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meetingdiversity

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Re: Full time job and part time escorting
« Reply #15 on: 20 November 2013, 11:08:20 pm »
Hi girls

I had such a bad day today, was sitting in my office for 8 hours and had to turn down 3 decent bookings  :FF
This happened a few times since I've started escorting.

I could have made 6 times more money with these 3 bookings than I've made in 8 hours, sitting in in the office.
When I started a few weeks ago I thought it is easy to earn a decent amount of money with part time escorting but
I found out that most clients are not able to book in advance and only available during the day time and on short notice.

So I am considering to give up my day time job to start escorting full time.
At the same time I am so scared to lose a secure income that pays  (just) the rent and the bills, I am such a wimp and could kick myself for that.

I know it is my decision but would love to hear if one of you ladies went through the same situation.

Any advice and experience you would like to share would be much appreciated  :)

Thanks
xx
Chloe


A civvy job gives stability regardless, where as escorting does have quiet times and more stressful full on. Also the demand can get a bit too much at times especially when tired.
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Nessa J

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Re: Full time job and part time escorting
« Reply #16 on: 21 November 2013, 10:14:34 pm »
Hi,
I work part time in a very respectable rewarding job and, massage with an occasional escort call too. I too sometimes think that I should give up my job and,keep to massage but, it can't be relied upon.
Weekends are very quiet and,although I am available for most of the week,you can guarantee that the minute you are at your regular job the phone will go berserk'. When, you allow time at home ready for clients,the phone goes quiet and, as one of the other ladies said, clients want to be seen that day, hardly any make prior bookings.
My regular clients know that I work and, are happy to fit in with my availability. I'm guessing that the majority of guys wouldn't give a toss whether you had a regular job too but, when, I chat to mine they seem pleasantly surprised and, have a little respect for you because of it, despite the nature of escort work.
My advice is to stick with a regular job part time and, escort at other avalable times. It has worked for me and, helped me out of financial struggle not, to mention some amazing guys all ages,from all walks of life that I've met. Oddly rewarding which I didn't expect.
My other advice is, Don't get greedy and, feel that you have to rely on your escort earnings. Going to be a long winter' snow keeps clients away..lol ;)

rinaxeee

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Re: Full time job and part time escorting
« Reply #17 on: 22 November 2013, 02:07:05 am »
I strongly recommend you to not to quit your day job.

Full time escorting gets you lots of money, but it has its price. You will need to make up lies to your friends and family, you'll be stuck in lies and feel lonely at the end of the day. You'll have career gap so make plans to get normal job back when you decide to finish full time escorting.

Try balance with day job and escorting, that's the best way.

Miss Moneypenny

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Re: Full time job and part time escorting
« Reply #18 on: 23 November 2013, 11:49:47 am »
Hi Chloe

I recently went back to full-time work, and I'm planning to just do outcalls in the evening and at weekend.

I was surprised at how much I missed being in an office. Yes, it might be a bit boring or stressful at times, and the pay is a lot less in comparison, but I realised how lonely it could be working as an escort. The little things, like going out for a quick drink with colleagues after work makes all the difference. The job I've got is decent and I'm working in the field that I'm qualified in, and it's great having that extra security.

I do 35 hours over four long days, so I have a little bit of flexibility to play with. Doing long days though means that I can be too tired to do any bookings on the evenings when I have already put a long shift in. I have a longish commute as well.  But it fills a big gap in my life, as no one knows about the escorting side. Before, I felt that I couldn't splash out on luxury items and holidays as I couldn't really explain the extra income - I'm a crap liar!!

I'm also planning to a three day tour every month or so to keep 'topped up'. I'm much happier now. It's like having the best of both worlds. When I was working full-time as an escort, the quiet times would leave  me panicking a bit over paying the bills.

Bookings have dropped off as my availability is far less, but If I only do four or five outcall bookings a month, I'm happy with that.

Good luck xx

LilyLovelock

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Re: Full time job and part time escorting
« Reply #19 on: 26 November 2013, 01:09:56 pm »
I have a part time job as well as escorting part time as well.

I find that it's actually better to have the two working simultaneously together, although like yourself the money side of things has made me consider giving up my 'regular' job several times. I'm glad I haven't.

Escorting part time is much easier on yourself then being a full time worker in my eyes. I always get booked up in advance, as I'm only free a couple of days a week, so the days that I am working I am nice and busy.

If I was a full time escort I'd have to deal with those horrible quiet days stuck around doing nothing but waiting for the phone to ring.

Having a part time job also pays everything I need to bills wise so, if everything is getting a little too much for me, I'm feeling unwell or something else I can just take a break from escorting for a couple of weeks and have that little breather without having to worry about money.

If I didn't have that job to fall back on then I would have to escort every week, no holiday or sickness pay for an escort either. You don't work you don't make money.

I would urge you to keep your job, or A job at least, just so you have that to fall back on :)

xoxo