much fun as you thought it might be. And what are you planning to do if you decide ten minutes in that it maybe isn't such a good idea?
I have known people in all parts of the industry and particularly BDSM providers who include among their services medical fetishes, breath play, knife and needle play, hot wax, serious CBT and all the rest of it in addition to every type of role play imaginable. These people have worked, studied and gained experience under others for years and the boundaries and rules agreed and abided by for each encounter are the strictest you are likely to find anywhere outside a US airport security department. Seriously, go to clubs or find a fuck buddy you trust for your fantasy stuff - apart from anything else, expecting clients to cater to your fantasies is not really how it works and why should it? THEY are paying YOU.
I can't really comment on the profile apart from that your prices are far too low, and since you do not offer OWO or CIM I think you may have misunderstood 'Bukkake'.