I quit my toxic job, got a better one (that I had to take a small pay cut for), only to get fired from it 

The first job gave me a 401k but they take a 30% cut to get the money (and I was going to use it to move back to my.hometown--I currently live in a US territory so I'd have to pay movers, a ticket, hotel, etc AS WELL AS WINTER CLOTHES

So I'm technically broke but still have bills. A man that likes me offered to help me (we all know what that means). Normally I would take this but depending on a man for my bread and butter is a no for obvious reasons. Ofc he's telling me its not gonna be like that blah blah blah but we all know....

What would you do in this situation? The only things I can think of is...

1. See if I can get my old job back. I lowkey feel like they're gonna say no because a lot of the higher ups don't like me

2. Keep looking for jobs--if you've ever heard of Coolworks I was considering that even though I'm scared :/

Something else I should mention--Im out of shape. I'm currently working on it because I know this industry is mostly about how you look but sexwork isn't something I can consider right this minute

A man that likes me offered to help me (..)  Normally I would take this but depending on a man for my bread and butter is a no for obvious reasons. Ofc he's telling me its not gonna be like that blah blah blah but we all know....

Is there a price you'd be prepared to have sex with him for? Tell him what it is (and that you want it upfront).

Something else I should mention--Im out of shape. I'm currently working on it because I know this industry is mostly about how you look (..)

No, it's about how you market yourself. There are plenty of potential clients who will be delighted that you're not slim.

This is a sex work forum OP.

I'm assuming you can't consider 'sex work' right now because of a civil job, living with family, kids custody issues etc... (?) Having sex in exchange of money is pretty much sex work, so if yours is a moral/ethical issue your 'sugar daddy arrangement' aint gonna work and you might be better off getting a civil job.

No I meant I didn't want him to be my only income ie if we have a disagreement I don't want to be in an uncomfortable situation

Why have you come onto a sex work forum if you don't want to consider sex work 🤔

I don't mind sex work I'm just uncomfortable with him/that being my only income